Whats going on with me??

Question

Okay i have been going out with someone for months now. And i feel like he wants be with his friends more then he wants to be with me. He tells me that i come before his friends, but whenever im around and his friends are too, he will be just with them the whole time with me around, and talking to them. He tells me that he loves me like crazy and i am his life and i believe him, just i feel like i dont get enough attention. When we are alone then he will pay attention to me a lot. Its just only when hes with his friends. I feel like its me that bringing arguements and stuff. And like i am jealous like crazy, like whenever he sees a girl and likes something on them or whatever i want ot be like that. Its confusing. So whats wrong with me? Is it him thats just not giving me enough attention? Or do i need ot get over myself? And about the jealousy... how can i stop?
Thanks.

Answer 1

He isn't being a good friend to you, and he is really being a piss-poor lover. Your feeling the burn. And you don't know how to react. Just understand you need to be honest to him about these things, just don't say it upset or anger, and strait from the heart. I don't mean crying ether, just strait, even toned, and painted with some emotion. Also don't confusing being in love, with having love with someone. This is an unbelieveably common mistake. Lets just say we can be in love for a lot of things, but when you have love for some one you show it in all your actions, not just when its convenenate. But its your life, if you don't mind him doing you like this, then just stop worring you picked him.....