i like a guy and well my parents are againgst the word like much less date.........i really like him and my parents dont no.....i hate hiding it but i cant help it.....i dont want to stay guyless but i cant tell them especially cuz he is not indian.....he is from south america(i live in the usa but prefer these ?s cuz i can relate more)so i need to no am i alone in this non dating world and any advice wat 2 do now?????
2007-05-21 11:49:35 · 15 answers · asked by an unknown friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not getting married people i am only 14
2007-05-21 15:12:10 · update #1
Get a life girl....u r only 14............in future ull meet a 100 guys ull like.........i swear........start enjoying things arnd u like friendship etc..........the moment u r living now will never come back in ur life again...............so live every minute of it.n stop worrying....evrything will b ok.....dating is not everything. sometimes it's good to listen to ur parents cos they care abt u.
2007-05-21 17:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by anabini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, go on a date if possible, there is no need to tell your parents, enjoy life, do not think of marriage at this stage. Let love develop.
Even in this day and time, love is still a secret. U don't have to tell everyone, even your parents. It is your personal life. Maybe when u plan marriage, u can tell your parents.
But be careful, with whom u go, these days, the world is full of frauds and no goods.
2007-05-22 01:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents must be against him because he is nonindian. normally indian parent do not like the boys from western culture to marry because they can't believe them, enjoy and take divorce which is non acceptable by them. they feel marriage is a permenent union. what do you feel about him? whether he really loves you, going beyound the body and you too? or a mear young age attraction? if so then don't go with him. if he really loves you then go ahead.
2007-05-21 21:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by dattusing p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your and his parents into confidence first . Let the boy also participate with you with families. Mutual understanding will solve your problem
2007-05-22 01:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*The very fact that u r asking for help, shows that u r not too comfortable in this whole
process; so follow yr conscience and do listen to yr parents ......they have yr best interests at heart !!!!!!!
Pay more attention to yr studies rather than thinking of ''pyar vyar'' at the moment......
2007-05-22 23:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by ๏๓ รђคภtเ, รђคภtเ รђคภtเ ....... ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact parents and have meeting.
2007-05-24 03:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by baboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not able 2 tell ur parents then tell 2 somebody who is mature n to whom ur parents listen
2007-05-21 23:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by disha k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your parents to arrange for an arranged marriage. you are to immature to decide of your own.
2007-05-21 20:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you need to do is follow your heart, if that boy is the prince charming you been waiting go for it...
2007-05-21 18:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by ALAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a joke
2007-05-22 02:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by namburi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋