My sister wrote my son off to my ex whilst we were going through a custody battle (though her rubbish failed to stand up). My sister has not been in our lives for over 15 years. I can't stand her and I can not move on and forgive her and I want nothing to do with her.
How can I wish the worst upon her and curse her life?
2007-05-21 12:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I haven't spoken to any member of my family in nearly 20 years. When I start missing them all I have to do is remember what they did to me and the urge to try and find them goes away.
2007-05-21 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how that must have hurt your feelings. People sometimes say dumb things without even realizing it. I think your sis truly regretted saying what she did. She just has a big mouth and she probably wanted to complain about something for attention. Next time get her a cheap t-shirt and tell her... "hope you don't have chain closure problems with this gift." Don't think about this too much though. She didn't mean to hurt you. She's just spoiled. Good luck with your sis in the future.
2016-05-19 02:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by juana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The opposite of love isnt hate, its that word that means "cutting her off". Because you would need to love her enough to hate her, and because hate can be a form of love in some relationships.
Your best bet is to remove her from your life, if later on she realises the folly in her ways and you think she has then yeah. But for now she seems like trouble, that the last thing u need
2007-05-21 13:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live ur own life, concentrate on ur family & urself, keep ur mind busy, if ur sister is that bad then dont give her the satisfaction of ur being worried & being effected, just dont care anymore, if u want to make peace with her then u can, this life is too short , so at least u can say u tried ur best to get on, or at least u forgive her then move on , go abt ur own business. Aslo by the way guys want virgins so that have can speacial bond with them special connection, they dotn want to have girls whio have had sex before because its like ur having sex with her previous guy, u get me, its like u think this is what previous guy expericnes with this girl in terms of havign sex i know for fact fit handome slim guys never want to insert their penis into a tunnel which has been used before, its a turn off, trust me this is true.
2007-05-21 12:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to curse her life or anything like that, go on with your life and just forget her, everyone pays for their wrong doing in this lifetime.
2007-05-21 13:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forgive her. Once you have you will not forget what she has done but you will be able to get on with your life and completely scratch her off your list.
2007-05-21 12:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is cursed until you forgive your sister.
2007-05-21 12:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to read "the secrete". Your life will be filled with negativity until you start focusing on the positive.
2007-05-21 13:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you definitely dont want to hurt her. Dont give her the benefit of the doubt to see you still hurting. Just dont keep contact with her, that will get to her more then you think.
2007-05-21 12:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curse her life? here i was thinking mankind had moved on from thinking voodoo was real
2007-05-21 12:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Krayden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋