There's this boy who ive been crushing on 4 some time now but one of my friends beat me to him. They went out for a week or two and then broke up and she still says she likes him but shes going all over over guys. We have a dinner dance coming up next week and i want to ask him to it because my friend is going with one of my other guy friends so i thought maybe i could ask the kid ive been crushing on out to the dance. Do you think its wrong do ask this guy even though my friend says she hates him and she is going with one of my best guy friends or should i not ask him, and go all by myself?
2007-05-21 12:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Rose 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest telling your friend that you're going with this guy so it's no surprise to her and just go with the guy! That's what I'd do but I'm a guy and that would be really wierd to go with a guy for me. B']
2007-05-21 12:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him! you should never ask a guy out on a date! that's where you go wrong! So you liked him first and you're friend snagged him first. Did she know you liked him? 'cause if she did, that's messed up! a good friend wouldn't go after the guy you like! And if he wants to go out with you then let him ask you out, give him a challenge. Trust me! that's what guys like! And what kind of a guy would go out with your friend and then you next. Is that what you want? To be 2nd in line! oh no honey! you're better off. Let the guys come to you! and find somebody who will go after you and not your friends! take care and good luck!
2007-05-21 19:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him
Your friend has a bunch of other things to think about and shouldn't be too worried about what you do with your life.
If you're worried about it (this friend of yours is your best friend or something) perhaps you should talk about it with your best friend. She says she hates him, but she might be okay with you asking him to the dinner/dance
2007-05-21 19:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your friend if she minds. Tell her your friendship is valuable and you would not want to hurt her. If she says no, don't do it. There will be plenty of guys that will come and go, but a girlfriend is worth it's weight in gold.
2007-05-21 19:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by lexisayn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ASK HIM. What you can do is make one of his friends go to the microwave to get something. THEN when he opens the microwave he finds you in there. That is when you ask him.(If there is a crowd around he can not back down.)
What is the worst that can happen?
2007-05-21 19:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definietly not, if you really like this guy then ask him. Explain to your friend that you like him and ask her if it would be okay. There's nothing wrong in asking and you should seize every chance you get.
2007-05-21 19:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your friend, and then go with him. See how it plays out.
2007-05-21 19:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by OrngeLuvrSocstar! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend, is she;s really your friend she's understand you really like him. Best off is to tell him too! You never know...you should talk to you friend as soon as possible...i like this guy and my friend hates his guts! When I told her I liked him really much, she understood it. She cares for me and she accepted it.
2007-05-21 19:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tsuki Shizuku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him only if ur friend says they are really over
2007-05-21 19:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go with him. Have a great time!
2007-05-21 19:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋