Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

Okay, so I like this one girl at our school and I've known her for a long time. I had a fight with one of my friends and I heard he was going out with her but Im not sure. I want to ask her out but I don't know if she's going out with him. Also I am kind of shy so i don't know HOW to ask her out. I rarely see her at school because we don't have many classes together. I have texted her but she never responded yet. So someone help me O.o

I've been thinking about asking her to the movies cuz shes a HUGE pirates fan.

2007-05-21 13:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf of two years and I keep on breaking up & getting back together.

He is physically and verbally abusive towards me ever since i cheated on him at the very beginning. We both cannot imagine our lives without one another but we have different perspectives on a lot of things. He thinks he is the boss of me and tries to control my social life so I don't cheat on him again.

But I want to be my own boss. I already took the consequences for cheating for two years. We tried to compromise a hundred times but it never works. All that is holding us now is love.

What should I do?

2007-05-21 13:37:14 · 4 answers · asked by suee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 13:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by mori b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 13:28:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i loved my mom so much she was my closest friend, i loved her more than anything ......im an only child and im 14, she died in 2 months of finding out her desiese .its been 6 months and im never rely upset , i was upset but not that upset at the start,im never sad about it noe.whats wrong with me

2007-05-21 13:27:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im wondering if any of you out there think this is a good song for a first dance. We both love the song, but we're not sure if it will work or not.
Its A Long Trip Alone by Dierks Bentley


It's a long trip alone over sand and stone
That lie along the road that we all must travel down
So maybe you could walk with me a while
And maybe I could rest beneath your smile
Everybody stumbles sometimes and needs a hand to hold
'Cause it's a long trip alone
It's a short piece of time but just enough to find
A little peace of mind under the sun somewhere
So maybe you could walk with me a while
And maybe I could rest beneath your smile
You know we can't afford to let one moment pass us by
'Cause it's a short piece of time
And I don't know where I'd be without you here
'Cause I'm not really me without you there
Yea Yeah
Hallelujah hallelujah oh
So maybe you could walk with me a while
Maybe I could rest beneath your smile
Everybody stumbles sometimes and needs a hand to hold

2007-05-21 13:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by mannasox 4 in Weddings

I have a family member who is renewing their wedding vows, after 20 years of marriage. She is making this like it is their 1st marriage. She is wearing a wedding gown, getting a motel room the night before so her husband does not see her before the "wedding" . Which is not all as bad -as I think it is -for her to ask for gifts and including gift registry cards in all of the invitations.

2007-05-21 13:25:29 · 16 answers · asked by gandtiff 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my spouse sent me a text on accident (intended for her sister) saying that she had a dream last night about having sex with a family freind. should i make a big deal about this?? i trust her, but this gives me doubts.

2007-05-21 13:24:02 · 20 answers · asked by luiggi77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 13:19:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do girls like to get asked out. do they just like you to come out and say it or does it really matter

2007-05-21 13:18:17 · 24 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Singles & Dating

im serious, i need some help with my bf hes being a complete and utter asshole

does ignoring really make them come to you or is that a lie?

2007-05-21 13:17:41 · 1 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 13:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by Shamona H 1 in Singles & Dating

So I'm 19, and i was wondering if 15 is too young... Shes almost 16 but almost 4 years is a lot but i thought i would see what people think.

thanks =)

2007-05-21 13:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our son is graduating from 6th grade (only school he has ever attended to date) and will be attending middle school next Fall. We have 50/50 joint custody but cannot agree on which school district to send him.

Our son has expressed a very strong interest in staying enrolled in his current district and he is a good, smart kid.

But, one of the parents lives in the next town over and really wants to switch districts for the last 6 years of public school.

Where and how do we do to figure this dilema out? What happens if we don't ever agree? There is also a difference of how much/ whether or not to count our son's opinion.

Thank you for your advice!

2007-05-21 13:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by chancebeaube 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a circle game we played at class today and everybody get to write one positive thing that describes you but I’m not sure these nouns are positive. Do I sound miserable?

quiet (4 times)
silly
thoughtful
shy
sweet kid
nice+shy
quiry
hi!
smart(2 times)
cool! Quit!
very quiet
here
you are so cool
work well
sleepy
unique
nice!(2 times)
quiet+mysterious
phantasmagoric

Ok, now what bothers me the most is how can i be silly when I’m always quiet. It feels like an insult! isn't it?

2007-05-21 13:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladies i want your input and guys i guess i want yall's

2007-05-21 13:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by latoya r 3 in Singles & Dating

He just gets everything handed to him, and he is 26... his rent paid, EVERYTHING.
I can't handle it, because I want him to go to college, he even is very interested in things in college, but he gets everything handed to him, and never has to do anything, I am afraid he is gonna get used to that way of life.
What can I do to make him not rely on his mom so much?

2007-05-21 13:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in August and I'm wondering if I need a wedding program, I don't know exactly what it is or what's it for can anyone help me?

2007-05-21 13:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by PennyLane 2 in Weddings

i've been with a guy 5 times now and each time he has trouble getting a hard on...sometimes it happens but just for a few minutes. he won't discuss why? he is about 52. Help ...what could be the reason...and don't say it's me if he wasn't attracted then why would he even be with me.

2007-05-21 13:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by Single Gal 2 in Singles & Dating

my grandma died about 2 days ago,and i was really really close to her, and like yeah, her and i were really close, we did
EVERYTHING together,she raised me since i was a little kid, and was always there for me,when i went to school,she would walk with me there.. she would play games with me when i was a little kid.. but then i did bad things to her too like make her cry at times..the doctors would always lie to my family (we only had 5 ppl in our family) they would say she had H. Pylori when she had Gastric Cancer.. we tried finding cures for her.. but none of them worked.. she stayed in bed a lot but like yeah,in the end the doctors gave her bad blood and that gave her blood clots in her leg.. it spread to her heart sooner or later,i went to her on the day she died, she was the last person i saw, she tried telling me something but i couldnt hear, she started breathing strangely and i asked the nurse what was happening but she didnt do anything after half an hour she died..

2007-05-21 13:02:51 · 5 answers · asked by Masha 3 in Family

my sister is 18 and her bf is 16 and i am in love with him most of the time i think that he is hitting on me like he always touches me like he will rub me not like that but you know what i mean and most of the time we talk more than they do if i am a sleep when he come i want to be woke up or i get mad at her most the time he will come up and wake me up we always flirts and sometimes i feel bad because i dont know if she can tell so i try to play it off i yell like stop when we are play fighting or i will be like get you boyfriend most the time they dont act like they go out but when they do it about kills me i dont know what to do like sometimes i am afriad to be alone with him because i dont know what will happen i dont know if i am just thinking he feels like this because i do or if he is really hitting on me i wont go out with anyone else becasue i really do love him i know we could never go out because it is my sister bf i dont know how to get over him cause hes always around

2007-05-21 13:02:31 · 10 answers · asked by ebonee h 1 in Singles & Dating

another boring nite tonite, how bout, you anything good going on

2007-05-21 13:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and i think i have feelings for sum1 a bit older then me in his 40's? Can it be?

2007-05-21 13:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by lupe m 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this one guy who I've known for awhile now. He stares at me alot and smiles at me a lot too. We even have a staring game thing. He even called me his gf once, but I joked around with it instead of taking it seriously. I might be open to the fact he likes me, but there is a year age difference which makes things complicating and he doesn't act the same way with me around his friends compared to when it's just both of us. I'm not sure on what to do. Do you think the gf comment was insinuating something?

2007-05-21 12:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by angelz 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband was injured 10 years ago and endured seven back surgeries because of it. He is on high doses of pain medication on a daily regemin and has no interest in sex or affection or anything romantic. We haven't touched intimately in three years and the lonliness gets overwelming sometimes. I don't want to leave him with his condition but I want a love life. Is it possibe to have a relationship outside of marriage under these circumstances?

2007-05-21 12:53:03 · 18 answers · asked by Ladi Rain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and i never had a boyfriend yet! i feel stupid and just.. i dunno, wow.. so how old were you when you got a boyfriend/ girlfriend?

2007-05-21 12:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by just a girl 4 in Singles & Dating

My sons girlfriend is owed back child support from her father about 20,000.00 when her mom was alive now her mother is dead and the father says he dosen't owe it anymore is this true?

2007-05-21 12:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by Candy F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister wrote my son off to my ex whilst we were going through a custody battle (though her rubbish failed to stand up). My sister has not been in our lives for over 15 years. I can't stand her and I can not move on and forgive her and I want nothing to do with her.

How can I wish the worst upon her and curse her life?

2007-05-21 12:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

omg. ok, i am viet, and so my parents are really strict about boys and shitt.. well, anywayys, i was at church, and my friend [L] kame back, and i havent seen him in a while.well, so he`s like 19 ishh, andd well, he gave me a piggy back rideee.. and my dad saww.[[totally innocent]] andd he`s making a big deal out of it, and now he wont let me go to church. i`m fine with thatt... but like, how do i tell him that we are just friends, and that it`s SO stupid to overeact, i get where they`re going, and trying to protect me and stuff. but, what do i say/ explain to them so thatt they`ll stop yelling at me?

2007-05-21 12:47:15 · 21 answers · asked by Ms PHAGG`MUFFiN MOOMOO 2 in Friends

There's this boy who ive been crushing on 4 some time now but one of my friends beat me to him. They went out for a week or two and then broke up and she still says she likes him but shes going all over over guys. We have a dinner dance coming up next week and i want to ask him to it because my friend is going with one of my other guy friends so i thought maybe i could ask the kid ive been crushing on out to the dance. Do you think its wrong do ask this guy even though my friend says she hates him and she is going with one of my best guy friends or should i not ask him, and go all by myself?

2007-05-21 12:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Rose 3 in Singles & Dating