my boyfriend for almost 11 months cheated on me but i love him so much i dont want to be away from him what do do do i stay with him if he swears to commit to me i committed to him and hedid me wrng so do i just make him swear to me or what im so confused and lost am i making a mistake by stayin with him if he commits should i have people watch out for him in the class the he cheated on her with she pushed his hand away so it wasnt her it was all him but i dont know just sopmebody try to help me please????
2007-05-03 03:54:25 · 15 answers · asked by ihatebarbies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So it seems that you like being cheated on. If you want to be stressed out everytime he is out of your sight, go back with him. Remember once a dog always a dog. You should find someone who respects you and that you can trust
2007-05-03 04:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by blackpup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self esteem is shot otherwise you would know that you deserve better. He doesn't care about you at all and he will continue to hurt you. The only person who can change things is you, but you will need to hit rock bottom first. I say these things because I have been there too: I dated a guy for 1 yr. Loved him to death. After about 9 months things changed. I started to hear that he was cheating, and I caught him in lies. He always had an explanation for everything and I started to question myself. After 2 months of this crap, I had had enough and realized that it was better to be alone than to be miserable so I dumped him. Hopefully one day you will realize that you are worth more and that there are still great guys out there and that you deserve one of them.
2007-05-03 04:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's going to cheat on u again ok. I've cheated b4 & i hated myself for it. i wz in a bad relationship though so i felt i had a reason to cheat. but from the sound of it u2 had a good relationship u commited to him & he did u wrong, & i hang around a lot of guys & they all say everytime they cheat they do it again...so save yourself the heartache & jus leave the boy. He'll know he has u on a string once u take him back, to him u'll jus b a rag doll. & believe me nothing hurts more than being cheated on twice i made the mistake of takin my guy back & he did me wrong again. so believe me experience here just let the boy go. u will find somebody who wil respect u & treat u a lot better. ur guy will just be a repeat. so just forget about him already!!!
Hope you make the right decision.
2007-05-03 07:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a glutton for punishment. This guy has already cheated on you twice. What makes you think he gives a damn about giving you his word? Chances are that he will keep doing this again and again because he knows he can get away with anything now and you will still be there to say oh baby i forgive you.
2007-05-03 05:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have low self esteem to keep putting up with the behavior and need to see a therapist, or the cycle will probably continue. You have to accept that no matter how bad you may feel about yourself, you deserve better than to be cheated on.
2007-05-03 04:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are setting your self up for heart ache....actually you are asking for it! why would you want to be with someone who cheats on you?...there are too many people out there to waste your time on a dogggg! you sound very young, and hunny he is not going to be your husband unless you are missing some brain cells......i need you to realize that when someone cheats and you allow them back into your life after they do it , then they do it again and you let them back in again the message you are sending them is " It is okay for you to hurt and betray me, and you can do it as much as you want, becasue i will always be the doormat that lets you walk all over me and i will always take you back" that is retarted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please consider this i am not attempting to be mean just truthful i know from my past mistakes.....givin a cheater another try is just a joke.......
2007-05-03 04:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im still in the same predicament...leave him and dont call at all no matter how much u want.i m not gonna judge u cause i know...he may come back 2 you if he realises u have moved on but dont go back...if u stay strong and do this and open up 2 new ppl in relationships u will be alright and he will realize what he did and what he had cause he wont have u anymore and its HIS FAULT....whatever u put up with is what he'll do...Take my advice it might take time tho STAY STRONG....feel free 2 email me...Just break the habit...
2007-05-03 05:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tryna_Make_It 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are going to let someone walk all over you, they will. So if you can't kick him to the curb, then he'll continue kicking you in the back while being with other women. He's not the fool here sweetheart, wake up and grow up.
Remember the phrase: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
(Oh & by the way, the next time you write, please be sure to use punctuation marks!).
2007-05-03 04:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Madd Scientist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he'd live up to the swear? He's already broken that promise twice. He'll never learn to change his behavior as long as you keep giving him chance after chance after chance. There's no reason for him to change if you do that. Stop being his doormat. Toss him.
2007-05-03 04:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
clearly he loved you and the other two girls and who knows maybe hes only admitted to two. and no not always a cheater i just dont think you should see him clearly he didnt deserve a second chance move on take up a hobby and read my blog i give out advice and you can get a laugh at whats going on in my 17 year old life
2016-05-19 07:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋