Or any thing Sexual,,,And he told me he was only with me to get in my PANTS!
2007-06-01 19:47:51 · 29 answers · asked by cheerbaby1312 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But then again he swears up and down he just said taht cause he got mad at me
and he really odes carea bt me he just DONT wanna hurt me
2007-06-01 19:54:32 · update #1
its not that im not ready to have sex with him cause he is the person i wanna spend my life with! But i am scared because my sister was raped when i was little and i am affraid he will leave me after wards [[we are both VIRGINS]]
2007-06-01 19:58:56 · update #2
Find someone that will respect and cherish you. You should never allow a man to make you feel like thats all your good for. He doesn't love you and you need to see it and accept it otherwise your just going to end up getting hurt in this situation.
-NmD!
2007-06-01 19:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ouch, i feel for you buddy. Honestly, i feel that you were wrong for "mesing" around with her when she was in a relationship. Because if you look at it this way..if she had done it to him she'd do it to you. right? It's messed up though because most guys start off nice, until they get their hearts broken then they turn to pricks. Don't let that happen to you. As for your ex, let her go. I'm sure it;s not what you wanna hear but you've gotta love your self first. Don't put ur heart out on the line when it seems as though she hasn't attempted to meet u half way. Stay strong and if possible try to go out, maybe meet new people take it slow. last but not least, its corny but it helps...make a list. good and bad. all the good things about this girl and al the bad things ex all the things she's done that hurt you. if the bad out weighs the good then you know what you've gotta do. best luck to u pal. and member love your self first
2016-05-19 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u love somebody who doesn't love you? If he really loved you he would wait. He obviously is just trying to use your feelings to get in your pants.
If you really do love him that much and he is willing to compromise, then maybe you both can decide on other sensual things besides intercourse. All I know is that most, not all, guys at some time or another will want some physical expressions of love. Its just mostly guy nature...thats it in a nutshell and good luck....
2007-06-01 19:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anti-Hero 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Move on.Unfortunately,there was only a physical attraction and it seems like he only wanted a piece.Sorry but if there are no feelings on his part then I'm afraid you'll just be getting used if you try to keep him around.Find someone who actually respects and loves you for who you are,not what you can give them.......Good Luck to you.
2007-06-01 19:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He told you himself, he doesn't care about you he just wants to get into your pants. Hello! What does that tell you? Find a guy who is willing to marry you. Save yourself for the committed man. The one who will wait until you are married to him, to have the privilege of sex with you. Sex is for married people only.
This other guy will get into anyone's pants that will let him. He has no commitment to anyone. He will be like a honey bee going from flower to flower.
2007-06-01 19:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay honey he spelled it out for you "he only wanted to get in your pants" and he did whatever he could to try which means the guy that you know is not really the guy you know! he was completely fake to you which means you do not know him at all!! sorry you fell for him but think about it, he has been lying to you verbally and emotionally just to have sex, everything about him is fake the person you fell in love with is not real!! so grieve cause you need to, but it is time to let him go and find the person out there who will actually be true to you and be with you for you and not what is in your pants!
it is time for you to move on and just be thankful that you did not fall for his bull and trust me you will be thankful!
good for you for holding on to your values, you should be proud of yourself!! you will get through this!
2007-06-01 19:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by goodear 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You walk away and don't turn back. I know, it hurts, but he made it VERY CLEAR that he doesn't respect you. He's only looking for a piece, not a girlfriend. If he actually loved you, sex wouldn't be an issue. Move on and soon you'll find a guy who respects you and your morals. :)
2007-06-01 19:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by 1M9 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you love this guy, the reasons you won't have sex with him must run pretty deep. Of course, if he all he wanted was to get into your pants, there is nothing for you to do. How can you love this guy? He doesn't seem like a deep person at all.
2007-06-01 19:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It might be better this way. boyfriend and girlfriends who want sex so bad might be the only reason he or she stays with you. Find another guy that loves you on the inside not the outside. Dump this guy! He deserves it
2007-06-01 19:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think there's a common theme here. He want's sex and he's not going to get it from you. If he's ok with that, and can keep it within the relationship--that is, date you, not have sex with others--then you can get along. Otherwise, he needs to find his greener pastures and you as well.
2007-06-01 20:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by JoeB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋