Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

Ok. well my boyfriend of a yr and a half. broke up with me bcuz i lied about somthing. . . i dnt blame him but over the past 5 months ive proved to him that was a one and only thing. well he took me back but 2 weeks later told me he couldnt be with me bcuz he still cant trust me. it seems like one minute we're great the next he pushes me away. it hurts. . and it seems like the more i wait for him the more it hurts me. . . everyone tells me to move on. but i cant. everytime i try he acts like he wants me back.not to mention he's my first love.it was love at first sight for me and he was my first everything.weve bn through more than you can imagen and we were even engaged but yet it seems like we cant work through this.ive told him im sorry and ive told him ive learned and that i love him and it was a mistake.but he jus cant trust me no matter wat i do.i dnt want to give up but it looks like i have to.cuz all it sms like is he hurts me he stood me up this weekend on a date. wut shud i do

2007-05-21 12:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10 is dancing on the ceiling, 1 is I want a D.I.V.O.R.C.E!

2007-05-21 12:10:11 · 23 answers · asked by farleyjackmaster 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A popular "code" among groups of guys who are friends is, "Bro's before Ho's". While I don't necessarily agree with the term, "Ho", I want to know what you think of this philosophy. Basically it means that you should always make your friends a priority over girls/ girlfriends. Alot of my friends use this term, yet never actually do it. The thing agree with is that you should never abandon your friends for a girl because there is no telling how long you will be with her. Also, your friends like you just the way you are and (usually) have no further interests than friendship. The thing I don't agree with is that after being with a girl a certain amount of time you are going to have to start putting her first if you want any kind of serious relationship, right? What do you think? Bro's before Ho's, or not?

2007-05-21 12:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Smirx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 12:06:45 · 24 answers · asked by nspiredmind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a child to this guy . for four year of my son life his father walk out three times. and the excuse was he want his freedom to screw around. first time my son was 6mth old. his excuse was he didn't want to be a father .But his mother force him back in to my son and my life. the second time he walk out my son was turning 2year old due to he was screw around with a undreage girl he met off the internet . I dob his *** in . but he walk in my house and made himself welcome due to he did want to loose his stuff plus his money . this time he out of the picture for good. due to I am in a different town . He made it clear he want his freedom to do what he like to screw anyone that want him. I kick him out due to I want my son to not follow how his father threat me and any women he come in contact with . One sad this is that my son has autism .in the past my son had limit speech never use words but now he is in a safe home with me he open up and started using words. but

2007-05-21 12:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by MOONBEAM7699 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 12:04:20 · 38 answers · asked by chis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all the guys do is stare at me and check me out, but no guy ever asks me out! i feel so lonely, all my friends and family say that i look like a gorgeous supermodel, but i dont get it! its like guys are even afraid to touch me! for example if i want to open my locker if there are guys next to it they will move like 5 feet just to give me room to put my books in, so whats going on?? the most handsome guy in school likes me, but he wont approach me, all he does is stare at me and stalk me! please help! no mean answers please!

2007-05-21 12:02:27 · 4 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Singles & Dating

Bought me a Shrek 2 video for Christmas. and thats all.
Took me out on Valentines day and asked his 2 teenage sons to come along.
Bought me left over Christmas candy for Valentines day off the clearance rack at a Dollar tree and gave it to me after he dropped it on the floor.
Played on a soft ball team with his ex wife for 3 months. claimed he always played the game, but never told me
Forgot my birthday and then reminded me he bought me a 8 piece Chicago cutlery 3 months earlier.
Do you think this is cheap and crappy or is it just me?

2007-05-21 12:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

when you both have just gotten out of a relationship.

his was pretty long.
but weve both liked eachother for a long time, even when we were seeing other people.
now we are both single and im wondering when is it ok to go out with eachother, since we both just got out of a relationship

2007-05-21 11:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by big red 5 in Singles & Dating

There was this guy that I met on Yahoo!Answers. I added him to my MSN. It just felt weird when I was talking to him. Now I feel like I made a big mistake. Did I?

2007-05-21 11:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like a guy and well my parents are againgst the word like much less date.........i really like him and my parents dont no.....i hate hiding it but i cant help it.....i dont want to stay guyless but i cant tell them especially cuz he is not indian.....he is from south america(i live in the usa but prefer these ?s cuz i can relate more)so i need to no am i alone in this non dating world and any advice wat 2 do now?????

2007-05-21 11:49:35 · 15 answers · asked by an unknown friend 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm so confussed. I don't know what to do. Any advise or suggestions?

Thanks

2007-05-21 11:49:16 · 16 answers · asked by j's soon to be mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I don't want a relationship with a woman, but I wanted to try a 3some. How do I tell my bf that I want to try this without offending or causing him to worry about me cheating?

2007-05-21 11:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by DRE 3 in Singles & Dating

felt love and i lost it,and i am sure that its the first time in my life i felt anger ,pain,love all mixed up that my insight was blinded,things have to go and u move on ,but u always ask y???if two really loved each other ,y they let go???

2007-05-21 11:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by reifguy 6 in Singles & Dating

My son father is trying to take me to court because i refuse to let him see our son until he starts giving me money for the baby ive been nice in off to let them see the baby these past 9 month (his family) but yet my son never comes back his diapers clothes nothing and they get mad at me for trying to take the baby away i have not took him to child support because he does not have a job can i still get something and know they have told me that they want to go to court for father rights to get visitation days will they give them to him not to mention hes having another baby he cant to it with one what makes me think he will take care of mine now plz help?????????

2007-05-21 11:39:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are an undeniable love match from two different cultures. I am a western girl from the US, my husband is Hindu from north of India. We love each other very much.

I know I may never truly be accepted by his modestly conservative parents, but I would like to try my very best to pay the most sincerest respects. What is the best way to pay respect to your in-laws, especially upon first meeting?

So far, I have learned to cook many traditional meals. I know I should greet my mother-in-law forehead to toes. I plan to present my father in-law with a well earned law degree. I also helped devise a plan to send money to my extended family on the monthly basis, and have written many letters of sponsorship and recommendation for various family members.
Are there any customs I should also observe?

2007-05-21 11:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by Alexis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My baby father n me were in a relationship we have a 9 month old baby i just currently found out that he is having a baby by his ex girlfriend i was in shock all along he was cheating she is now about 2 month pregnant i dont know what to do should i let him see my son or take him to child support ever since i found out we have now broke up i dont know how to react he really hurt my son and myself most of all what should i do??????

2007-05-21 11:31:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me & my gf are supposed to be getting married but there are issues. she no longer wants to communicate when there is a prob. she sweeps it under the rug. she has 2 kids. they are 2 & 7. i have been repeatledly hit on lately & i have tried to be involved in their lives but they have said "i'm nt the father". they don't listen to me & when i tell her about it she seems as is she doesn't care. when she got her tax returns back in march & got $6000 back & blew the money. we were supposed to get our own place but that's on hold cust we don't have the money & i have medical issues & am trying to pay those bills while saving money. i feel like i'm backed in a corner with no answers. that's some of the probs. what should i do. try to work it out or leave.

2007-05-21 11:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by jack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've got a girlfriend and we are so madly in love. I got a ring and I've asked her dad for her hand in marriage. Now I just need to propose. But how should I do it? I'm always hearing how these guys propose and it’s really cool. So I need some cool ideas on how to propose to her. Her friend was proposed to by her bf at the hospital. He showed her an X-Ray, and the ring was in it. When she heard this she said that she wanted to be proposed to in a cool way like that. So I know it has to be really extravagant. Any ideas?

2007-05-21 11:28:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you like the most when having sex with a woman?? Give me your top 4 turn ons.

2007-05-21 11:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My exwife dropped my son off this morning for my extended visitation for the summer. I am currently unemployed at this moment and searching for a job. My son was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes earlier this year. He is on several medications including insulin. The medications run around $400 a month. Since I lost my job my son lost his medical coverage. So my ex wife has been paying for the medication until another insurance kicks in. Well when she dropped our son off she dropped off 5 prescriptions even a prescription for the machine to test his blood sugar. Being unemployed I do not have the $500 to go & purchase his needed supplies. My current wife contact my ex wife & asked if we could come and get the medication. She told her no that it was our problem & we needed to get the medication or she would come get our son. She told my wife that if we pay the fifty percent of her past medical expenses then she would consider sending the medication. Is this right? Can she legally do this

2007-05-21 11:26:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 11:23:40 · 26 answers · asked by sam i 1 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together 5 months and i really love him. we have been having sex and it hasnt ever been awkward or bad or changed us in any way. but we talk all the time and we have our routines and we have both noticed that its getting a little boring almost. so we ended up breaking up and getting back together only a hour later and its great now but i thought it was before. he was saying that he had all these doubts and he just wasnt sure if he wanted a girlfriend anymore. that i was the girl he wanted if he wanted a girlfriend. and all this came out of nowhere, and it was all this stuff about how he was so tempted by other girls but only because he couldnt have them. he would NEVER cheat on me, he was cheated on really badly and i know he loves me enough not to. i just get scared because it all came out of nowhere and i was lucky enough to get back with him within an hour but how can i trust that he wount have "doubts" for real next time. and i wont know its coming

2007-05-21 11:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 11:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by Jason J 1 in Singles & Dating

1) keep her uneducated
2)make her feel inferior
3) be cheap and when going on a date
4)when going on a date with her stare at other women
5)yell at her in public


This list is to edify.
this list is to actually make women aware of the tactics guys use to keep them down. cause lets face it...lots of women are clueless and will take abuse from men and dont

2007-05-21 11:14:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 11:12:24 · 12 answers · asked by Alex K 1 in Friends

My husband informed me today that he has someone coming to look at our house to buy it. I knew we both agreed to sell it in the future (after he finnished some repairs) but I had no idea he was going to do so this fast. He flat out told me that he is going to take the first offer, no matter how much it is, as long as it equal to or high than what we own. The thing is, it's worth two times what we owe, and i dont want to be ripped off. Since my name is on the mortgage too, he cant sell it without my approval or agreeance, can he?

2007-05-21 11:11:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am infactuated with a married man. Yes i knows its bad and yes we nearly slept together and i know it shouldn't have happened because its selfish to his family etc. But i beleive we dont have power who we end up being infactuated to, it just happends. my question is how can i get over it?

2007-05-21 11:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by allyspringflower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a subscription to Playboy. It's not that that so much bothers me. It's that he keeps them stacked on the back of the toilet, almost like a trophy. I haven't had much self esteem since my body has morphed from having our son almost 9 months ago, and having to look at the gorgeous women on the cover when I get in and out of the shower every day is a little disheartening to say the least. I go to the gym and try to stay in shape, but I recently found out I'm pregnant again. I don't want to think about my husband ogling beautiful naked women while I sit around getting bigger by the week. When I mention something about it, he says they have great articles and that I should read it some time. I say if I want to read a great article, I'll get a Newsweek. He's also young and in the Marines, and I don't want to be a nag, but it really hurts my feelings. How should we resolve this?

2007-05-21 11:11:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay there is this boy Turner at my school, he is sooooooo cute and I like him a lot but he is goin out with my Best Friend Tasha. They've been together sence friday. No she dosen't know. That sounds horrible i know but it's not. I mean i like Turner a lot, but I don't know what to do. Any advice?

2007-05-21 11:09:13 · 5 answers · asked by n{E}o[N] 1 in Singles & Dating