Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

Would you have a long distance relationship with a 25 man whom still lived at home with his parents, works at a fitness gym as a personal trainer(for two years) but never has any money, but he's taken on a job as a drummer for a restaruant for extra money, hangs out on myspace all the time, has been at a junior college for four years and yet still isn't half way finished to getting his A.A. Degree.I know it's totally up too me and I know that, but I have a degree,and I have money, but I don't see us really balancing each other .what do you think

2007-05-03 09:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Drea B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 20 years old, recently moved out from home so am fairly independent and hold a full time job.

2007-05-03 09:42:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my bf (3 weeks ago) and we tried to reconcile last night. He never drinks, and he got ripped (crying whiskey). I asked him if he had been with anyone, and it was ok if he had because I had been out with someone, he said no.Telling me that he was sorry for what he had done and loved me. I've never doubted this man or not trusted him. It put a question in my mind and I did the crazy gf thing and looked at his messages in his phone...Yep, there they were. The good morning text, thanks for the pictures, are you home yet, etc.
I know that we were broken up and I came clean but he's still denying it. I can move on from this relationship, I already got the ball rolling 3 weeks ago. Will I always have that trust doubt in the back of my mine.

Thanks...Let me have it....

2007-05-03 09:41:01 · 8 answers · asked by Luvatlanta 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex behaved bad with me because he had a terrible life. He was in a bad marriage and the only happiness he had was me. i also hurt him because i did not get what I wanted from him. i have moved on but feel very guilty for what i did to him. he equally did wrong but I still fel bad. How do i get rid of this guilt feeling. We were soulmates and had a bad breakup with a lot of hurts and pains. i feel I will never be able to love anyone because I already met someone who completed me, except that he was married. A married soulmate, who was never mine. but we shared deep emotions and not even made it a complete physical relation. Just physical intimacy... How do i forget all that and move on?

2007-05-03 09:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Without you? Why or why not?
thanks have a good one :)

2007-05-03 09:37:42 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recieved a call from a friend, a very good friend, who i think basically called and put an end to our friendship.

Things have been awful with me and my husband. and she said that whenever she tried to talk to me about it I was snappy and shouted her down whenever she gave advice. I feel embarrased and ashamed because looking back she is right, I did.

I have text to say how sorry I am and that all I can think of was I was so caught up in the stress I just did not realise. Needless to say, she has not responded. What should I do now?

2007-05-03 09:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm going out soon, and want to look and feel gorgeous

2007-05-03 09:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by The Global Geezer 7 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge crush on this guy who i see twice every month for business meetings. he is the usual tall dark and handsome. His best friend(who is also in the business) always jokes around on how i am going to be his lucky girl and that he wants to go out with me. last time when i saw the guy that i liked he told me that he would always have time to talk to me if i would just call him (which i am way too scared and shy to call) i don't know what to think about him liking me, but he is definently worth the waiting to see him only two times a month. what do you think? does he like me aswell or is it just a big joke between the two of them?

2007-05-03 09:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Singles & Dating

No strings attached.
No jealousy.
No comitment.
No money or gifts.


Just the use of your body ?

2007-05-03 09:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand this. I'm 22, I know without a doubt that I'm very attractive, theres nothing wrong with me, and personality-wise, I'm like genuine boyfriend material here when it comes to relationships. Girls never approach me or notice me in person and when I try places online like localhookupz and myspace, I could go through 30-50 girls, probably get like 5 responses that go nowhere. And I dont say anything disrespectful to them, I do my best to play the cards right. I have met girls from these online places before and I know how the process works but they never follow through with me.

Heck, even when I'm tired of chasing relationships due to no results, I figure well I could at least get my rocks off in the meantime (ain't nothing wrong with that, a man has his needs right?), I can't even get a one night stand. My dad is like I'm telling ya, you're real good looking, you can have any girl you want. YEAH RIGHT. It's the GIRL's choice, NEVER mine.

Is something wrong with me?

2007-05-03 09:31:06 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and I are both married but he has no idea I exist.

2007-05-03 09:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend dont have all the classes together so when she is in another class she hangs out with another girl!! she has changed alot and doesnt act the way she use to before!! she has gotten like more disrespecful

2007-05-03 09:27:59 · 2 answers · asked by Pinki 1 in Singles & Dating

r their cute guys that have sex with their girlfriend and say if u don't have a girlfriend

2007-05-03 09:27:28 · 1 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Singles & Dating

I made a mistake about six months ago. I did not cheat on my wife, but I had not been conducting myself appropriately in the least. The bottom line is that I let my wife down and hurt her terribly. Never in my life have I wanted to make something up to someone so bad. She has mentioned the vows that we took when we married and how I disrespected them. I want her to know that my actions that caused this will never be repeated, that I love her dearly, and that our vows mean everything to me...I want another chance and a clean slate. How can I propose this to her in the most special way? I'm sick with guilt and feel absolutely awful and just want to make things right with her.

2007-05-03 09:27:06 · 22 answers · asked by BeatTheGib 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 years old and have never kissed a guy.

2007-05-03 09:26:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married and has no idea I exist.I have seen him taking walks around the park.My question is if a woman disease free wanted to sleep with you.Would you do it?

Keep in mind ,I don't want any money or a relationship .I just want to see what he is like in bed? I have never done anything like this before.

How would you respond if a woman just came up o you and asked to sleep with you?

I am attractive but shy.I don't know how to even ask.

2007-05-03 09:25:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he has 3 children...(this happened to a friend of mine)...You are shocked!!!...he's divorced...which is ok...but 3 kids...wow....how should you end it GRACEFULLY!!!????

2007-05-03 09:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

So we started dating March 13, 2006, engaged on Dec 24, 2006 and moved in together along with our children (his and mine), but he won't commit to a date. There is always something, oh I don't want to put to much on the kids at one time, oh I want to make sure this is what you want (HELLO I WOULDN"T HAVE SAID YES), the most recent is I want to make sure you can deal with the situation with my ex (which is a whole other story, she is super manipulative and difficult to deal with)...what do I do?

2007-05-03 09:19:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband moved due to job reasons and left our child with his mother. She is turning 15 tomorrow. I went to stay with her and could not adjust because I was staying in my ex-husband's house and my mother-in-law was interfering.

Well, now my ex-husband has accused me of taking things from his house even though I did not.

He is also telling me to come back and stay in his house until our daughter graduates from high school. He has had several offers on the home, but has not accepted them.

He is very worried about our child as I am. His mother is halfheartedly doing things for the child.

I am getting dragged into a situation that I know is not healthy or good for me. Yet, I feel tempted because I don't have much going for me in my life now.

I basically go to work and attend a divorce recovery group once per week and do errands and work out on the weekends.

Any suggestions to not pulled back?

2007-05-03 09:19:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i know who went on holiday to cyprus with her partner and aparently i didnt' go well. sasha told me this. me emma and sasha are train at college together.

and sasha said that emma really like me

i've recently only just re meet up with emma cos i went to berlin myself and we haven't seen much of eachother. the other week i saw her on the bus and emm's wanted to talk, but i had to be somewhere and didn't have time too and only said hello. i've explained this to emm's. sasha said emma was upset about this, i don't know why, perhaps she really does like me. is it also inapropriate to ask a girl out when she already has a partner even if they have split up. i've been thinking about all week and for the last two weeks. don't know what to do HELP

WHY AM I ALWAYS FALLIN IN LOVE

2007-05-03 09:18:27 · 12 answers · asked by rjhfocus77 6 in Singles & Dating

i really like this kid and he is nice and funny and sweet he has a girlfrind that is really shy and to day he asked me if i think he should break up with he shulod break up wtih her i diddnt answer but he really want to hold her hand but she is WAY to shy and since i sit next to him he asked e how to make out and all these questons about kissing now i asked him out 2 times boefore they were going out the first time he said no and the second time i diddent do it but someone did it with out my permission and he said no but then he told me later that day that he only said no to the girl that did it without my permission because it was in front of her .
i am so0o0o confused i have his 3 AND sometimes he says call me tonigh and little things like that but i dont know what to do????????
somtimes he acts like he kinda likes me but other times he dosent i am confused
DOES HE LIKE ME??????
PS:i am 12 and it is may3rd we have a field trip on may 10th
plz how do i get him to like me

2007-05-03 09:16:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of you would consider dating a man with kids? What if you didn't know he had kids but found out deep into the relationship? Would it change your feelings for him, would his kids be a problem?

2007-05-03 09:15:37 · 22 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 6 years married for 2. I just found out he took a woman on a cruise and cheated on me. He has admitted this, and also said it wasn't the first time. He is crying and telling me he wants to work it out. I WANT REVENGE!!! What is the best way to do it?

2007-05-03 09:12:29 · 26 answers · asked by ulovlee@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law and mother in law are the jealous type so they dont like it my husband pays more attention to me or if we dont include them in everything :( but he wont tolerate if i complain to him about them so what do i do to stop them troubling us and getting between us

2007-05-03 09:11:10 · 15 answers · asked by Sagittarious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I finally catch my husband with this other woman he claims he only called "twice and nothing happened", does Ca honor the at fault rules.
I came from nothing, statred on welfare and within 7 years was earning over 40k annually, and bought a nice house for my family, while my husband was on "workers comp" and only making $450.00 so he did not contribute anything to the purchas eof our house. Being that I did all of this in good faith that my husband would neer cheat on me, shouldn't I be able to keep all assets and profit from the sale of the house. If I have proof for the judge, I mean.

2007-05-03 09:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Confusious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the church my dad attends turned a guy away cuz him and his wife was getting a divorce and he did not want to get back w/ her. i know the bible teaches that you should not divorce but should the church judge him and tell him he cant come into the house of god?

2007-05-03 09:04:08 · 16 answers · asked by thehendersons_3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i have been going out with someone for months now. And i feel like he wants be with his friends more then he wants to be with me. He tells me that i come before his friends, but whenever im around and his friends are too, he will be just with them the whole time with me around, and talking to them. He tells me that he loves me like crazy and i am his life and i believe him, just i feel like i dont get enough attention. When we are alone then he will pay attention to me a lot. Its just only when hes with his friends. I feel like its me that bringing arguements and stuff. And like i am jealous like crazy, like whenever he sees a girl and likes something on them or whatever i want ot be like that. Its confusing. So whats wrong with me? Is it him thats just not giving me enough attention? Or do i need ot get over myself? And about the jealousy... how can i stop?
Thanks.

2007-05-03 08:58:19 · 1 answers · asked by jane j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 08:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in my office cleaning out some cds. I manage a shcool radio station , and in the room near me were these girls wathcing degrasi high. one of the girls told me to come over and watch it with them they kept on starteing at me and
gigleing when they were about to kleave they came over and chat for a bit i said something stupid they made fun of it hahah and i gave one of them my business card and she imideatley typed it into her phone

2007-05-03 08:50:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 08:44:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family