first love. first real relationship. first time i shed my masks. HELP?!?
2007-05-21 09:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Cooxie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is going to be hard, but you have to just keep moving forward and keep looking ahead.
2007-05-21 09:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by ***ME*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sweetie, first REAL love, first person I cared about and It's just so hard to let that feeling go, but you have to know that there's something in this pain that is going to make you a stronger woman. I know you feel as though you can't go on right now, that that was the only person for you but I promise, a few months from now you'll have other things occupying your time. Don't rush out to get another boyfriend, cry right now, do what you have to but don't drown yourself in the agony of him not being there anymore. This feeling won't last forever... I promise
2007-05-21 09:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. The only thing that helped me was time and realizing that if this guy i just broke up with was so AMAZING that there is another guy out there who is going to be a million times MORE amazing. It's ok to sit at home and cry and let it all out, as much as people may try to tell you that your stupid and you need to get out they are wrong sometimes you need to deal with things your way. Of course after about 1 or 2 weeks you need to start making yourself get up and enjoy life again. I hope you feel better soon and don't worry things will work out for the BETTER. (Also Little Black Book is an awesome movie to watch!!)
2007-05-21 09:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by kerriannsurratt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you cant be yourself with anyone but that special someone you dont need a relationship you need to center yourself. And get a mirror and a map and find yourself, cause I have masks but they are for different settings, i got the proffesional mask, the family mask, and my friend mask, and that is the one closest to myself. Not to say Im tywo faced or anything but I act accordingly and some things I dont shared with my co-workers and family and friends. think about which one you share the most with and develop that into your everyday life by trying to be more open to the world around you... Im confused sleep on it
2007-05-21 09:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.......Of course you can get over him. And you will probably get over him the first time someone else comes along. It's not like this is was the only guy on the planet. What are you going to do, spend the rest of your life moping around after one guy when you haven't even met anyone you can compare him to? Give yourself time to find yourself, and then get back our there and meet someone else.
2007-05-21 09:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl I went throught the SAME THING with my ex boyfriend. He was first everything and we were together for 3 years. It only takes time for you to finally get over him. It took me WHILE until I met someone else. It basically takes another guy that you really like to make you forget about ur ex. You'll be okay. WHEW! U bringin me back memories of those bad feelings...doesn't feel good AT ALL but it'll be better later trust me, youll look back at this later and smile!
2007-05-21 09:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree you need to get over it or you will end up losing a part of yourself. You need to move on. Its hard but has to be done! Dont let it get to you. You have to go through the stages in order to grow and get away from the relationship! Time will heal!
2007-05-21 09:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by bender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to mourn the relationship for a week or maybe two but if you can't seem to get over him don't be surprised- romantic feelings are very strong- so get involved in a hobby or have fun with friends- you will realize that you CAN live without him
2007-05-21 09:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there is not past tense of love, either you do or you never did. If he really is your first love...you will probably never get completely over him. There may be guys who come along who help you forget about him but when it really comes down to it he will always have a place in your heart.
2007-05-21 09:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should get over him and get on with you life... his loss.. he will realize that you are the best and that he is missing something great in his life... i was just like you 3 months ago but now i'm over him and meet and talking to new ppl... life moves on... so should you
2007-05-21 09:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋