I just recieved a call from a friend, a very good friend, who i think basically called and put an end to our friendship.
Things have been awful with me and my husband. and she said that whenever she tried to talk to me about it I was snappy and shouted her down whenever she gave advice. I feel embarrased and ashamed because looking back she is right, I did.
I have text to say how sorry I am and that all I can think of was I was so caught up in the stress I just did not realise. Needless to say, she has not responded. What should I do now?
2007-05-03 09:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should talk to her in person. Behind any angry person, there is somebody that is hurt inside, so just talk to her and apologize. She might just forgive you. Even though she hasnt responded to ur texts, she'll probably listen to you because sometimes people listen to you more if its a face to face talk than through texts. Its easy to ignore somebody in a text, so dont be afraid to talk to her and just clear things up. People make mistakes and hopefully she realizes that what you did was just a mistake. good luck! =]
2007-05-03 09:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to see her face to face. Let her know that things have been stressful lately and it's no excuse for the way that you treated her. Ask her if she would like to go to lunch and talk about things. Let her know that you are sorry and you really appreciate her friendship more than she even knows.
You also need to talk to your husband and see if you guys can work out an agreement. Tell him that you really need things to go back to normal because your personal life is starting to take control of you.
Last, but not least, Do something nice for yourself. Give yourself a little confidence boost or something cause it sounds to me like your lacking a little u time, you know!
Hope things work out!
2007-05-03 16:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just give her some time? If after a few days she still doesn't respond, then try to call her, or see her in person to tell her your sorry. If she wont except that, then there's not much more you can do. Good Luck!!!
2007-05-03 16:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and write her a letter if she won't talk to you and put exactly what you told us. tell her how bad you feel and how looking back you saw she was right. apologize for taking out your stress on her. hopefully she'll understand and she'll cool down and you can be friends again
2007-05-03 16:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be so inpersonal, go to her house and let her know you were wrong. You both are adults you can disagree agreeably noone is right ALL the time let her know how you feel be sencere
2007-05-03 16:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first give them room be nice and give them something nice then started from there and say how sorry u are
2007-05-03 16:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋