i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)"
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?
2007-06-01 03:47:51 · 7 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hm. Sounds to me like she's opening the door for you to ask her out. Women are smart, careful creatures. I'm sure she knows that you are talking about yourself and her.
I'd say go for it!
2007-06-01 04:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! If she can go to you with her issues, you should be able to go to her. It sounds alot like something I'd say and YES it'd be a big red flag to say.."take me, I'm right here waiting." She may only be staying with this other guy because she wants you but is scared that you may not want her because you've heard all the bad things about her relationship. You've already showed her that you care more about her than her guy, and maybe that's just what she's looking for. I agree with her...GO FOR IT!!
2007-06-01 10:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by hdrenollet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she totally has it made, don't cha think. She has her boyfriend and then when she can't get attention from him, she turns to you. So instead of having to communicate with him about getting her needs met, she basically has two guys. Both of which have their own special things they give to her.
Yes I think she knows you were talking about her, and she says things like that to keep you interested in her.
This all may sound harsh, but it is only my opinion because I have been known to do it myself. I never had the intention of hurting anyone, but someone always gets hurt because it is selfish.
Just my opinion, though.
2007-06-01 11:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by IamwatIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's unhappy in her current relationship then I would tell her how you feel but don't pressure her for anything and just see where it goes from there. If she's that unhappy and wants to be with you then she'll be more than happy to dump her current b.f for a chance to be with you. Good luck!
2007-06-01 10:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she knows. if she said that the person may not be happy, then that is a definate line saying "take me now". its something i would say
2007-06-01 10:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Blackcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo thats a tough one. She may or may not you're talking about her but why not tell her! It's her own advice.. either she really wants you to tell her or shes clueless but will be flattered nonetheless
2007-06-01 10:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if she doesn't know how you feel, she certainly sounds open to finding out.
2007-06-01 10:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋