My boyfriend is cheating on my with my bestfriend, and they both think I don't know. What should I do? I love them both. She's my bestfriend, but should I drop her because of this? Please I really could use the help
2007-05-21 09:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you mean that you thought she was your best friend? Obviously she is not. You need to let them both go about their business. No one in this world is worth tolerating when it comes to such issues. Don;t lower yourself to their standards. You would be surprised to know that there is a lot more out their in the world to deal with where you can find your happiness than to put yourself into a situation where your life is based on two people who has absolutely no respect for you and definitely don't love you or this would not have been your subject. Find new friends and someone who is worth your time. Don't be scared to move on with your life, it can turn out to be the best thing you have ever done. Good luck to you.
2007-05-21 09:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "bestfriend" wouldnt go out with your boyfriend so i would say drop that relationship. That is not a bestfriend. And that guy needs to go to. You need a guy that is going to be there with you no matter what and a bestfriend would tell you if there was something there or not. Get to know you friends first before you make them your bestfriends.
2007-05-21 09:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by cholia 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself enough to know you are worth much better. There is someone out there that wouldn't do that to you. They would respect you enough especially a best friend. I didn't know that was a quality a best friend had to posses? get rid of them both! Let them have each others unfaithfull moraless a***es! good luck!
2007-05-21 09:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by brandielynn320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3 way with them to keep them both.
2007-05-21 09:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
drop them both,they are not your friends if they do that to you!,and he will only cheat on you again,so move on,and find better!
2007-05-21 09:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both... that's absolutely ridiculous for you to sit around and watch it happen... STOP HURTING YOURSELF... go out and have fun and if you're old enough, have a fling and get over them! :) smile
2007-05-21 09:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by NoClue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop them both .ur friend isn't a real friend anyway and ur BF is a jerk so what the hell u waiting 4 ?drop them girl! hurry up !!kick their ***!!!!!!!
2007-05-21 09:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of them both!! You don't deserve people treating you like that!! Or get back at him by ******* his best friend!!
2007-05-21 09:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by LJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop em both..now if she was really your friend she wouldnt do that...and if he really cared about you..he wouldnt either..and with your friend?? thats just ludacris what an asshole..you dont need them in your life..trust me
2007-05-21 09:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them both and dump both
2007-05-21 09:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋