My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months. I really like him a lot. I don't wanna be all nasty but i know that i can please him.. physically. I want to be more than that. I want to be the person he leans on, trusts, and can tell anything to. I understand that he does tell me things that he never told anyone else, but i want him to be closER to me. I don't know.
2007-05-21 12:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to specifically go out there to please him emotionally. Guys are not very good at detecting their own emotions.
Stick around
Communicate
Let him communicate as much or as little as he likes to you - and as he trusts you more he is likely to communicate more to you and hence you will be closer
Observe him for signs that you are overloading him with communication and if that's the case give him a break and communicate with your girlfriends
Watch sports with him and learn
2007-05-21 12:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you feel, physical can wear off but, emotional and understanding is a must in all relationship. Talk to him, be
there for him if you need to be. Is he leaning on you now. Stop going to bed with him and see what happens. See if he tells you the same.
2007-05-21 12:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the emotional side takes time to develop. the physical side is the easiest to accomplish, but it won't fully be pleasing until the emotional connection is there as well. unless the guy just wants to be pleased physically. in that case, move on.
2007-05-21 12:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by uncle chuckle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to give all of you to this man. When he wakes up in the morning you have to be there to make his breakfast. When he gets off of work or out of school, be there to listen to his day. Ask the questions that parents used to ask you. When he isn't smiling make him laugh. When he's sleeping make him comfortable and when he's awake make him fall asleep. Love him, love him, love him. Cater to him and baby girl he will open emotionally!!! :)
2007-05-21 12:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him food and he will be happy. But seriously. do not ask us. we will give you bad answers. Ask your mom. She will be more serious than the people on yahoo. This is like asking a random old person off the street. You can even ask him.
2007-05-21 12:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him secrets and when u have problems go 2 him and no 1 else
2007-05-21 12:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Justin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this comes with time and maturity, let all that happen and the rest if it was meant to be will follow.
2007-05-21 12:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by sara0152236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont puch him, 3 months really isn't that long of time. besides, the more you puch him, the more he will eventually push away
2007-05-21 12:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by rusty71987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, everyone loves a good guy'girl. so jus do wat u do, n soon, it'll pay off. jus be there when he needs u n talk to him when he needs too.. but dont b da 1 who does 2 much while HE deos NOTHIN..
2007-05-21 12:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by Toki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him feel important, don't know why... i think it's an ego thing
2007-05-21 12:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Shanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋