How do i stop us from ending?

Question

IVE BEEN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND FOR 9 MONTHS NOW AND IT STOPPED FOR 2 MONTHS SHE GOT WIT ANOTHER N SO DID I WE BOTH DEVELOPED STRONG FEELINGS FO DEZ GIRLS N NOT TO MENTAION ONE IZ ME BEST FRIEND N DA OTHA IZ HER COUSIN, WELL WE BCK 2 GETHER N THINK THAT MAYBE WE SHOULD SEE THESE GIRLS AGAIN BUT IM SAID SURE BUT I DONT MEAN IT I LOVE HER SO MUCH N DONT THINK I CAN LIVE WITH OUT HER, SHE SAYS NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE OTHER THEN WE GONNA CLAIM OTHA PEOPLE BUT I WANNA CLAIM HER NOT NO ONE ELSE :( WHAT SHOULD I DO? IM SCARED TO TELL HER HOW I REALLY FEEL B/C MY BEST FRIEND IS SO HAPPY THAT THEY ARE GETTIN BCK TO GETHER I DNT WANT TO HURT HER ONCE AGAIN MANN IM HURTIN MY SLEF. I HATE IM PUTTIN OTHERS B4 ME N HURTIN MYSELF SO BADD

Answer 1

Is she sexual active with these other ladies? If so its time you guys start talking to each other about the difference between sex and making love. With out this clear line of difference in your guys perception it doesn't matter what you say to her, she might confuse your life with theres because she doesn't see nothing "special" or "magical" about being with you over them. This is going to come down thou to how close you guys are not how much you clame love, its just a word understand. Its how much action you guys show for each other that makes it true and with you hiding your feelings, you failed both of you! And your fing up the relaitonship and the closeness you can share. So time to ballz up and do whats right are your both going to end up unhappy...