Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

2007-05-21 16:40:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is my question: My husband and I have been together for 8 years (married for 5). I worked FT for all 8 years and he worked odd jobs but quit/fired from all. We have a 4 y.o. son. I recently changed careers from a stressful job to a job in Early Childhood. It is less pay but very rewarding and I feel good about it not like a number as in my old job. My husband FINALLY got off his duff and got a job. Now all of a sudden he is acting smart saying I have a half a$$ job now and don't have anything to offer because my folks are dead and I have no family and just on and on. He goes out to bars until end of work to 3am the next day 6 out of 7 nights a week. I am tired and he comes in turning on lights, tv and yelling. I explain my feelings to him that I am lonely and need help with son/house. He says he'll do what he wants and I can get out because I have "nothing to offer anyways." He forgets the 8 years I supported his duff right? My question here is what do I do to make him stop this?

2007-05-21 16:39:35 · 22 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a friend who needed a place to stay. An IV drug using whore who had left her husband and needed a place to stay. When I went to spend a few days with my mom and grandma she slept with my husband. It wasnt the first time. The first time was four years ago when he also slept with her husband. How many times do you have to forgive? I didn't know about the first time until I caught a text between them when I got back from my moms.

2007-05-21 16:36:40 · 32 answers · asked by chaoskid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

today i was at resturant eating with my friend. while were talking i saw a girl that just started working there and she so beautiful. since i left the resturant today i keep't thinking about her. i dont what happend to me but the problem with is a picky about girls but this girl is my type.
the problem is there another girl in the same resturant that i know for while and she have crush on me and she asked me
out.
honstly i thought i would never find my type after i broke up with me ex.girlfriend but today i found her but her friend like me and wanted to date me but i like i dont like her like that.

would should i do. all i know is i walked out the resturant thinking about even thought i dont even know her name.

getting her number and taking her out is piece cake 4 me i'm good looking guy but my concern is about her friend and she my friend also but i dont want hurt her feeling.

wat should i do?

2007-05-21 16:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I you ask you f%#k buddy to be friends and nothing more have you basically ruined the arrangement?

Also should you tell her you take it back if you really want to keep the arrangement?

If you leave it alone all together if she did not answer is it possible for you guys to still continue if you act as if you never put it out there?

2007-05-21 16:32:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 16:28:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i "dated" (we never were official) only wanted me for sexual favors. I never gave him any, because i refuse to sacrifice my values. well the day after prom he started avoiding me and i found out 6 days later from my friends that he was avoiding me because i wouldn't be his "friend with benefits" plus now he likes this girl in our class. he said that he avoided me because that was his way of not looking like an ****** and still telling me that hes not interested in me because of my values. WTF?! why are guys like that, why do they only think about sex?

2007-05-21 16:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 57 yrs. old woman who's been married for 36 years now mother of 4 children.
3 girls and a boy. I must say I'm very proud of my son who seems to know how to treat a woman, because his wife is the happiest person you'll ever meet I ask whats her secret
she says( I Love her for this) " A WONDERFUL HUSBAND"! These 2 are into each other in a way I've never seen before!

My son 18 at time got married to a woman who I thought to old for him 5 1/2 years older, divorced twice, one OPEN, other marriage SWUNG! She admits freely and tell everyone NOT TO EVEN ENTERTAIN the thought because it will come back to haunt you!

12 yrs. later son and his wife are still married and happier then ever, She's an MD, in physical rehabilitation medicine(3 specialtys) witch also includes Psychiatry.
He's Has 2 PH.D One in applied physics mathematics, other applied engineering concepts. Both NAVY Reserves, both gone to IRAQ 3 times, SON gone to Afghanistan.
Both supports each others dreams!

2007-05-21 16:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My teacher being my friend? she isnt my only friend or my best friend. We dont do anything inappropriate only talk like after school and stuff but i feel like i can can her anythiing. I just need to know if it is wierd that she is my friend at all or not?

2007-05-21 16:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like Her I dont know if she likes me we stare at each other across the room,and in the hall she just glances at me for a couple of seconds and ive talked to her on myspace, when im playin sports wit my friendz she starez at me the whole time but the weird thing i s if i try to talk to her she barely starts a conversation wit me . plz help me is this gurl really feelin me ?

2007-05-21 16:25:30 · 23 answers · asked by emazymaze 1 in Singles & Dating

My Grandma and Grandad were 81 and had been married for 63 years. My Grandma had an anurism about 8 years ago and had become quite demanding to live with since. We were also told that too much stress or worry could make her have another anurism or stroke.
However, my Grandad become close to one of her friends (who was being very sympathetic) and it grew into something else. He told the family (we are all v v close) he didn't want to spend his last years in misery looking after Gran and was gonna leave and move in with the friend.
The family made it clear we thought that was wrong and that Gran had not long to go anyway and also that it will devistate her.
She had stuck by him with 4 kids, 8 grandkids, 4 greatgrandkids, 2 businesses and 5 affairs and still loved him.
But then against all advice he left and although myself, my mum and a couple of uncles and aunties were there to help her through, she had a stroke and passed away.
I need to find a way to get rid of this resentment.

2007-05-21 16:21:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

in my culture a i4 year old marrying a 30 year old is ok what do u think? im 14 my potential husband is 22 i got lucky compared to sum girls but im not being forced.

2007-05-21 16:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by maari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is there anyway to find out a girl is single? i am not interested in those girls who are in relationship nor even married. well, if you know her, then it can be easier, you can just ask her friends. but what if you see a stranger who is attractive. apparently i cant just step up and ask, "are you single?" so any tips?

2007-05-21 16:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by ۞_ʞɾ_۝ 6 in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for a few months now. She is in a grade lower than me and she isn't in any of my classes. I am extremely falling for her every time we talk. We talk on IM, txt messaging, myspace, facebook and in the halls sometimes. She sometimes talks with this one boy that I think she likes. I dont know what to say sometimes when I am talking to her. I hope that she isnt more interested in this guy instead of me. Should I ask her out? does she even like me? please help me. I belive that she is the ONE for me.

2007-05-21 16:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Chuck 1 in Singles & Dating

o.k. I have been married for almost 5 years. We have 2 beautiful boys. One is 3 and the other 2. I love my husband to death but I so wish he would be more affectionate and responsive.

He very rarely shows emotion except for the bedroom which doesn't happen too often lately. He tends to nit pick alot and never gives me compliments.
I have been running for about 6 months and I look good. I was in the buff tonight and asked him if I will look good in a bathing suit and he just said something along the lines as your not planning to wear a bathing suit anytime soon?? The comment broke my heart. I thought it was sooo rude. He can be honest to a fault. I am not 20 anymore, I am 35 with 2 kids and I really believe that I look good. He just hurt me and annoyed the heck out of me.
Marriage is really tough I tell y'a. I know I will be with him till the end but nights like this make me feel darn lonely. The only time he is expressive is in cards on special occasions.

2007-05-21 16:08:39 · 30 answers · asked by Laurience 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My lill sister Cheme, still get hit. Like ya know 4 a punishment. my sis is 8 yrs old and she got whupped today 4 talkin bak to our mom. I think she too old 4 that shiot, but my mom dont. im 13 and my mom said im too old but she aint. my mom dont use nothin on her xept her hand. i told my mom today she gonna wind up bein a goddy lill biotch if she keep hittin her for crap like talkin bak and she said id keep my mouth shut or shell start hittin me again too. wat u think i should do?

2007-05-21 16:06:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here's the prob, When it's our practice, I hanged out with my friends at school, but my friend asks me to go eat, (the diner is just walking distance) but my brother saw me riding a taxi, (i cant pretend that it wasn't me) when we came back home, my brother told my mom 'bout it and my mom told my dad, my dad will kill me!

2007-05-21 16:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-21 16:02:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just a normal school girl really, but all of a sudden people were saying they are jeolous of me..i wonder why

2007-05-21 15:53:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like his mother likes to search for things to complain about me. First she was upset because he spent most of his time with me intead of being at her beck and call. Then she hated how I would spend my free time in my room(when I was living with her). She constantly talks about me to other family members. So now his extended family doesn't like me. When they haven't even met me! She criticized my room when I lived with her, saying it was a mess just because my bed wasn't made. She never kept up the rest of her house to the standards that she expected me to follow. I am bipolar so she looks down on me because or that and because it has been hard for me to hold down a job. I found a job that I feel I will be able to keep, yet she still thinks I'm not good enough because of my disorder. Also, my tongue is pierced and she has a huge problem with that. How can I get her to back off and let me be?

2007-05-21 15:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by jabsgirl 3 in Family

First, my father is an ahcoholic. Tonight, my 8 year old son had his end of the year program at school. My mother and father came together. I sat next to me father and he reeked of alcohol. I was upset with him and somewhat embarrassed. I am on PTO, a classroom volunteer and am respected at the school. I feel like he should not have come like that. I knew I could not say anything to him because I have learned you cannot reason with an intoxicated person. I should point out that he did not "act" drunk. I knew he was beacuse I know him...he just smelled awful. Anyway, as we were leaving I said to me mom "why did you let him come in that condition?" She said " I did'nt LET him...talk to him." She called me 2 hours later crying and asked me if I knew what it was like to live with an alcoholic and was upset that I "crawled all over her" for asking why she did not say something to him. She hung up on me. I dont understand what I did wrong. Help.

2007-05-21 15:50:30 · 8 answers · asked by paminpoq 2 in Family

2007-05-21 15:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by su 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-21 15:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 15:46:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister is 13 and she is dating this guy from georgia whos 18. what im thinking is that he is just playing her and she dont believe it, also she is still too young to be caught up with a 18 year old who i believe can tempt her to have sex while she says she knows better. what can i tell her more, i had sex at 14 had my first baby at 15 married at 16, that was tough enough i just dont want them to follow in my footsteps.

2007-05-21 15:46:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm married but i feel terrible because i have a deeper love for someone else. we are no longer in a relationship but our hearts are still tied. i know it! some nites it burns me to be with out him but hey.... i am married and yes i love my husband but i ache for another man. what do i do???????? maybe i should just pray that it all goes away!
hey i could do like jessica on ONE LIFE TO LIVE...tell my husband and deal with what ever the consequences. NOT! help me out.
ANYBODY KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT????????

2007-05-21 15:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 15:44:30 · 2 answers · asked by Larry H 1 in Friends

2007-05-21 15:43:42 · 1 answers · asked by pycolyia b 1 in Singles & Dating

..........why?.....how.....

2007-05-21 15:42:44 · 4 answers · asked by aishah 5 in Singles & Dating

how do yu tell a guy all yu want is sex from him

2007-05-21 15:41:41 · 16 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating