Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

I know I shouldn't have been but I was alone at home with his cell phone and browsing through his pics ( been together 7 years so this should be cool) the point is nex to the pic of our daughter ther is a pic of 2 other women I don't know and he's never mentioned to me. Also he had alot of new phone numbers of women that I don't know. I finally confronted him about the pic and the women. He said they are just friends. I don't think he should be giving his number out to new women when he meets them. I don't mind his old friends like from High School but come on. I don't do this and he shouldn't either. He has been going out with his friends and not when he's out he doesn't anwer the phone. Please give me some advice. I am going crazy right now.

2007-05-03 07:12:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He also has a 10yr daughter . I'm worried about her .
His father called offered me money to make this go away . What does that say about him ?

2007-05-03 07:11:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know you aren't supposed to do this and it only hurts the marriage even more but... have you ever done this and not meant it?

2007-05-03 07:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by Nina Lee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

...If there are two girls: one you like, but don't really know that well, and one that's your friend, but she's not exactly the prettiest flower in the garden, who would you ask to your senior prom and why?

2007-05-03 07:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3 in Singles & Dating

My friends getting married and she's requested song ideas - I want a silly song any ideas????

2007-05-03 07:05:12 · 25 answers · asked by Nicolala 2 in Weddings

ok , so I met this real great girl at work a few months ago, and we went out and all for a little bit but things kinda ended because she said she wasn't ready because she was still in love with her ex or whatever so I respected that and gave her some space. I really liked this girl a lot and I really thought I could have something serious with her too. well, me and her best friend are real good friends too and about a month later her friend tells me shes going to go out with this guy next week or whatever so I felt bad because she lied 2 me...Long story short her birthday is coming up in a couple weeks and I know the perfect present for her too, but my friends say don't get her anything and I don't know if I should get her something or not. I guess I want to get her something because I don't want to be a poor sport about things + I still have strong feelings for her, even though she hurt my feelings and lied to me.What do you think I should do...Should I get her something or not?

2007-05-03 07:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by 619 1 in Singles & Dating

I am writting a research report, and i need people's opinions, so do you think sex before marriage is okay? Why or why not? please give honest specific answers. thanks

-Stephanie
Los Angeles, California

2007-05-03 07:02:16 · 40 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Singles & Dating

Are we teaching our kids to surpress their feelings - sort of like some of the priests who go molest everyone???

2007-05-03 07:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 07:00:52 · 26 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was recently seeing this lad, we would meet up and we had a laugh and everything but he would never talk to me infront of his mates apart from a quick 'hey' and now things have reli changed. We havent tlked properly for a while now and ive heard he kissed my friend whilst i was seeing him and hes now got some other girl on the go. When i saw him today, i ignored him? was this the right thing to do? or should i act like everything is fine? please help!

2007-05-03 06:59:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But one thing does stand out in all of this besides scammers and such. One of you said basically, go to him because we don't need anymore immigrants. At least he's willing to do it legally....Pay attention to the news....Look at all the people that are here illegally and get onto our "aid" systems....(when alot of american born americans can't even get aid when they really do need it) .there's -0- being done about the ones that are here already and the efforts to keep more out are not working. Our country was based on immigrants, remember?

2007-05-03 06:57:49 · 1 answers · asked by Kelly773 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bill to sender
Bill in my wallet
Bill Clinton
Bill Gates
Bill Ny the science guy
Bill and Grace
Bills on wheels
Bill of Rights
Bill on capital Hill

2007-05-03 06:52:29 · 10 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to get an emancipation, will he help me? but if i want him to help me will i have to mention my abusive parents? and if i do, what would he do?

2007-05-03 06:51:08 · 15 answers · asked by zandi_runt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 06:50:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get an emancipation, will he help me? but if i want him to help me will i have to mention my abusive parents? and if i do, what would he do?

2007-05-03 06:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by zandi_runt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it bad to blow after your married?

2007-05-03 06:48:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have my daughter 3 nights one week and 4 the next i've sighned over the house to the ex to keep our daughter at the same school. does anyone know were i stand on weather i still have to pay for my daughters up keep when she is with the ex and not with me

2007-05-03 06:38:03 · 23 answers · asked by DOROTHY M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lets say you really like this girl but the problem is she was with a mutual friend of yours for a few years(she caught him cheating so she left him)he still wants her but she wont take him back,he has told you to stay away.Another obsticle is that you are friends w/her brother and he also told you stay away.would you still go for her?

2007-05-03 06:36:35 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 06:35:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating nearly 5 years, prior to that we were bestfriends for 4.5. We want to get married but we are at odds because he wants to get married later so he can build an empire and give me everything I want; and I want to get married earlier and build it with him. I am not the dominating type and I want him to want to to marry me not be forced into it. How can we compromise? We are noth 23 and previously agreed on 25 but I could tell he felt pressured. I feel if I leve it in his hands it means that he will be asking me when I am 30. I am beside myself! My parents are strict ethnics and moving out or going away with him would create major problems for me and my relationship with them. On the other hand, I don't want to wait until I am 30 to share so many important things with him. We are at odds and have no idea how to resolve this issue, please - do you have any suggestions?

2007-05-03 06:34:53 · 14 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

I was kind of seeing this guy and he acted like he was really in to me,and one day out of the blue he just stops calling.So a few days later I called him and he says he really busy with work.I don't know if to believe him or not.If he didn't want to see me anymore why wouldn't he just come out and say it.

2007-05-03 06:32:54 · 26 answers · asked by stardustgirl86 2 in Singles & Dating

He is in another country. I have searched the scammers websites and cannot find him anywhere. My scammer before, I found (afterwards) on one of the scammer sites. I have been talking to him for over a year. He hasn't asked for much. I've sent him small things like cards, keychains, etc. How can I check his isp location for free? Is there anywhere else I can check to see if he's on the list? I met him while I was being scammed by the other guy. He tried to stop me. Of course I didn't listen. He taught me ALOT of what to look out for , how to turn the guy in, (of course, and he admitted this, nothing would happen) etc. Now he is planning to come here to be with me. My heart of course says one thing but my mind is still a bit questioning. He's come through on everything he promised me so far. I just really want to believe there ARE nice people other places. I've had 2 divorces here in the states and don't need more probs....What would you do?

2007-05-03 06:32:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kelly773 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

over a year ago I fell for him when he held me till i slept because i was still upset about catching my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)he at one point after that night told me i was'killing him'.I have heard his name throughout the year(we have mutual freinds)i finally called him and told him he was'eating me alive'he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone.so i told him to tell me to let it go and he said he cant,i ran into him a couple weeks after and we were like magnets and ended up kissing uncontrolably(we both had been drinking)i stopped him when i remembered his girlfriend,he continued to tell me how he wished he had known and brought up that night a year ago and how he had gained feelings from it,he said im the cutest girl alive.it has been over a month and no sign from him since.Can I do anything about me still liking him?Do i ever have a chance?

2007-05-03 06:26:17 · 9 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 06:25:31 · 34 answers · asked by Dynnah 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this one guy for 9 months. I really do love him but he is treating me like crap. He lets people talk about me BAD! I really wish I could just get over him but I cant see me without him. He will be a complete jerk one day then the next he will be extra nice just so I won't leave him. HELP PLEASE!

2007-05-03 06:25:30 · 16 answers · asked by Heather D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 06:18:05 · 22 answers · asked by cards4now 1 in Family

I have tried to have best , honest friend so we can live together in lovely way,but yet I haven't . because I,m too honest so that more people can foold me .?

2007-05-03 06:15:49 · 3 answers · asked by bobmkonateh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

as parents we think he is way too old for her.she feels the need to be with a guy older b/c she says guys her age are too inmature.she is not too mature herself.there is no respect for us as parents and our wishes for her future. you know he is the one and only.the one she wants to marry.the fact is she has run away with this guy 3 times and been locked up for that,quit school and all she is focusing on is him and what they want to do.he is promising to marry her just as soon as she turns 18.we recently found out that the reason why he wont move on with his life is b/c he says if he moves out of the pic it will leave room for another guy to come in.this is exactly what her dad and i would love to see.we would love to see her slow down and do teen things and not grow up so fast.he doesnt trust their relationship if he cant see her or talk to her on a regular basis. we want him to go away until she is an adult and then if they really love one another then it will still be there.

2007-05-03 06:14:16 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do love him so much but his parents dont want a filipina for him

2007-05-03 06:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by lenenon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been married for almost 6 years and have one 2 year old daughter. I'll admit our first year was more than rocky. Getting used to each other was tough because we had never lived together. The last couple of years have been the best of my life. My husband is a successful business owner, we moved into a brand new home and I am a stay at home mom to our baby. I've been happy...extremely happy. After an argument over something very petty yesterday he decided to say that he may not want to be married anymore. He said he's not sure. He wants to go to counseling. I am devastated. This came as a huge shock to me. How do I go through each wondering if today he'll decide to end things? I feel like I'm in limbo and that I can barely function because I don't know if I have a marriage or not. He said I need to relax and we will work through it. How can I relax if our marriage is potentially ending? I called a lawyer for advice but I don't even believe in divorce. I love him.

2007-05-03 05:59:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce