2007-05-03 06:50:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never ever stop supporting and encouraging him....
2007-05-03 06:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by pimple_girl88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are quiet by nature. You cannot change a person's personality. Confidence is gained through experience, not forced upon a person.
If you really like this guy, learn to live with his quiet nature. When and if he is ready to talk, he will. Otherwise, move on to a person more suitable to the type of personality you want in a boyfriend.
2007-05-03 06:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change your man you know. A persons personality is in place by age seven years. If you try and change him you will lose him-if he's like me-and I am quiet too. I would advise to just be sweet and loving and accept him as he is. If he feels loved then his confidence will develop from that unconditional love you provide
2007-05-03 06:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quiet as well. Maybe it is because you talk to much. If you sit with him quietly eventually he will talk, and you will find out more about him. Then you will have stuff to talk about.
(forcing a man to talk only creates space and anger)
2007-05-03 07:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Scottie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to date someone confident, you shouldn't have gone for this guy. If this guy gains confidence, it should be through his own means and for his own reasons. You could always encourage him, but trying to change someone in a relationship to suit your needs always ends up in a failed relationship. You knew he was shy when you went in, either accpet it or let him find someone who will.
2007-05-03 06:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider a menage a troi that favours your boyfriend? Convince him he's his generation's Ron Jeremy and his confidence will rocket.
2007-05-03 07:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Simon D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a word in edgeways.
Seriously, some people are naturally quieter than others. As long as you can communicate well together, enjoy the peace!
2007-05-03 06:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to ego stroke, its the best way to incite confidence, communication, and a loving response.
2007-05-03 06:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husbands really quiet until its footy or any type of sport try to find out his interests and get him talking about them
2007-05-03 06:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by christinebarrow@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is confident but just doesnt want to talk.
2007-05-03 06:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by ben c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he change? If he has always been like this you have chosen the wrong guy for you.
2007-05-03 06:58:01 · answer #11 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋