2007-05-03 06:35:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have a sound mind and body, and are fully adult and doing that with someone whom you love and if this is after marriage, then there is no question of feeling bad about it.
2007-05-05 14:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From about 6-11 I was constantly worrying whether I was a good enough person, basically because of my conservative christian upbringing. But I never really 'believed', I was always questioning from a young age. So, regardless of where somebody is in their questioning, if they're asking questions, I definitely have sympathy. Nobody chooses their family or their upbringing. But if the person is a spiritless (pun noted) dogma parrot, I'm much less inclined to feel sympathy or even pity. A side note - interestingly enough, I don't feel that I've ever really felt guilty about anything. I was always so worried about getting everything figured out right so I could be a good person, or something, as far back as I can remember (as a result of it all not really making any sense, I would later come to realize). I was always trying, so I never really considered anything mea culpa.
2016-05-19 21:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is neither bad nor a sin. Without sex you would not have come on earth. Often people brought up in a very religious atmosphere or in a very conservative household are made to hold the view that sex is bad or dirty as it can remove a person away from God. Such thoughts often become ingrained in an adult mind. Sexual perversion or illegalities relating to sex is bad. But 2 normal adults having it with mutual consent is good and also beneficial to their overall health.
2007-05-03 07:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about having sex and feeling guilty, then I'd ask why. If you are experiencing guilt because you are having sex with someone with whom you're not married and this is against either a morale code or religious conviction you have, then I say you may want to try and refrain so that you can feel okay about yourself. However, if you are feeling distressed for these same reasons just because you think about it or day dream about it, then I'd say you are just being a male (so lighten up on yourself). If you are feeling guilty about it and you are having sex with a spouse, than I say, dude, that's THE place to have it. Enjoy, have fun, and cut loose, my man!!
2007-05-03 06:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad or a sin.. its a beautiful thing when it happens between two people who love and care for each other. its an expression rather than just a physical action. You should never feel guilt or anything negative. if you have been sexually abused it might be a good idea to seek professional help in order for u to heal. Dont give your body to anyone who will take it.. save it for someone special.
2007-05-03 06:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Amy C 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you are religious then sex before marriage our outside of your marital relationship is a sin. However, if you aren't religious then you are feeling what comes naturally to all of us human beings and no, you should not feel bad or guilty about it. If you feel guilty after having sex you have to ask yourself why and stop doing it if your consience pricks you..............your conscience is trying to tell you something very subtly so take heed. Maybe you are just not ready. Don't fret too much though.
2007-05-03 09:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to read some of the excellent research into 'Human Sexuality.' You will see that the urge to procreate (to have sex) is built into our brains, as it is with all other animals. It is neither wrong to think about it nor is it a sin, unless you make it so. Making love with a loved one is one of the most beautiful and natural things we humans get to experience. And so far...the government hasn't figured out how to tax it!
2007-05-03 06:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT is not clear whether u r male or female. Well, it is the state of mind when you do something against your concious, you feel guilty. It is the environment in which you were brought up, which is guilty. Sex is NOT A BAD THING, if done legally and with mutual agreement. However, it is bad to feel guilty. Always listen to your heart and soul, then act, you will never feel guilty. If you are mature and the opposite sex is willing to have fun with you, go ahead. Don't be ashamed for anything...
2007-05-03 06:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I don't know how old you are...but I had the exact same thing when I was younger.... but I got over it, and now I only feel it during certain things... chances are you will get over it, it isn't a sin, but maybe your body is telling you that you are not ready for it yet... I love sex now, so you're okay... no worries!
2007-05-03 15:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As every body saying sex is natural then why this is related to marriage. Marriage system is made by human not by nature so don't feel guilt just do it man and n-joy.
If your thoughts are not good or you are doing sex by force then you can think so.
Force can be or to be by anyone.
2007-05-03 06:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by milgayaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋