Okay, I don't want a relationship with a woman, but I wanted to try a 3some. How do I tell my bf that I want to try this without offending or causing him to worry about me cheating?
2007-05-21 11:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by DRE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It'd be helpful if you two were watching a TV show or movie with that subject... I remember an early episode of Friends..Ross's wife Carol wanted to have a 3 some with a woman... or if there is a movie with that topic I always bring up convos regarding what we're watching on tv and say something like "would you ever want to do that?" but chances are you won't be watching something on tv relating to this...so just ask nonchalantly, ask if he'd ever be interested in that sort of thing, you don't have to say you are...if he asks why you're asking, say it was a topic at work or school for you today or that another friend brought up...
But no matter how you do it, communication is important and you have to be comfortable talking to your significant other about anything...good luck
2007-05-21 11:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship there has to be trust..
and well let him know that doing a treesome is a fantasy that you wnat to experience... that it will be just that night...
i am pretty sure that he will like that.. well most of the guys will love to have a 3some!!!
2007-05-21 18:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by ALAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture that your bf tell you that he want a 3some, but with a guy. If your are ok with the idea, just tell him straight and short.
2007-05-21 18:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, trust me when my girlfriend told me (Im a guy dont mind the avatar) that she wanted to try a 3some I was kinda weirded out by it, because id idnt really wanna share her with anyone, but he will get used to the idea.
promise :-]
2007-05-21 18:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if the idea of something like that has ever crossed his mind and go from there. Most guys are totally into that sort of thing. Unfortunately, mine isn't but you might get lucky!!!
2007-05-21 18:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tamara T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay that is cheating on him? If you do like women then why wont you ask
2007-05-21 18:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by lucero g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eew that is nasty. you should dump him. unless you really do love him. if you don't have a STRONG relationship than pfft. why do you need him.don't even bother.and apparentaly if you want to do something that drastic and nasty than he isn't very important to you. eeewwww
hope i could help
2007-05-21 18:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring home a beautiful woman....he will go along with that.
2007-05-21 18:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by billgreenthumb69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish mine would tell me that!!!! Just tell him chances are he'll Love the idea
2007-05-21 18:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Rueben E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it, he will be so happy.
How can you think that, that will offend him.
I wish you were my girlfriend.
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2007-05-21 19:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by jetski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋