I been with my b/f for almost 3yrs now and he never wants to take me to a trip with him and his friends!He goes on trips to nice places with his friends at least 3 times a year! I know that he wants to be with his friends and I always give him his space and let him hang out and never question whats he does to an extent?!I I talk to him about it and he says that it would be to expensive to take me and all these b/s! but in reality his friends free load off him because his dad is a lawyer !I remember on a trip to cali he paid $500 dollars in gas to fill up his escalade! and never asked his friend for gas money!There is gotta be more to this! in a guys opinion only why do u think he never wants me to come along?
2007-05-03 04:31:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go quickly and rent "Brokeback Mountain" Hope this helps!
2007-05-03 04:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Boys Only" trips are what they are, an excuse to be foolish and infintile. Usually when females come along, they change the dynamics and thus I can see why he never wants you to come along. That being said, I would be worried if he never takes you anywhere...Perhaps you could ask or organize a trip for you guys and his friends and their significant others...
I wouldn't worry about the trips (I wish I could afford 3 times a year). Does he call you at least once while he's away? If so, you're in good shape..if not, and you're worried, there's no problem with you calling (just once) to see how he's doing while he's away (to ease your mind).
Hope this helps...
2007-05-03 11:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ottguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those of us who enjoy our girlfriend/wifes company like having them around and take them on trips (though we also like having some guys time as well).
I guess the question is: does he take you places the rest of the year? If these 2 or 3 times a year trips with his guy friends is bugging you, while he hangs out with you the rest of the time then don't worry. He just needs time with his boys.
If he doesn't spend time with you alone then he isn't ready to commit to your relationship. He likes hanging with his boys and maybe even getting a little "booty" on the side during these trips. He is reliving his single days.
2007-05-03 11:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by forestpirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a macho thing playing a game.called: " let's see who gets laid first". Sorry guys, but I went through that route before I woke up. There is no reason why he can't afford to take you on a nice trip without his friends. I like to go deep sea fishing with my friends, and it is not a sport for a women. But while I go fishing with the "boys" my wife and the wives of some of the married men come along. They do their thing, shopping, lunches, what ever, and we all come together at night for dinner (if we can stay awake). This bf of yours wants his cake and eat it too. Move on. He will cheat on you whenever the opportunity presents itself.
2007-05-03 11:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some reasons i can think of
1) you did once a trip together and it wasnt a success.
2) he thinks he cannot do the things he'd like to do during his trip because you want to go ( for instance ) shopping and he doesnt.
3) het thinks it is too expensive, he doesnt want to pay your trip because he thinks he alraeady pays enough things for you.
4) he doesnt like your company for a whole trip , just one twoo day per week is enough for him.
5) he thinks you talk too much that you are too prominent there and that he just wants some rest and do the things he likes and not argue about every little single thing.
2007-05-03 11:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not willing to take u on atrip then u are just a convenience that satisfies his itch. u should not date a guy who is not willing to go places with u. he dad may b rich but what is that getting u, nothing but rides in his escalade. do u want to marry this guy? is he going to college? Work? find someone who loves u and wants to travel.
2007-05-03 11:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More important, does he ever offer to take just you on a trip with him alone? If not, he is using you and you'd be better off without him.
2007-05-03 11:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be nice to his friends. but i don't think he's a good man if he left his girlfriend. a good b/f will always be by you side. try to talk about it once again, just try to honest that you don't want to be ignored. another thought about it, he has a secret. he doesn't open his heart. couple should open eachother, if they can't do that, where's the point of love?
2007-05-03 11:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by immozleviathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could not be that free when around him in those trips
2007-05-03 11:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dosen't want somebody he cares about to see what kinda crazy things he does when he's out with his friends.
2007-05-03 11:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Renegade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋