The other day my girlfriend and I were at the house of one of her best friends. While we were there her friend found an opportunity to flirt with me pretty pointedly. I shrugged it off as just being friendly. Then, later in the evening, we were sitting around and her friend made a point of sitting next to me and several times found a reason to lean over, giving me a great view all the way down the front of her sundress.
Now, my opinion is that girls know EXACTLY what they're doing and EXACTLY what they're showing. This friend has recently been having a really tough time with her boyfriend and I have a feeling she's just sort of...well, she's not thinking straight right now.
Question is, should I tell my girlfriend and potentially ruin her friendship with this girl whom I genuinely feel will come around and regret her behavior or do I just keep it to myself? I feel that if I do, that I'm keeping something from her and because of that, I'm sort of cheating.
2007-05-21 09:24:13 · 20 answers · asked by lrwilliams82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to her about it. This girl sounds like she is having her own issues and probably not getting attention from her man, so she's trying to just get a male's attention anyway she can. Talk to her about it but don't feel bad, you aren't doing anything wrong. And if she is trully a best friend, your girlfriend will understand what's going on with her friend and not hold it against her. She might get angry at first but it shouldn't ruin a relationship!
2007-05-21 09:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by NoClue 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give her a day or two before you try to talk to her. This will give her some time to calm down and think things through. I would go to your "friend" and find out why he did that and then forget about him being in your life. A friend would not do that to a true friend. Once your gf calms down then you should talk to her calmly and tell her you didn't do anything and that if she trusts you then the two of you should be able to work through this.
2016-05-19 01:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honesty is the best policy here. I would tell my GF that I think her friend might have been flirting with me and I would ask her to keep an eye out to see if I'm right or maybe she just a bit of a dits.
2007-05-21 09:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lilbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to your girlfriend, so she can put a stop to it quickly, If not and her BF keeps it up your GF will start thinking that something is going on because her BF is flirting with u. I would feel better knowing that my bf came and told me the problem than not saying anything at all be for i start accusing him of having a fling with my bf. no matter what u do one is going to be mad, but do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-05-21 09:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep quiet for now, unless her friend does not "come around" and start acting right.
It sounds like your a decent guy though and care for your girl, and don't plan on messing with this chick.
I'd just say for sure, get some distance between you and her friend. The last thing you need is for this to turn into a Jerry Springer episode with you saying I didn't mean to mess around with her but....
ya know! : )
2007-05-21 09:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by 4Real 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should definately tell your girlfriend! She needs to know that her friend was flirting with you. I would want to know. It might not ruin their friendship, she might just talk to her and see what was going on. Your girlfriend might have also unfortunately, been testing you to see how you would react and if you would tell her. If you tell her you are showing her that she can trust you. Girls sometimes gang up on men like that.
2007-05-21 09:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She knows exactly what she's showing...question is "why".
1. She wants to know if she still has "it".
2. She's hungry.
3. She's testing you.
4. She's unhappy alone, and wants to bring misery to your relationship.
Tell your girlfriend.
2007-05-21 09:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should tell your girlfriend but warn her that she might not like it or that you think it's because of what her friend's going through with her boyfriend before you tell her about it. Also make sure you tell her that you think her friend will regret it.
2007-05-21 09:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Mmmmmmm..... a view down her sundress...
Remain quiet. Boyfriends come and go, but female friends stay. Who has she been with longer? Don't make her choose....
2007-05-21 09:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't do anything, but if I were you I'd tell her about her friend. You would rather tell her now, than have her friend cook up some story about it later and then have your girl wondering why you never said anything.
Cover your bases and tell her now.
2007-05-21 09:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by T. Marie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋