My fiance and I watch porn almost everytime we have sex, is it normal to always have it on?
2007-05-03 04:50:17 · 12 answers · asked by Badabing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If that's what turns you on, I don't see what's wrong with it...
But once you run out of videos, your sexlife might crumble. So I'd advise you to try to do it in new ways, without the porn, to try to ween yourselves off it, just in case.
2007-05-03 04:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly_soup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your feeling and this is what I did to change this situation,
Just add on to the atmosphere, throw in some candles, a feather,turn off the sound and add some sensual music.
Create an ambiance that resembles your love for each other. Love your question. I teach couples how to listen to each others body's through massage. Show them different kinds of touch.
Good luck
Betty boo
xoxoxoxo
2007-05-03 12:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Betty boop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Occasionally I think it's fun and quite the turn on, but every time and on the entire time is a bit obsessive. I don't think it's good for your sex life.
I think you need to try something else, and put the porn up sometimes.
Best of luck.
2007-05-03 11:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Brin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, for starter...whatever makes you two feel comfortable should be enough reasurrance that it is ok. Whatever you two want to do in your bedroom as long as it doesnt hurt other people then it is fine.
The question is, are you alright with it? You wouldnt be asking this question if you thought there was an issue.
With that said. Do what you feel is best.
2007-05-03 11:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to watch porn in my opinion, but perhaps you guys are getting to reliant on it - which is easy to do.
Bring something new into it instead, and try and ween yourself off it - you'll have a more interesting sex life.
But don't feel like you're not normal! x
2007-05-03 11:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normal? Who knows these days.
But it's definitely not good for your relationship with each other, or for your attitudes on intimacy with others.
Your attentions should be focused on each other.
2007-05-03 12:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Bobby Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u crazy???? everytime is too much! have u ever tried doing it without porn? wat'll happen after marriage? if you really want 2 see such stuff do it wid ur eyes wide open
2007-05-03 12:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by chinky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Occassionally yes, all the time i think you might have a problem. Talk to him about it, see what his answer is for this.
2007-05-03 11:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's foreplay.
2007-05-03 11:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all the time, good lord, I'd be insulted !
2007-05-03 11:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by dogriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋