I'm a 57 yrs. old woman who's been married for 36 years now mother of 4 children.
3 girls and a boy. I must say I'm very proud of my son who seems to know how to treat a woman, because his wife is the happiest person you'll ever meet I ask whats her secret
she says( I Love her for this) " A WONDERFUL HUSBAND"! These 2 are into each other in a way I've never seen before!
My son 18 at time got married to a woman who I thought to old for him 5 1/2 years older, divorced twice, one OPEN, other marriage SWUNG! She admits freely and tell everyone NOT TO EVEN ENTERTAIN the thought because it will come back to haunt you!
12 yrs. later son and his wife are still married and happier then ever, She's an MD, in physical rehabilitation medicine(3 specialtys) witch also includes Psychiatry.
He's Has 2 PH.D One in applied physics mathematics, other applied engineering concepts. Both NAVY Reserves, both gone to IRAQ 3 times, SON gone to Afghanistan.
Both supports each others dreams!
2007-05-21 16:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both successful and find one another stimulating to be with!
They talk about world politics, views on global warming, public service, EDUCATION!
Wished I had that!
They have a beautiful home in PACIFICA outside S.F. and volunteer. Daughter inlaw helps out with woman's shelter, make sure Woman get checked up as well as children and helps them get suitable housing!
My son Volunteers his time helping disabled student at a special needs school!
He's started classes to get teaching certificate because he's FALLIN IN LOVE with teaching so much, and wants to teach disabled studance for living!
His wife not only supports him but encourages him to do it!
He MAKE better then 400K a year doing freelance work for corporations, wants to give it all up for a job that pay 40k a year does that make scenes to you?
Their marriage is so strong my daughters all have either separated from their husbands or divorced. Saying they deserve a marriage & husband like their bother!
What I miss?
2007-05-21 16:27:11 · update #1
I'll admit I'm JEALOUS as HELL and if I was 20 yrs. younger I'd be getting a divorce myself, because son's A PURFET HUSBAND!
He writes letters once a week & mails them to wife, can you believe that?
Says " HE GOT BETTER THEN DESERVES, WHAT A GIFT HE GOT IN WIFE"( GOD I want that) she loves it!
He graduated high school at 15 had also an AA degree in general education, would continue his education at Cal POL, then STANFORD!
He's always takin at least one chef class 15 yrs. and this past NOVEMBER got Certificated as a LIGHT MASTER! So he does all the cooking at his home, He's also got message therapy Licenses in 6 different styles over yrs. give his wife a message( luck girl) at least once a week!
This past Christmas my son gave his wife a student ID card he enrolled to learn manicures&pedicure,every Saturday took her with him to class! her hands & toes are the best looking ones around now!
I'm thinking I got ROBBED because I never got that from husband, NEVER!
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2007-05-21 16:27:33 · update #2
It sounds like you raised a great guy and well his fathers genes are in him as well just because your son has done more in his life and is devote his wife is no reason for other children to be getting divorced. You marry someone for who they are and how they make you feel. If every person looked at the marriages of the wealthy and the well-off and said oh I wish I had all that what kind of world would this be. I think you must look at your marriage you have a record marriage of 36yrs four great kids and a son that is the picture perfect husband.
Just be a proud parent and get over yourself you made the choices you made at the time and had you not you wouldn't be able to brag about this great son of yours. GROW-UP.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-05-21 16:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not say you were robbed cause you, instead of your husband, whom I think u loved before marriage,and still love, were not aware of your expectations so neither did he. After observing your son's and his wife's intimacy you kind of feel that u deserved the same, little knowing that it's never too late to rejuvenate your relationship with your husband. There are no hidden secrets to a good relationship - just mere understanding, concern and most of all the little things.which contribute to love. "It's u who makes your life, life just is"
2007-05-21 16:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lala Vir Dass Thawan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You advance a staggering son and could be happy with your self. he's the style of guy that any female will prefer. you may tell your husband he can take some tips out of your son.
2016-11-25 23:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question? Your son seems to be making his wife happy and she is making him happy i think that's great. Are you just jealous or what? Be happy for him that he has someone to love and care for him. He could be like some guys that don't give a damn about anything.
2007-05-21 16:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous and focused on the wrong things in her son's life. Maybe if she looked at her marriage and what she might be able to do in it instead of constantly comparing it to her son she might be happier.
2007-05-21 19:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Everybody, she wants to know if her son is wrong for thinking about leaving a $400,000.00 a year position for a $40,000.00 a year teaching job.
Mom, if it makes him happy, what the **** business is it of yours. He seems to be very balanced if everything you are claiming is true.
BTW, remind your daughters that this is their brother, he's off limits.
2007-05-21 17:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by ronald g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your family should share in your sons happiness. It is unfair to blame him for your own personal downfalls. Look at what makes his marriage work and try it in your own. You got problems
2007-05-21 16:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I read it and re-read it three times over - and i still don't know what the question is.
2007-05-21 16:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by sweetikins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. And what's your question?
2007-05-21 16:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
to long. to weird.
2007-05-21 16:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋