Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

I am in a very abusive family, but no one seems to believe me because i cant show any brusies... i dont know what to do, ive gone to social services twice and nothing happens, i am 15 and i am physically and verbaly abused by my parents. i want to move out but i dont know when its leagal and when its not...ANY answers will help immensly

2007-05-03 05:56:26 · 30 answers · asked by zandi_runt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf is 5 months pregnant and she broke up with me and I had no clue anything was wrong. I was happy with the pregnancy and wanted to get married and two days after she discussed marriage is when she told me she needed time to think and then broke up with me 2 days after that. Well we are talking now and I want to be a family together. I already had a ring and every thing and she knows it now. Well I met her to give her a gift I had bought her and we talked for a little while and it was good. Well I asked if we were ok and she said we had a lot to work on. But she also said she wanted to be married before the baby was born and asked when she would get the ring. I then asked if she would come over to spend some time with me the next week and she said it depends on how things go when we talk Friday. She said she is making a list of things to discuss and I made a list to. But her words confuse me is all. It sounds like she wants marriage but it sounds different to. Help me with this one!

2007-05-03 05:53:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just posted a question about why guys love boxing..and i was wondering does the fact that males would compete to be the 'alpha male' in the wild have anything to do with the fact that men are competitive like over women..like when i used to mention this other guy and his car to me ex he used to become really competitive with his car and have something against this other guy..would this relate to males natural behaviour when competing over women for a mate in the wild? and is it instinctive? im just curious lol

2007-05-03 05:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by x_x_sweetlove_x_x 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married and I will be a bridesmaid. The bridesmaids are giving her a lingerie shower. I will buy something for the lingerie party and a gift for the main tea. How much do I spend ALL together on a gift for the main tea and lingerie party? Also, do I get a gift that she is registered for or do I buy something else for the bride and groom together? Thanks!!

2007-05-03 05:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by Tiger Eyes 3 in Weddings

my brother was sent away at four in the morning without his previous knowledge, and i didnt' get to say goodbye. i have been banned from all my friends because my parents don't approve of them, and have at times contemplated and almost fulfilled suicide. i have cut myself before, and am having a hard time staying away from that addictive habit. my boyfriend is the only thing between me and madness.
my parents won't buy me things that i need. not want, actually NEED. they are perfectionists, and refuse to allow me personal space. my dad goes through my room, my mom reads my journals and gets my secrets.
i want to move out when i turn sixteen, but my parents refuse to allow me, instead wanting to send me to a youth correctional facility in St.George. my religious culture is pressuring me to be the perfect 'mormon', and i hate it.
i have been to counciling for a year now, and all of my councillors say that i am a normal average kid with a little bit of depression.
am i crazy or not?

2007-05-03 05:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by -Nessa- 2 in Family

2007-05-03 05:40:14 · 1 answers · asked by Erlinda F 1 in Singles & Dating

he acts like nothing happened except we don't kiss and stuff like bf's and gf's do. im so confused...am i getting mixed signals

2007-05-03 05:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by girlygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at a bar and she was fine as hell. i had sex with her that night. i took her to meet my mom and i found out that her dad is my mom's brother.

2007-05-03 05:34:53 · 19 answers · asked by Ladies Nutz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 05:33:27 · 17 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you flirt with teen girls in school without making major signs

this is for my age (15)

2007-05-03 05:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married 10 years, and I am his first. He is my.... well, he's definitely not my first. I enjoy sex, and we are together at least 3/4 times a week. My problem is that he is turned off, or grossed out at how wet I get. He says stuff like, why are you so slimy. Is there anything I can do to help him enjoy it more? I keep a cloth with me during the act, and am constantly having to wipe, to make sure I am very dry, so he doesn't feel disgusted. I want to be able to enjoy this part of me with him. Any suggestions???

2007-05-03 05:33:10 · 48 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for nearly two years desperately in love with each other, until we've had a fight and decided to separate and we tell each other we love each other a lot,but lately we were suppose to see each other, and he didnt pick up on meor talk to me the whole day. I miss him, and i dont know what to do...itseem s like he moved on, but we promised we will work it all out, but what should i do?

2007-05-03 05:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like how do i act attracticly around a guy and stuff.

2007-05-03 05:30:38 · 9 answers · asked by amanda82010 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 05:29:51 · 10 answers · asked by smitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it a total turn off for you? Even if its just like... two pimples?

2007-05-03 05:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guy 1 i have'nt met yet ,he is so sweet and seems as if he will be faith full why guy 2 seems like he is playing games with me,and the fisrst night we hung out he even told me he is still hung up on his ex even tho he hates er he still thinks about her.while guy 1 told me he was over hes ex and is ready to be in a realationship.ha and guy 2 is realy needy....

2007-05-03 05:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by jenni a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 05:29:07 · 32 answers · asked by CALIFORNIA luvin 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has become addicted to a new writing website. Everyday he is on it for hours at a time. It's one of the first things he does when he gets home from work. It's the last thing he does before bed, and it's the first thing he does in the morning. I understand he needs something to help wind down after a long day, but does he have to be on it for more hours than he spends with his family? I've talked to him about it many times, and he'll try to do better, but that doesn't last long. I need help. I've become jealous of this website.

2007-05-03 05:28:07 · 18 answers · asked by Hopper52 2 in Family

I treated a friend/coworker pretty badly now i need to make things right again how can i do that to ease the tension i mean i did finally apologize. playing the waiting game.

2007-05-03 05:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by curious 2 in Friends

I'm sorry if this wording upsets anyone, and I don't know if this is even the right category for this, but I'm talking about BDSM, rape, and things like that. I never would want these things to happen to anyone in real life, but I can't help fantasizing about them. Is this wrong, especially since I'm a woman? I can't help but feel guilty about it. Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-05-03 05:24:24 · 19 answers · asked by Persephone 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend booked a holiday for himself and some of his friends and family ( who are all male) before we met last year so obviously he is still going to go. He is off to spain tomorrow and there are 42 guys altogether, some of which are his dad and his cousins and uncles. Its just because its a guys holiday, im really worried about him cheating. I suppose I will never find out but I know the whole week he is away Im going to be worried sick. Do you think i have a right to be worried? I dont think he would cheat but with sun, sea and alchohol, who knows what might happen! He said he will call me everyday? We will wait and see..................!?

2007-05-03 05:24:24 · 12 answers · asked by Lolly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 05:23:31 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love someone who is currently with another girl, who is also currently with someone else, and would dump both of them for someone I think of as a brother if he werent joining the army.

And yet he gets mad at me because I wont go out with him till he dumps her!
Me <3 'Josh'
Josh <3 me, but still with 'Her'
Her <3 josh(bf), mike(fiance!!!! ) and matt(would dump both josh and mike for him)

and yet I'm the only one getting yelled at!

here is my I'm a freaken girl help me question--0 ZOMG LIKE love -tri-hexagonal-angle^9 >.>

2007-05-03 05:23:09 · 14 answers · asked by peace.ofmind 3 in Singles & Dating

girls with a gut? not big but like medium i guess.. lol

2007-05-03 05:22:28 · 15 answers · asked by Nichole 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiancee are working together at a call center and sometimes i feel like its not a good idea to be working with him since we already spend a lot of time together. what would you do in this situation?

2007-05-03 05:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by out of control 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have almost given up on men cause they either cheat or married and some don't want a commitment how do you find love these days when you haven't dated in a whiledue to the fact you were married and now widowed

2007-05-03 05:21:43 · 19 answers · asked by wounderwoman44 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Simple as that... looking for bright and entertaining characters to randomly fill the void that is "my job".

2007-05-03 05:21:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whats a 42 year old single man to do?

2007-05-03 05:21:25 · 18 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1 in Singles & Dating

My curiosity is getting the best of me. I'm 26 years old and I'm falling for a much much older man. He's going to be 48 in a couple of weeks. We have been conversating alot lately and we both think that we might want to take the next step but... I wondering at what age do man start seeing problems with their sexual performance. We have put this off for awhile to make sure that it is something that we both want and also to see if we could handle to idea that people would have a problem with the age difference. BTW - It's currently a long distance relationship. I know that he is still capable of performing but I think it would be rude for me to come right out and ask him this question. I also have no one else to ask. I know sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship but it does help in building a strong foundation especially in the beginning. Could anyone help me with my question so maybe I can have a heads up so I know what to expect if we continue farther.

2007-05-03 05:21:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my husband drives my friend home after me and her get out of work, she don't have her license and she asks for rides from us most of the time and it is out of our way we get out of work at 11 and she don't say thanks or offer anything. my husband works mornings so he told me to tell her that he thinks that shes taking advantage of us and she is soo mad now and shes telling a lot of people at our workplace, she was saying to me, when was the last time I ask you for a ride, ummm it been awhile because me my husband just had our vacation so we werent here....this girl got issues, she puts me down sometimes and everytime I cry for her

2007-05-03 05:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Friends