today i was at resturant eating with my friend. while were talking i saw a girl that just started working there and she so beautiful. since i left the resturant today i keep't thinking about her. i dont what happend to me but the problem with is a picky about girls but this girl is my type.
the problem is there another girl in the same resturant that i know for while and she have crush on me and she asked me
out.
honstly i thought i would never find my type after i broke up with me ex.girlfriend but today i found her but her friend like me and wanted to date me but i like i dont like her like that.
would should i do. all i know is i walked out the resturant thinking about even thought i dont even know her name.
getting her number and taking her out is piece cake 4 me i'm good looking guy but my concern is about her friend and she my friend also but i dont want hurt her feeling.
wat should i do?
2007-05-21 16:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww how cute. You are a good guy for asking this question. I would say try to find out when the girl you like works alone without that other girl then make your move. Dont worry that they work together, what if she is the one and you ignore her because of that other girl, you'll be issing out. So i say go for it but dont make a big deal about it in front of the other girl and dont be all over her in front of the other one. So go for it man, get your girl and treat her like a princess.Make sure to tell her the things you mentioned about her being beautiful and all you could think about. And dont tell her she is hot because then she will think you are only after one thing.
What are you waiting for? Go find her right now. Do it, make your move!
Now!
:)
happy wooing.
2007-05-21 16:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Curly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live your life for others. There will always be times when feelings get hurt.
Don't let guilt ruin the oportunity for you to possibly date this girl you like. It isn't your fault that the other girl likes you. She might not like it but you are not a slave to her emotions.
She will be hurt by it probably and it won't be the last time she'll get hurt. We all get injured emotionally several times in our lifetime. That's just part of life.
If you met a new girl that wasn't working in the restaurant but worked elsewhere,she would still be hurt. The location of this new girl doesn't matter. So, look at it this way, you can't let your friend keep you from finding love. That isn't fair to you. You have to live your life.
If you really have feelings for this new girl, ask her out. Leave the guilt in the garbage where it belongs. You have no reason to feel guilty. This is life.
2007-05-21 23:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off it is lust - anything else takes time to develop. Right now you have a strong attraction to her but if you think she is your type just by how she looks then you are a pretty shallow person and will probably never find happiness.
If you don't want to go out with the other chick it isn't your responsibility to protect her feelings. Just don't lie to her. If you want to get to know this girl you are attracted to then ask her out and don't worry about anything else.
2007-05-21 23:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely lust for the new girl because you just meet her but it could change if you give it a chance. If you know that the other girl has a crush on you then you have to think about how you feel about her.
2007-05-21 23:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take her out on a date and get to know her. It might be lust cuz like u said u din know her until today. If she has a great personality go for it. But tell your friend that her perfect guy will come along one day...just say its not you. And you wont be able to make her as happy as another man will be able to. Then give her a hug (hugs always work)..Good luck my friend.
2007-05-21 23:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with the girl who likes you first about your interest in the other girl; this way you're being honest & up front...before you pursue her coworker.
2007-05-21 23:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by professor X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and let your friend know that you only like her as a friend nothing more nothing less and let her know that you like the other girl so it doesn't come a a shock if you end up dating her
2007-05-21 23:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by sosad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO ANOTHER RESTAURANT FOR A WHILE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS , YOU MAY GET OVER THIS FEELING , AND ALL WILL BE WELL WITH THE WORLD.GOOD LUCK .
2007-05-21 23:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat, cheat, cheat
2007-05-21 23:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋