He said it's his way of dealing with his emotions by burying them , but why does he have to crush me more? what kind of logic is this?
2007-06-01 00:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't bother him anymore, but if i bump into him from time to time is really is that bad to me.
2007-06-01 01:44:59 · update #1
"men" logic... men tend to bury or completely disregard handling those touchy emotions after a break-up... their form of self preservation (or defense mechanism)... try to avoid him, don't go out of your way to just catch a glimpse of him, you are only jabbing more deeply at the scar when you do this... breaking up is painful and if it (the relationship) meant anything to either of you, both must find their own way of dealing with it... unfortunately, it seems that some men would rather jump right in to "something else", keep busy so they don't have time to think about it, and/or in your case, treat you horribly... be good to you... allow yourself time to grieve and to feel those emotions, but promise yourself, this will get better and that you deserve more... funny, when i was going through my divorce, i would get so sad and cry, and torment myself with wondering if he hurt just a little of the extent i did... in hindsight, i realize, it doesn't matter now... what matters is, learning that it takes two to love, two halves don't make a whole, and i deserve to be cherished, loved and treated well... pain is just life's way of helping us grow... good luck on your journey, hang in there and one day, you'll feel better and not think about him every waking second of the day... peace
2007-06-01 01:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People react differently to different situations. So, it didnt work out and you broke up. Dont worry anymore, or think about it anymore.Its over and done with.Why watse your time thinking about his behaviour?,when there is so many things you can do gal !Break out of that weather now! Go on, go out , do better things then sitting, analysing his behaviour!Thats not your headache anymore gal.
2007-06-01 00:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no logic! Just completly ignore him! He is bing an asshole because thats how they 'COPE' which is crap. Just get on with your life and ignore him. He's just being a plonker!
2007-06-01 00:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by xStacex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that men for you always putting their wrong doing onto someone else and telling them self that they are the good one guys like this are asshole and always will be keep your head high and have a big smile always
2007-06-01 00:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by wackywaitress2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is hes your ex and hes still treating you badly.. you should just not be around him or have anything to do with him until hes over his "moment" if you were together you would try to be their for him but ur not so you should just let him have his time
2007-06-01 00:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have to crush him back at least double to make him learnt. Don't do it openly, back stab him badly. Good guys will never be rewarded, don't be a fool, do what is just.
2007-06-01 00:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you hanging around your "ex"? Unless you are in high school, get away from him.
2007-06-01 00:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just being a immature jack ***
go find your self a real man
who will treat you just fine.
2007-06-01 00:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by NETTY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he is unable to forget something experienced with you
2007-06-01 00:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by venkatadhri y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's treating you poorly just stop hanging around with him..
why would you want to spend time with someone who treats you bady?
it doesn't help with your self eestem..
2007-06-01 00:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋