I'm starting to hate my boyfriend - but am scared of being alone and we work together what should I do?.?

Answer 1

get some fun online... :D

Answer 2

Totally been there. Except for the being scared of being alone part. What does that mean? I'm sure there was once a time in your life when you weren't dating someone, so it's not like you've never been single before. And what about your friends and acquaintances? Or your other coworkers? It's not like you are going to totally live your life in a vacuum without this guy. And it's not like you won't find somebody else. There is no benefit to staying in a relationship when you are not happy just for the sake of being in a relationship. And you said it yourself; you are "starting to hate him". That should answer all of your questions. Break up with him and continue to act like an adult professional at work (be distantly polite and do your job). If it's that bad, start looking for another job.

Answer 3

You can't go through life being scared of being alone. At some point, it's going to happen....you will be alone. It would be better to learn how to be alone now, then fear it for the majority of your life. Independence is the key--learn to love yourself. You'll realize that being alone is not as scary as you imagined, that you won't die from the fear and/or being alone, and will feel better about yourself b/c you faced the fear. You can't allow yourself to make choices based on the fear. I say ...'rip the bandaid and go it alone'. You need time to figure out what you want. Why not start by telling him that and then stick to your guns. He won't take it as personal if you express the desire to be apart that way. Good Luck

Answer 4

You should have never crapped where you ate. You are in a tough spot. Sometimes being around a person to much can really get annoying... that may be the problem. Do not worry about being alone... there are plenty of people and fun things to do in this world.

Answer 5

Grow up, being alone is not all that bad and it will give you time to look for someone else. There are going to be times in your life you will be alone now a good time to get use to it..

Answer 6

Life is too short to be with someone you hate. Tell him that you need to talk to him and let him know some of the things that are bothering you. Hopefully if you guys are no longer suited for each other you will be able to break up in a grown up way.

Answer 7

hate? you'd have to dislike them first so you should have left them when you lost feelings for them.
if you don't leave them now you could be making it much much harder later to do or hurt them much more.
i worked with an ex and i found i just wasnt happy and had to end it.
he ended up quiting which was nicer for me to work. but i would have just tried getting on with my life if he stayed anyway.
don't worry about being alone. you just have oppurtunity to meet someone new that you'll love and not hate. sometimes alone time is a good thing. gain perspective.

Answer 8

why would yuo be scared of being alone? how long have you been with this guy? you were alone before him right? so what are you scared of. if you are telling yourself you hate this guy, it's really time to move on!

Answer 9

So what were you before you met your boyfriend?

This is one reason someone shouldn't date those they work with. It will be uncomfortable at first but everyone acts like an adult you can get over it.

Answer 10

Go to a co-worker and in front of your boyfriend. drop to your knees and pull down the co-works pants and do what you do best. You boyfriend will dump you on the spot. Now don't do this to a female co-worker, your boyfriend will then join in the fun.

Answer 11

That is tough. You should definatly talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. Other wise that makes you a crappy girlfriend.