he acts like nothing happened except we don't kiss and stuff like bf's and gf's do. im so confused...am i getting mixed signals
2007-05-03 05:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by girlygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just using you so he doesn't have to take the time to move his stuff. Living with you is easy and comfortable, and he is assuming that since you haven't asked him to leave, that he can stay. This will NOT WORK. Can you imagine if either one of you brings home someone else? Or has a date pick you up at your home? For your best possible chance of moving on and having a normal relationship again, you need to ask him to find a new place. Maybe even get a roommate if you need someone to help with rent?
2007-05-03 05:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by AZrunner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get out of the situation. sounds like he is not mature enough for a relationship and is using the house to keep you within sight of him but then doing his own thing. you deserve someone that is willing to commit and is open...this is why its best not to move in with just a gf/bf. thats why you should only do this when your fully committed in a marriage
2007-05-03 12:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am confused myself with this one. What I see is going on is that he wants to see if you have the courage to tell him to get out. If you two aren't together then why should he be with you? Shouldn't you be moving on? I think so, try to talk and see whats going on before you make any major moves.
2007-05-03 12:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by {♥Sadie King♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you still live together? He probably still wants to be friends with you, but the situation is complicated because you don't know where he stands. You should speak to him and see how he feels, but if you still have feelings for him, then one of you has to move out.
2007-05-03 12:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Devi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend in the same situation, They live separate lives but they say for financial purposes they are still living together, well guess what... that break up doesn't stop occassional sex every now and then and now she is pregnant!
2007-05-03 12:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's odd, id move out. How weird would it be if he brought home another girl? he probably likes having you there for the things you do around the apartment/house.
2007-05-03 12:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Julz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! If this is not an option for financial/lease reasons, then you need to clarify this with him. I dont know your situation, but it sounds to me like someone needs to move out.
2007-05-03 12:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by 121381 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know how everyone is saying for you to move out? Dont. Throw his stuff out. That's what i would do... you know change the locks. He'll get the message...
2007-05-03 12:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by kitties_41125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just bein an a s s h o l e like all guys are
2007-05-03 12:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you tell him that yall can't live together if yall not together,or just teel him yall can work things out,or do u still want to be with him.
2007-05-03 12:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋