I you ask you f%#k buddy to be friends and nothing more have you basically ruined the arrangement?
Also should you tell her you take it back if you really want to keep the arrangement?
If you leave it alone all together if she did not answer is it possible for you guys to still continue if you act as if you never put it out there?
2007-05-21 16:32:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shouldn’t she ask me what kind of friends I meant so I could explain to let her know I just want to hang out sometimes? I am not asking to get married tomorrow nor am I asking her to be my gf, I just want to hang out with her outside the bed room, and I feel she should asked me what I meant instead of ignoring me. Why do women do that?
2007-05-21 16:41:49 · update #1
Should I just tell her what I meant by friends?
2007-05-21 16:45:13 · update #2
That's called having your cake and eating it to. Being friends and nothing more implies that the sex stops. To bring back the fringe benefits would be entirely up to her. If she didn't answer that could mean that she wishes to continue the relationship as it was. Of course, it could also mean that she is respecting your wishes and just isn't talking about it. The only way to know is to test the waters. So to answer your questions: Yes, Yes and Yes/No.
2007-05-21 16:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been intimate it's hard to be just friends. There are feelings still involved in the situation. Even if you try to be just friends, there will still be an uncomfortableness between you two, mabe a desire to hook up again, and jealousy if either one of you start seeing someone else. You will have problems just like if you were dating, broke up, and tried to be just friends. It's tough but some people can do it. I'm not personally equipped to deal with it, I am too emotional.
2007-05-21 23:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship would definitely be changed. Don't know if it would be changed for the best or make it worse, but my question to you is "WHY" would you want that type of a relationship to start with....one that is just about sex? You are cutting yourself short.
2007-05-21 23:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by divie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you have complicated the relationship as much as this question... so YES you likely ruined the arrangment.
2007-05-21 23:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Wife&Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first response is WHAT?
I think i might get what you are asking...sort of.
and the answer is move on.
there is no point to try to be friends with someone who you only knew for naughty reasons in the first place. It just doesn't work, so drop it.
2007-05-21 23:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Monet D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a stupid player and find someone to settle down with, if your cheating stop you pathetic moron and move on.
2007-05-21 23:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it depends on how you went about telling her if she will think the same
2007-05-21 23:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by jbela2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋