how do yu tell a guy all yu want is sex from him
2007-05-21 15:41:41 · 16 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 41 and have not bee with a man in 15 years and i need sex that is why I am askinig how to tell some guy that is all i want from him
2007-05-21 15:52:02 · update #1
You don't....and you go on to find a guy who you want a relationship with...
2007-05-21 15:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are...If you are an adult, and sex is all you want, just tell him. If you are interested in making love with a man, then get to know him better first, then make the first move...Ask him out to coffee first, find out what turns him on, then invite him over for a home cooked meal...by that time you should know what his favorite meal is. Wear something nearly see through, and pretend the whole time it isn't. I'm sure you two can take it from there.
2007-05-21 22:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Red Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean you don't want a "relationship" with him, simply tell him upfront, I like you and wouldn't mind a physical relationship with you, but no strings attached. Believe me, he will jump for joy, you will make his day. Any guy would love all the sex he can get from a woman. Why on earth though is that all you want, is that all you think of yourself? Don't you think you deserve more of him than that? Just curious.
2007-05-21 22:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and up front about it - I'm sure he'll appreciate that.
I'd probably just say something like, "I'm not interested in a romantic relationship right now, but my physical needs are beginning to catch up with me. I think we're both mature enough to tell each other exactly what we want, and sex with no strings attached is what I want right now. How do you feel about us being "friends with benefits"?"
Good luck!
2007-05-21 23:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it around anybody for starters. Just be honeset and professional with him. Don't come off as a pardon the expression but whore. Just tell him straight out what you want.
2007-05-21 22:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie most of them are dying to hear that!!!!!! He will think he's the luckiest man on the earth!!
"Ronnie all I really want is to get it on" plain and simple!
2007-05-21 22:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by hairstyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lady wouldn't have to worry about such things.
2007-05-21 22:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by pretty little liar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight forward and if he doesnt like it some other guy will. and im sure he'll appreciate it in the long run.. good luck!
2007-05-21 22:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by ConfusedChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what most men dream about. Just let him know, be honest, and things should be fine.
2007-05-21 22:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by jabegall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want a friend with benefits!!
2007-05-21 22:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by kind1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋