Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

My fiance and I watch porn almost everytime we have sex, is it normal to always have it on?

2007-05-03 04:50:17 · 12 answers · asked by Badabing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend and she and her spouse have a ten year old son who is a major brat. She defends the fact that he's a brat and gets mad if someone else thinks he is...kind of like "I'm the mother and I can tell you what to do but no one else can" kind of theory. Anyway, she'll jump down my throat if I have an opinion on his behavior, I've actually had to discipline him in front of his parents and there's been no reprocussion. My question is what right does she have to get mad if someone knows her son is a brat and says something nicely put "he may need to be careful" kind of thing?

2007-05-03 04:48:46 · 18 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Friends

this guy that ive known for a while and dated before keeps telling me he loves me but wont give up drugs for me no matter how i treat him or how many times i ask him. i told him i dont love him cuz i cant trust him and he doesnt love me if he wont give them up for me. but he still insists that he does love me and tells me that im the most beautiful girl in the world and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me........ he even proposed on valentines day (i said no of course). he REFUSES to give up drugs for me and has lied to me about it before (his friends are better friends to me and let me know when he lies). does he really feel the way he says he does? does he love me? if so, then why wont he give up doing drugs for me, even if it is the only thing ive ever asked him to do for me?

2007-05-03 04:48:05 · 16 answers · asked by da bella italiana angela 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is having a 13 years old birthday party and there is going to barcube. but can we do at party and i need a party idea/theme. also she like fashion

2007-05-03 04:44:40 · 1 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

ok, i got a lot of good replies from my last question. now i will answer some of your questions

1) alot of people said he was old enough to be my father. this is true, but he is not my father. im not missing a father figure, both my parents are still married and living in the same house. i do not look at him as my father at all. he doesnt have kids nor is he ever around kids. he doesnt see me as a child, he sees me as a young woman.

2) some people mentioned that there can be nothing a 42yr old and an 18 yr old would have in common. that is not true, we both want to travel and our views on things are similar. we also want the same things in a relationship. we are also different (obviously) but those differences only make the relationship more interesting.

3) a lot of people said him and i are going to get a bad reputation because of this. people like to judge others based on looks and there isnt any way to escape that unless i did what society wanted so that doesnt bother me

2007-05-03 04:43:52 · 13 answers · asked by Little Girl 2 3 in Singles & Dating

how many words can i inscribe on a ring for my boyfriend and how to i write it

eg. (his name) love you so much, (my name)

or love you so much, (my name)

or (his name) love you so much.

how do i place the names?

2007-05-03 04:40:29 · 2 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Singles & Dating

Should your partner show you a little jealousy once in a while? My husband is not jealous at all, which is good, but sometimes he makes me feel he doesn't care at all about what I do. Nothing worries him...could it be that he doesn't love me enough?

2007-05-03 04:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-03 04:38:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend is acting different or strange, he thinks that i am pregnant, he wants to come over every day, he wants to bring me dinner, he just wants to do everything for me, he did not act like this until he got the feeling i am pregnant, but i am not pregnant. i just havent told him yet, i want out of this relationship, please help, he doesnt want out

2007-05-03 04:35:30 · 7 answers · asked by TE TE 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months, now. And we barely do anything. He's boring all the time. Like I ask him what does he want to do, he says i dont know what do you want to do. I said i dont know, i want you to pick what we do. He just so boring. He really imature. We get in arguments ll the time. I just need someone that is fun, likes to do stuff. Someone that knows what he is talking about. Knows What I like to do.

2007-05-03 04:32:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been with my b/f for almost 3yrs now and he never wants to take me to a trip with him and his friends!He goes on trips to nice places with his friends at least 3 times a year! I know that he wants to be with his friends and I always give him his space and let him hang out and never question whats he does to an extent?!I I talk to him about it and he says that it would be to expensive to take me and all these b/s! but in reality his friends free load off him because his dad is a lawyer !I remember on a trip to cali he paid $500 dollars in gas to fill up his escalade! and never asked his friend for gas money!There is gotta be more to this! in a guys opinion only why do u think he never wants me to come along?

2007-05-03 04:31:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 04:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by BabyDoll 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 04:28:27 · 4 answers · asked by Ton Ton 1 in Family

How do I tell my serious long-term boyfriend (whom I want to marry) that I may not be able to reproduce?

2007-05-03 04:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by Nia Sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

She even thought she looked good in a bikini! OH HELL NO! that was the last straw.

2007-05-03 04:22:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...ex calls to talk about getting the kids this weekend, when all the sudden he gets quiet and says, "I love you..." then silence. I thought he was talking to someone else (maybe the new girl?) he was still quiet and I said "who, me?" "yes...I mean cause your the mother of my children, and ya know just in a Christian way...I mean I care about you, ya know." OK, so is this weird or what??? HE left me, said he never really loved me...so is he just saying he cares because we'll always have to deal with each other (bc of kids) or what? We've gotten along rather well since the seperation, bc of the children, but to just come out and say this now...it's throwing me for a loop! what do you think?

2007-05-03 04:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa Bee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to sound gross or anything, but if a girl has ceramic braces (not metal braces with the colors), would you let her give you head?

Besides, I thought that when you give head you are supposed to lick and stuff...not use your teeth..

2007-05-03 04:19:18 · 14 answers · asked by XoPrincessXo 3 in Singles & Dating

I like almost everything about him but the sex part. Please help

2007-05-03 04:17:09 · 36 answers · asked by anonima 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like a guy who is 24 yrs older than me. if i decided to be with him, it would be socially unacceptable. Why?

P.S. I'm almost 19

2007-05-03 04:14:04 · 19 answers · asked by Little Girl 2 3 in Singles & Dating

I"ve been married almost a year, and I've known my in-laws for the same time. I've always sensed he didn't like me, but my husband always said I interprete too much.

But after I caught him mockimg me, do you think it is now SERIOUS?

My hubby cannot accept his brother is faulty, and he didn't react now that I've been warning him almost a year. I'm hurt, bcoz he is not concerned about my feelings. Now he is saying what I want to hear, bcoz I've been on his back with the subject and crying a lot....

2007-05-03 04:13:57 · 24 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been cheating on me since June of 2005. With the help of the advice from people on yahoo answers, I was able to pull myself together and leave him. I have moved to another city but sill have several items in the house. I want to get these items, but my question is--Do I need to call the sherriff of the police to escort me? My plan was to move out of the house during the day while he was at work. The house is in his name and it was purchased before we got married. We are still married and I have not filed for divorce or legal seperation. I just want to move all of my items out of the house before I file, he can be vendictive, he has already shut off my cell phone on monday evening and installed a local alarm on the house (it just makes a sound for about 5 minutes, it does not alert the police or anything). As of last week, he has not changed the locked on the house, but I am afraid he might try to do that. I only want my personal bleongings. What should I do?

2007-05-03 04:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been single for about a year know and I would like to get back on the dating scene. I am a new christian and I want to know what is or isn't off limits. Please Help me

2007-05-03 04:11:28 · 30 answers · asked by queen_essence2k5 1 in Singles & Dating

I will try to make a long story short.....this guy I have been seeing lives 1 1/2 hrs. away. We see each other 2 x a month. We don't have any commitment & I got asked out by another guy & talked to him about it - he said he hadn't been in a relationship for so long, he forgot how & then grudgingly told me I could go. I decided not to but since he never asked, I haven't told him.

Then, because I was insecure, I referred to us as friends w/ benefits & he seemed sort of upset. The truth is, I care about him very much & never saw us as FIB but said that because I figured that's what he was after ( & didn't want to get rejected).

Things have cooled off since then but I am going to see him again today &I don't know if I should come clean & tell him that I wasn't truthful when I acted like he was just a piece of a** or let it go. He seems to not enjoy talking about 'us' (what guy does? :) but I feel like I screwed up. Should I tell him he means more than that to me or will it scare him

2007-05-03 04:10:32 · 14 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i know he's been attracted to me so i said "hey, how bout you gimme the ding dong" i'm thinking this might be bad for business but we both know we're not trying to get married, we're just trying to have "on-call booty" .....thoughts?

2007-05-03 04:07:28 · 20 answers · asked by Téa LaFaye 2 in Singles & Dating

IVE BEEN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND FOR 9 MONTHS NOW AND IT STOPPED FOR 2 MONTHS SHE GOT WIT ANOTHER N SO DID I WE BOTH DEVELOPED STRONG FEELINGS FO DEZ GIRLS N NOT TO MENTAION ONE IZ ME BEST FRIEND N DA OTHA IZ HER COUSIN, WELL WE BCK 2 GETHER N THINK THAT MAYBE WE SHOULD SEE THESE GIRLS AGAIN BUT IM SAID SURE BUT I DONT MEAN IT I LOVE HER SO MUCH N DONT THINK I CAN LIVE WITH OUT HER, SHE SAYS NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE OTHER THEN WE GONNA CLAIM OTHA PEOPLE BUT I WANNA CLAIM HER NOT NO ONE ELSE :( WHAT SHOULD I DO? IM SCARED TO TELL HER HOW I REALLY FEEL B/C MY BEST FRIEND IS SO HAPPY THAT THEY ARE GETTIN BCK TO GETHER I DNT WANT TO HURT HER ONCE AGAIN MANN IM HURTIN MY SLEF. I HATE IM PUTTIN OTHERS B4 ME N HURTIN MYSELF SO BADD

2007-05-03 04:03:38 · 1 answers · asked by SEXC_AZZ_FEMM 1 in Singles & Dating

Stay-at-home mom's work is worth $138,095 a year.
A mother who holds full-time job outside the home would earn an additional $85,939 for the work she does at home, Salary.com.

2007-05-03 03:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by iamjuls 4 in Family

i want to go to the u.s.a to go to college but my mum don't want me to go.i don't know weather to go or to stay, but the thing is she's holding me back from becoming a pilot if she says no.

2007-05-03 03:55:03 · 1 answers · asked by Tangebaby 1 in Family

My fiancees as of last night is a cancer survivor and I'm having second thoughts because of what his medical history could mean for our future.A lot of people seem to get extremely offended when they hear of someone leaving their spouse after the spouse has been diagnosed with cancer.The story is actually a lot more common than most people thinks.Who are you to judge these people?Can you say for certain you'd stick around during the bad times?

2007-05-03 03:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend for almost 11 months cheated on me but i love him so much i dont want to be away from him what do do do i stay with him if he swears to commit to me i committed to him and hedid me wrng so do i just make him swear to me or what im so confused and lost am i making a mistake by stayin with him if he commits should i have people watch out for him in the class the he cheated on her with she pushed his hand away so it wasnt her it was all him but i dont know just sopmebody try to help me please????

2007-05-03 03:54:25 · 15 answers · asked by ihatebarbies 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 03:46:21 · 24 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating