what can i do to stop an infatuation with a man at work, he is a security guard ,sooo hot , all i can think of when i pass him by is how much i want him ,and what i would do to him if i had him in the bedroom.
2007-06-01 00:14:13 · 6 answers · asked by angelica h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooooohhh weeeeee!
I know exactly what your feellin---girlfriend!
There's this "flamin-hot" brother who works at the hospital with me,with a smile that simply turns me into melted butter when I see him. Very friendly,and always seems to catch me at the right moment.
(First) I had to check out his background,meaning I had to find out if he was married,had kids,and things like that.
THEN I MADE A MOVE ON HIM!
On one of my "days-off". I put on a short skirt,low-cut blouse,and "kitten-heel sandals. I timed myself,as to when I thought he'd be getting off work. Then I went to the employee parking lot,found his car,and parked next to his,and put the "Hood-Up" on my car,pretending that I was having car problems. When I saw him,I started to "bend-over" as if to be tinkering with my car. He was surprised to see me! (The eyes told on him!). I told him my car would'nt start,and he checked it out. After that,I invited him out for dinner and cocktails. I was the aggressor!. After that,I invited him back to my house,(condoms of course),and "IT WAS ON!".
(PS) This happened years ago,and we have been together for 13 years now!
The moral of this story?
Sometimes we girls have to make the first move. If you have the "Hots" for someone,you can bet someone else is looking at him too!. Don't let someone put his fire out. Grab him while he's still "smokin!",and the fire will never die!
2007-06-01 00:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about him not ever being able to afford to wine and dine you, because security guards do not usually make a lot of money.
2007-06-01 07:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him, little things like saying "Hi" and move onto "you look nice today," or "did you get a haircut". Then ask questions like "are you seeing anyone" and then move from there.
Either that or work back late one night and drag him off to the toilets...
2007-06-01 07:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Acyla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do him and it will go away. Everyone wins
2007-06-01 07:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by diedevil2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stop?
If he's unavailable then just don't talk to him.
2007-06-01 07:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Brad T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-01 07:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by [(:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋