Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

I am not opposed to letting my kids take things over to their dad's house on his weekends. I've never had a problem before until just recently. I don't so much mind clothes getting mixed up or left over there, but my daughter had her NintendoDS stolen at their house. A month later the little girl down the street finally confessed. Now, my son let his step sister "borrow" his IPOD, she took it to school & guess what.....someone stole it. I swore i would never let them take another expensive gadget or toy over there EVER again. They act like that's not fair. These are things I pay for! Should i not be mad at that?? Is there anyone else who doesn't allow their kids to take things over to their ex's?? Am I being unreasonable?

2007-05-21 09:34:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I moved in with my boyfriend of 4 months and I just found out I am pregnant we are very inlove we have no problems but his daughter (13years old) who live with him 4 days a week told him that she is not coming home until I live. She doesn't know that I am pregnant but she is the only child and we know she is not going to like it. She left and my boyfriend didn't heard from her in 2 weeks finally he called her at her mom and she said "When she leaves our house I am coming home, dad" I feel so bad for my boyfriend what to do now?

2007-05-21 09:32:47 · 46 answers · asked by donatella_millian 1 in Family

My boyfriend is cheating on my with my bestfriend, and they both think I don't know. What should I do? I love them both. She's my bestfriend, but should I drop her because of this? Please I really could use the help

2007-05-21 09:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my ex and I have been broken up for about a year now. We've still kept in touch and are friends. A few days ago, he came to me and asked if it would be alright if he asked one of my friends out. I'm not in love with him anymore or anything, but I don't want him seeing her. Does that make me a *****?

2007-05-21 09:29:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is single has three children and works. I need to help her out. I turn 16 in four months but she needs my help over the summer. Any Help?

2007-05-21 09:26:39 · 3 answers · asked by Jake J 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I were having this discussion over the weekend that guys and girls can't be friends. He said that one or the other have to have feelings for each other and I totally disagreed with that. Now I'm curious of what others think.

2007-05-21 09:26:35 · 12 answers · asked by Green eyed Senorita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are too many cheesy love songs, I am just curious if I am all alone in the fact that wedding dance songs tend to suck. I want to give my brother some other options for his dance.

2007-05-21 09:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was with this guy I am dating the other night and we were having sex and in the middle he says that he would like me to be his wife. I said what do you mean. He said that it was just something we should think about in the future. We've talked about this before and he thought I was rushing the relationship. Not that I was trying to get married and have kids but calling him my boyfriend. To him, this was too soon about a month ago. Now, he is saying that he wants to marry me. This is the second time he has said something like this. Both times we were messing around. Is he being serious or just not thinking with his head?

2007-05-21 09:24:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 09:24:53 · 33 answers · asked by david_bowie67 1 in Family

The other day my girlfriend and I were at the house of one of her best friends. While we were there her friend found an opportunity to flirt with me pretty pointedly. I shrugged it off as just being friendly. Then, later in the evening, we were sitting around and her friend made a point of sitting next to me and several times found a reason to lean over, giving me a great view all the way down the front of her sundress.

Now, my opinion is that girls know EXACTLY what they're doing and EXACTLY what they're showing. This friend has recently been having a really tough time with her boyfriend and I have a feeling she's just sort of...well, she's not thinking straight right now.

Question is, should I tell my girlfriend and potentially ruin her friendship with this girl whom I genuinely feel will come around and regret her behavior or do I just keep it to myself? I feel that if I do, that I'm keeping something from her and because of that, I'm sort of cheating.

2007-05-21 09:24:13 · 20 answers · asked by lrwilliams82 3 in Singles & Dating

He and i used to do drugs Recreationally. Him more than me. Way more. Well, we started going to church, and he told me he was done, and a changed man. I think by the way he was talking to me on the phone he has done some today. It's been probably 3 months for him. how can i get him to tell me the truth, and what do i do to tell if he's done any? cocaine???

2007-05-21 09:21:42 · 17 answers · asked by Big B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a jerk. He is not physically abusive, but mentally abusive. He yells at me daily about how "messy" the house is. I work 2 jobs/have 3 kids, so I don't give a crap if the house is messy. It's not even that bad! If I don't "cook" dinner and bring home take out, he gets mad. I have 3 dogs and he constantly complains that our house "stinks" which I, and everyone else doesn't smell! He tells me I am lazy and calls me things like ***** and moron a lot! He is really hard on my son who is 8 (he is not his biological dad) and makes him cry on about a daily basis.

On the other hand....I am scared to leave. I am older (34), out of shape, and have a lovely little disease called HPV (for those of you who don't know, is the virus that causes genital warts - even though I've never had the warts) which will make any future dating totally awful! Also, our house is in his parent's name.

He just tells me I'm too sensative, and at least I'm not getting hit like his mom did!

2007-05-21 09:20:22 · 35 answers · asked by love2dance 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 09:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by minnetta c 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 09:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by Songbird 1 in Singles & Dating

i didnt like the look she gave me today during class

2007-05-21 09:17:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

you had sex?"...i was shocked.....I could not even answer...for atleast a minute...."I just said..."I cannot answer that"...he just moved on like it was a regular question....No wonder, i hate to date....Personal questions are a no, no...DO GUYS JUST NOT REALIZE PERSONAL QUESTIONS ARE OFF LIMITS ON THE FIRST FEW DATES OR WHAT???...i was horrified....

2007-05-21 09:17:00 · 18 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dnt understand the point in watching porn, wether online, video, magazines, w/e it may be. however alot of people for some reason enjoy it. more then anything, i dnt understand why married men or womam watch porn or have any intrest insomething like that when they should be happily married and satisfied with their spouse. maybe im wierd, but i find it offensive.i have caught my husband a couple times downloding some sort of retarded porn.and more then anything it hurt my feelings. most woman i know are not satisfied with their bodies, and dnt have the best self estem, me being one of them. i also recently had a baby, 3 weeks ago and really dnt feel that great about myself then i find him doing something like that. is it cause hes not happy with me sexualy so he looks fo it else were? i know there is better looking out there but it makes me feel like he is not satisfied with me. idk. im sry it sounds like im probably juz complaining. really i am. but has anyone ever gone through this

2007-05-21 09:16:01 · 24 answers · asked by Angelina C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

first love. first real relationship. first time i shed my masks. HELP?!?

2007-05-21 09:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Cooxie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 09:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 09:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hope that everybody will agree with me on this and not the rest of the family.

My 15 y/o daughter asked if her bf could go with us on out trip to Disneyland this summer. She stated that he would be able to cover his own cost for meals and tickets and that since we have 2 rooms at the Disneyland Hotel, it could be my wife, her, and our other daugther in 1 room and me, my son, and him in another room. She further reasons that she knows me well and that the 2 of them will never be out of sight (she is correct on this).
She is a good kid and so is he. It dont think it is a trust issue as much as it is a "being old fashioned" issue.
I thought the wife would back me on saying NO.
She didnt see anything wrong with it.
Brother and sister also said they thought it would be fun.

Does anybody else think this is a bad idea?

2007-05-21 09:12:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

u know the good stuff...(girls) but i dont want to spend any money so please tell me some sites!

2007-05-21 09:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by sean l neosporn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is always changing her name and sometimes also her personality,her voice...I wonder if there is somthing wrong

2007-05-21 09:11:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

guys only...tell me your thoughts on this

2007-05-21 09:10:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our marriage was on the worst time it was always arguements & fights call things to each other around that time she cheated on me, b4 i found out about it i started to do everything to fix our marriage to get her love back, my marriage was getting better & better we started going to church, & counseling, & just when i though our marriage was going to work i found out that she cheated months before. i really love her but i dont think i can forgive her. we have a 3yr old son together & i would like to give it a chance but i always think of it when i see her i'm not sure if i should give her a chance or not she said she was drunk & mad at me & our relationship was bad, that she is sorry that she promise me she will never do anything again that she would be the best wife if i give her a chance. and i would like to because i still love her & because our son, but than again i dont want to be close to her cuz i get mad when i remember. if you a man and been thru this give me you opinion.

2007-05-21 09:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by Never change 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When sending out the invitations I'm putting RSVP's in them do need to put on the return postage?

2007-05-21 09:07:12 · 32 answers · asked by melissa s 1 in Weddings

2007-05-21 09:04:34 · 16 answers · asked by kloey 2 in Singles & Dating

i said some mean stuff to and about my mom but i want to say sorry how should i do that i dont wanna be like sorry and walk away
and i dont know what else to say because im shy im not really a talker and who can make a long speech of how i wasw wrong


i was talking about how my mom doesnt do alot for me and my mom got sad and she thought she was a bad single parent and she got angry with me b/c i dont know i have a smart mouth

2007-05-21 09:03:29 · 25 answers · asked by Chelly 1 in Family

when you are married for whatever reasons????..i do not see where it is anyone's business except the people involved???..NO OFFENSE, BUT THE PEOPLE THAT WILL JUDGE ARE USUALLY THE religious ones....from what i have encountered....and they are not suppose to judge...it is amazing???

2007-05-21 09:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on my husband...i know if i tell him he would kill me or himself,i want to confess but i cant...wot should i do??

2007-05-21 09:02:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce