Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

2007-05-21 12:44:55 · 5 answers · asked by pbaby 2 in Friends

I went to see my Mom who was in the hospital yesterday and gave my separated wife a call to let her know, after I said what was happening, she said "don't call me on the land line cause you're using up minutes...". It kinda irked me a little. I mean, if she were telling me about her Mom being in the hospital, I certainly wouldn't bring up that in the same conversation, I'd be telling her get me however you want.
She won't let me take the children for the weekend. She didn't want to give me a kiss after she asked me to do the lawn for her. I wanted one (my fee). I feel I'm nver going to get any real affection from her. She will always be the same. I made extreme sacrifices for her w/ no movement on when she would want to get back together. She's cold to me, she talks about me to the children, she purposely has in depth discussions w/ the kids in front of me w/o including me. It's like she's replaced me with my son as to who she talks to. I want someone to talk to.

2007-05-21 12:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 12:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by love2talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and I were in a long distance relationship. The relationship was good till recently he was stressed because of his work and we didn't get to spend much time together due to his busy work schedule. Also he did not tell me on the phone I love you as much as he used to. I felt he had changed so I confronted him. He assured me he loved me still and said it made him sad too that we could not spend much time together. But he did tell me he was a little worried about our future.

Anyway, he was out of touch with me for a week and I tried to call him but he did not answer. I thought he wanted the easy way out by ignoring me so I wrote him an email and told him I let him go as it seemed to me that was what he wanted.

A few days later he contacted me and told me why he was out of touch,but said NOTHING about me wanting a break up like it had never happened.

Was he trying to leave the door open or was that what he really wanted.

I don't know what to do. I still love him.

2007-05-21 12:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by OS 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what i should do she says she doesnt know if she loves me or not and some of my friends say to wait for her to come back and others tell me to get over her but we had such a good thing and i really just want her back so i dont no wiether to tell her how i feel, or make her jealous or to just wait so please help ASAP

2007-05-21 12:39:46 · 4 answers · asked by A N.Y. PRODIJY 2 in Friends

2007-05-21 12:39:27 · 39 answers · asked by frclld 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You see I have been in Boy Scouts for 8 years and I use to enjoy it. However my troop almost does nothing and I haven't really been as enthusiastic as I used to. It's been like this for 4 years now. I have been trying to convince my parents. However they never listen especially my dad who was only in it for a year and then quit. How hypocritical is that. They say that a Eagle Scout award will help me in getting a job later in life. Plus I'm really busy right now and I have to go every monday to Scouts. I'm always real tired and have really no energy to do anything while I'm there. Right now I'm 1st Class and I have a long way to go to Eagle expecially at this pace and only 3 years left. What do I do to convince my parents that I'm too busy and that I don't have enough passion nor energy for Boy Scouts.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks

2007-05-21 12:39:26 · 3 answers · asked by Eric J 2 in Family

My wife found out that I had an affair. The lady & I only had sex once; this person is a good friend of mind.

My wife and I were having problems and it happened. We had agreed that I will not visit this woman’s house. My wife also asked asks that I not see this person any more and end our friendship. However, I convinced her that it was over and she forgave me. We then went into a business together at my request, this did not work. She tolerated this person for sometime but the person proved to be disingenuous among other things. So her forgiveness still stands but does not want me to associate with this person at all & forbid this person to enter our house or ask me to do favors.



I did a few favors for her recently and it caused a problem, we spoke about it and it was high tension, as she has no respect & tolerance for my friend. Last night she (my friend) asks me to stop by her house on my way home for steam muscles because she knows Jonathan (son) likes it. My wife went wild, screaming and asks if I am having a problem & dumped the food in the trash.



Don’t you think she’s being unreasonable & over reacting?

2007-05-21 12:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by bedi2today 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i no one how should i take action?!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-21 12:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would definitely mind my own business and stay out of this matter...sooner or later the cat will be out of the bag anyways and you won't be drawn into the middle of drama.

2007-05-21 12:38:35 · 9 answers · asked by Carol Y 1 in Friends

OMG! This guy is always showing up at my house, calling me at all hours-but I never answer -_-, and telling people that we are going out! I WOULD NEVER GO OUT WITH THIS CREAP! HE IS SO FUGLY AND ANAL! He says he's white but he tries to act black. He thinks he's so cool. Whenever he asks me to hangout I tell him I have other plans, and then when I'm at the movies with my friends he somehow is also there and he drags me away from them. He is really starting to bother me!!! I CAN'T GET RID OF HIM!

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=84471647

2007-05-21 12:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by ;-) 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months. I really like him a lot. I don't wanna be all nasty but i know that i can please him.. physically. I want to be more than that. I want to be the person he leans on, trusts, and can tell anything to. I understand that he does tell me things that he never told anyone else, but i want him to be closER to me. I don't know.

2007-05-21 12:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do u No if your a good kisser if you havent kissed anyone yet
like u no hook up kiss

2007-05-21 12:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a really hot girl at my school. Actually, she's so astonishing, no guy doesn't think she's the bomb. I seriously think she likes me. She's athletic (not a tomboy, athletic), so she plays kickball. I'm a good player too, but not as good as most boys there. Everyday at kickball she picks me as the first boy. Today, when we were losing, I was wringing my hands b/c I'm one of the fiercest competitors you'll find. Accidentally, I hit her hip while my hands were shaking from losing. I immediately apologized and she automatically responded, "It's OK" in a soft tone. She's friendly to everyone. I was visibly embarrased and she saw it because I ran over to the boys to join whatever they were arguing about. I could care less. I was so angry that I visibly almost showed how embarrassed I was and how much I like her. If you've read other of my Q's, you see I have confidence in girls. But they're not at my school. I'm not in on the latest gossip, so I'm afraid she's with someone else. Help

2007-05-21 12:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after custody has been granted to the mother? Years have passed and alot has changed. He is married (to me) we have a house both with good jobs. The mother has no job, lives with her mother. But she has full custody, should we go back to court?

2007-05-21 12:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does the uterus actually contract during sex? If so, what are possible reasons for this not happening? I have not been able to have an orgasm through oral or sexual intercouse. Any suggestions?

2007-05-21 12:33:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy awhile ago and we talked about going out. Then i hung out with him yesterday and he said that he could never go out with me because i was too young. Then he said he wanted to be friends with benefits. One problem i like himt oo much to see him with other girls and also he thinks i am 16 when i am really turning 18 next week. I told him i was 16 because i thought he was younger and i never thought we would meet up again. How do i tell him that i am 18 and how do i tell him that friends with benefits wont workout. I REALLY like this guy and i dont know what his problem is. And if a guy wants to be friends with benefits does he think you are attractive??? And is friends with benefits good??

2007-05-21 12:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Singles & Dating

"Jill" and I have been friends and co-workers for 6 years. Today she approached me at lunch and looked distraught. She said she could not take it anymore and subsequently started crying and revealed that she has feelings for me. The one (good) wrinkle is that we are both in long term relationships and she said that she knew this. I really dont know what to say to her. I have been married for 10 years and she for 15 years. I do like Jill and she is an attractive woman...i dont know what to do...I want to stay married but i dont want to loose Jill as she is my friend.

2007-05-21 12:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok listin up i am oh soo totally in love with this one boy and have been for about a year now but he doesnt kno and just 5 months ago he found hisself a girlfriend and it breaks my heart so i tyed to get over that and start to go after on of his bestfriends and he seem interested in me cause we was going to watch a movie together on weekend and i didnt so i told him the next weekend so that saturday rolls around and guess what i didnt go becuase my friend didnt take me so i think hes mad or something and he leaves this girl well his ex girlfriend comments all the time and picture comments over myspace maybe ever messages lord knows what they talk about on icq so im kinda heart broken there to but by god i am watching a moive with him this saturday you can count on it for sure but i guess my point is that all the guys i have liked they acted like they were into me at one point in time and they just lose interest in me or something so please i just wanna know if i will find the right

2007-05-21 12:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was jsut wondering what everyone thinks about gay relationship. Would u ever consider it? Do you think it works out for gays when it comes to relationship?

2007-05-21 12:27:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a place that you don't have to have the reception there as well, and is reasonably priced. Thanks for all your help!

2007-05-21 12:24:53 · 2 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Weddings

ok so what if we like eachother but i am too scared and he is very shy..should i grow some balls and ask him face to face or should i wait and see what happens later??

2007-05-21 12:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by xxcutiepiexx05 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 12:23:23 · 19 answers · asked by honey 1 in Friends

My ex boyfriend keeps on calling and text messaging me.It's drivin me crazy..He just won't leave me alone.

2007-05-21 12:20:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really pretty(not be arrogant) and i am also really weird. Guys are attracted to me because of my looks, then get turned off by my weird counterculture, perverted humor, personality. All the guys like me are really ugly, and i do believe looks play a role in the attraction to someone but its just one of the factors. Im 17, will i ever find someone out there like me?

2007-05-21 12:20:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has been in prison for sometime and i would like to file a divorce.there no kids involed

2007-05-21 12:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

will a relationship work if theres not 100% trust there? is anyone in a relationship like this or have been? ive been with my boyfriend 4 years, see him everyday and love him loads, couldnt imagine life without him and he gives me everything, i caught him chatting on the internet so signed up as another girl and chatted for a while, didnt like what i heard so i had it out with him and he said it was just a bit of fun and meant nothing, when i was talkin to him on the net as this other girl i tex him asking what he was doing a few times and hed say watchin tv or wotever, so now i always think hes lying and dont always trust him, i always wonder what he is doing and if he is on the net still even though he swears he isnt, will i build the trust back up again do you think, he dont work at the moment so hes at home all day but when im with him i think why was i being silly thinking like that! im so paraniod all the time its driving me mad,mayeby time will heal it??what do you think?

2007-05-21 12:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by misyid 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so say some guy comes up to you that you don't know and he wants to start a conversation and you can tell he would like to get to know you. How would you like to be approached without seeming liked you've been being stalked or creeped out? What would you like the guy to say to you, like any specific usage of words at all? Guys that have been successful in meeting girls are just as open to answering this too, from a guys perspective of course. I've never in my life done this, and as I'm working on finally building self esteem up, I would like to know how this is done in the best manner possible. I also do realize I need to display a good amount of confidence as well. Thanks in advance for responses.

2007-05-21 12:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by squanzone1015 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 7 years and have 2 kids, my wife is not receptive to my manly needs, she seems to avoid an almost non exsistant sex life or we make a date and she doesnt follow through. It has been very frustrating, and I feel like we are just roommates at this point. I dont want a divorce, I like the situation, I am pretty happy with it, not much fire in the relationship though, and I am just missing the physical aspect. It seems close to the point where I am thinking of going elsewhere with my problem. What should I do?

2007-05-21 12:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by stealthy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if this boy and you flirt all the time and hang out everyday..should you ask him out, or wait till he asks you??

2007-05-21 12:14:27 · 9 answers · asked by xxcutiepiexx05 2 in Singles & Dating