Ok well im 14 and when i was 13 i made a HORRIBLE mistake by going out with this jackbutt lol and we had oral sex. YEAH I know I shouldnt be doing that! I know! And weve been broken up for 4 months maybe now and ever since then hes been telling the whole school and all his friends about what happened and what we did and stuff. And were going to highschool next year and he has an older brother there...and you know he probably already told his brother what happened so they can both harrass me!
Sooo...last night i had a dream that i was somewhere at a table playing cards i think with my friend and my ex and all of his STUPID friends who make hand gestures like oral sex hand gestures...yeah lol... and they sat done on the table and when i saw my ex i did what i always do and roll my eyes and quickly look away. Well i let my friend see this book ( i think i dont really remember) and she was reading it then my ex asked to read it. So he took it. Then he saw me reaching for it since it was
2007-06-01 03:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by coconc93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mine book and he threw it on the floor. So i said " Why are you being so mean to me!!? What did I do to you?!!" And he just looks at me and we hug eachother really tight. And I am balling my eyes out. And his friends are where i can see them and im making hand gestures asking them if hes just faking hugging me or not ( you know just tryna make me believe that hes gonna be nice to me now) so yeah that was my dream!! woo lol! what does it mean?!
2007-06-01 04:01:51 · update #1
Sorry for the typos! lol.
2007-06-01 04:04:47 · update #2
I mean guys are so dang immature! OK by the way he was talking you would THINK that I had actual sex with him but i didnt! And i think another thing is guilty concious because the past 2 days I've been thinking about it like crazy because I dont want my parents to know what i did or they would be crushed. Read my other questions that I've asked to get the whole story.
2007-06-01 04:13:58 · update #3
TRUST AND BELIEVE!!! I WILL NOT be having any types of sex or anything in highschool! It's grades and friends! I can like some boys but not gonna make any mistakes. Like i said im a freak lol and if you get me in that mood I'll go crazy. But thats my dumb fault. And i pray about it that god will forgive me. And im stupid because we just learned about STDS but i prayed to god that i wouldnt get any And im clean.
2007-06-01 04:16:46 · update #4
Subconsciously, it bother you so much that it appear in your dream. The book was a way of escaping from him to indulge in something else that would occupy your time. He didn't like it because he wanted you to pay more attention to him - so he took it and threw it away. By you crying express the hurt feelings you have inside, and him hugging you is just temporary not real
2007-06-01 04:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It menas you have a guilty conscious for doing something you had no business getting into until you were married. This is exactly why younger men and women should not be involved in sex before marriage or at the very least 18 years of age and in a solid relationship. Just get into this ignornat morons face and set him straight, tell him there are things called slander and liable laws that will allow you to sue him blind and put him in jail for blabbing his big mouth about your private matters.
2007-06-01 11:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're just worried about what happened before and when you go high school. The oral sex part of the dream is you're afraid your ex told his friends and everyone starts to gesture to you. Means nothing really, what happened before is bothering you that's all. Just stop thinking about it and start your high school. Avoid the 2 bros.
2007-06-01 11:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dream means that you are worried that your new found reputation of giving oral sex will follow you to high school. Don't worry about it...it will.
Guys talk, always have always will. It's just what they do, for you to think your ex wasn't going to let everyone know what you did was your mistake. Keep that in mind next time because whatever you do will be known to everyone again.
2007-06-01 11:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow...
when ur 13 u dont have oral sex...OK?????
well, stand up fopr yourself and ignore the comments or ask ur parents to let u change high schools
and the dream??
im not sure it means anything but plz plz plz follow the advice above
just be sure to be a recycled virgin from now on...that means no sex (oral and/or ...) until ur married!!!!!!!!!!!!
⥠answer some of my questions too!
2007-06-01 11:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by elphie44 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it means #1you are still stuck on him.#2 you are always going to have that fear in the back of your mind if he only wants you back for one reason.#3you are a little embarrassed to go to school cause of the gossip. These are all normal teen feelings.I could lecture you on the dangers of doing what you did,but I won't.I plead with you though,to please wait.It is sex whether you believe it or not. Good luck.
2007-06-01 11:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by birdlady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that your dream means that you are ashamed of what you did, but you still like your ex, though you are scared that he will be mean to you. I think that your dream is telling you to give him a second chance. Hope I helped!
2007-06-01 11:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by igloo1500 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋