Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

I am currently in my freshman year in highschool... I like this girl who sits across from me in Supervised Study. For about a week now I have been catching her looking at me then she will quickly look away. And when She catches me looking at her i look away... I will often catch her smiling at me out of the corner of my eye and when i look up she either tucks away the smile or looks away. Im really shy and im not an expert at "Flirting". Well today i was talking to my friend across the room and she comes ALL THE WAY across the room looks at me quickly and turns her back and starts talking to her friend. Well every 20 seconds or so she would look back and smile at me briefly... Is she flirting with me or is she just playing with my feelings? lol any advice would be good at this point I really need some help.

2007-05-03 11:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 26 and was involved with a 34 year old man from Italy in a long-distance relationship. We met about two years ago and last summer began our relationship. We had been good friends up to that point and his mother and I have always been close (she introduced us).
I went to see him for New Year's and he proposed marriage. I was thrilled, believe me. Well, he gave me a ring and when I got back to the US, the stone fell out twice. He told me he spent 300 Euros on it; naturally, I was hysterical.
When I got to the jeweler, they refused to repair it. Why? Because it was only worth $20. I called him to tell him I knew the truth but the phone line cut. This was Feb. 8 and we have not spoken since-- he won't answer the phone.
I have spoken to his mom several times, even today. She said he said he thought I thought all he wanted me for was US citizenship-- NOT true. He also thought I got it appraised on purpose-- NOT true. She says "if they are flowers, they'll bloom." What do you think?

2007-05-03 11:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Windflowers03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 29 year old female, and wondering (for women AND men) if you have an age limit for relationships. What's too old or too young (obviously above 18, of course!)? I met this guy in the military, and he asked me out. But then I found out he was only 21! I thought he was 2-3 years younger than me and felt ok with that, but I ended up saying no to the date because of the age difference. I've run into him a few times since, and he asked me out again. I really like him but just don't know. His maturity and respectfulness is what initially attracted me, ironically! I know I'll get a lot of grief for dating him, but I don't want that to be the only reason I say no! On the other hand, it seems like men date younger women all the time and it doesn't raise an eyebrow. I know a guy who's 35 and he's dating a 23 year old, and a married guy who's 48, and wife is 30. I'm not in a panic to get married/have kids, that's not on my mind! So should I just say what the hell and go out with him?

2007-05-03 11:23:08 · 35 answers · asked by Jen1943 1 in Singles & Dating

im married but due to the distance i know nothing physical could ever come of it!! i just see it as a bit of spice in my otherwise pretty dull life!

2007-05-03 11:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and only thing that person was doing was wasting away (his youth and health) what would you do? Would you step in and try to help or would you just ask someone you thought he opened up to.

2007-05-03 11:21:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't you love that motto/saying. Also it's not illegal unless you get caught? Well anyways, alot of the time i look into guys eyes when I'm talking to them. Will that give them the impression i like them?

2007-05-03 11:19:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you date ghetto guy over prep if the ghetto had a good job did nice things and was nice had mad tattoos but only liked dressing ghetto because he likes and rather where baggy stuff rather then tight stuff i just wanna i dont get girls some time no iam not young iam 19 just a question that i can never find a good answer for.

2007-05-03 11:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by justin c 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend get weird to nasty nasty glares !!?

Well we are in a homosexual relationship plus its inner racial im black my boyfriend is white well we are both in high school Im a sophmore im 16 but I look about 14 Im short about 5'7 and have no faicla hair and a cute baby face.My boyfriend which is white looks like he could be my dad hes 18 is a senior is about 6ft very muscular has a full beard that he shaves but has like the 5 oclock shadow thing going on when he buys alchahol hes never carded people really assume hes like 28-30 and the assume im 14-16 .But we are really just 18 monthes apart in age.Sometimes its kinda akward because people realllly stare I can tell not just because were iner racial or homosexual but because my boyfriend is looking like a petofile.They see the white man that looks like hes 31 with some black kid that looks 14 and people sorta freak out and whisper like especially when we are in restaraunts or the mall it can be hell he dosent realise it but I do. What should I do Or say about the people that ..
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stare or question us is it m =y fault my own insecurities bothering me should I not worry about it.When we were in a museum even the police officers kept stairing and whispering.This is really getting to me should we end it and should I find someone who looks my age.

20 minutes ago
16 yearold gay sophmore
18 yearold gay senior

THAT LOVE EACH OTHER DEARLY !!

2007-05-03 11:17:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, theres this dude and to make it simple. He liked me for a long time, even after many refusals, then one night i admitted my feeling and he claimed he had no feeling for me and he like another girl. But i can tell sometimes the way he looks at me or glances over he may be lying how do i know?

2007-05-03 11:16:57 · 2 answers · asked by jrichelled 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 11:16:05 · 17 answers · asked by stevenzepke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,
well my friend keeps calling me a poser because I like fall out boy and I have always liked them ever since I heard the song saturday and I started liking pete and she signs everyones binder sayin i ♥ pete way b4 erin and itz just bitchy and its annoying!!!
how can I deal wit her???

2007-05-03 11:14:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you tell them and rest your conscience or avoid a fight and not mention it?

I did a stupid thing today but I know that it would make my fiance very very angry.. He will never find out unless I tell him so by not mentioning it I wont be lying..

What I did was give my ex a lift. Its such a stupid thing but I know it would make my fiance very angry because there were previous issues between them and my ex is still trying to get back with me. I shouldn't tell right? I think I should avoid an unnessecary fight dont you think?

2007-05-03 11:12:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 11:11:04 · 2 answers · asked by John H 1 in Family

well i like this guy he is super outgoing but in the one class we have together he always talks to this ugly girl.........and just ignores me and not to sound snobby but i am better looking than her and i m nice and he says hey brittany ill talk to you it makes me mad!!!

2007-05-03 10:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by haley g 1 in Friends

this is a continuation of an earlier question i posted yesterday. please head to my questions to get all the details. however, basically i met a boy on a band trip to chicago and we hit it off and are now talking a lot.

heres the update. i said yesterday that i only get to talk to him for a few seconds every day because passing time inbetween classes is too short, and that it was a major downside to passing time. his exact words were 'a major downside indeed. we should fix that.' then today he saw me coming, smiled and said 'so i think we should hang out sometime so its longer than 2 seconds.' i said 'i agree, we definitely should.' we said bye and that was it.

so, should i suggest something, like the bike ride mentioned in the first part, or wait for him to ask me? since hes made it clear he wants to do something now. i dont know if i should wait it out or ask him. my birthdays saturday... im not having a party though, so i dont know if i should suggest something for saturday.

2007-05-03 10:58:25 · 1 answers · asked by AB 1 in Singles & Dating

a very close friend of mine has been acting very weird lately, (we both like each other but haven't asked each other out) reasons 4 me not asking deal with the fact that she is still stuck on her ex and i don't want to go into a relationship wondering if I'm going to be dumped the minute he decides to take her back. She says that we need to talk, but when i try to talk with her she acts like she wants to avoid me.........uuugggghh

2007-05-03 10:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by blaklion 1 in Friends

and I are doing a great deal better. As some of you know we have had a LOT of problems and you can just tell by most of the questions that I have asked. I want to thank everybody for their advice and concern. Things are for back of better words "just working". I told him on a day that we were getting along and not fighting so that he knew that I wasn't just saying it out of anger that I don't feel that he loves me anymore. When I told him that it really seemed to hit a nerve and things have improved not 100% but I would say about 70%. Most of you know that 100% perfect relationships just really don't exsist. I hope that some one out there reads this and it helps them too.
Thanks all!!

2007-05-03 10:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what doesit mean when he turnes u down. hes lazy as hell and dont wanna do anything.. no romance WHAT SO EVER dont know what todo :(

2007-05-03 10:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a single guy, recently divorced, and have been introduced to the world of swinging clubs. I now worry that sex with just one woman will not be satisfying and am worried I have spoilt myself and am too corrupted to have a normal relationship. Has anyone else been in this situation?

2007-05-03 10:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by RubbingRhubarb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 10:42:46 · 27 answers · asked by Chicka B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the best husband I could ever ask for. He is sweet, sexy, gentle, honest, selfless, hilarious, and more. I'm just an average person who got a great catch, but how?

2007-05-03 10:42:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So many times in the past I want to forgive so that I can be free and move on with my life without this baggage....

2007-05-03 10:42:17 · 28 answers · asked by wiser 1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering about some ideas that I can use my bras that dont fit me anymore because i lost someweight and there still in decent shape and wondered if you girls or ladies have any sexual ideas i could use with my husband like maybe tie him up with or what not. Any Ideas?

2007-05-03 10:40:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to my BF and he responded by saying that we argue alot and we need to work through that, because that brings up doubts in his mind on whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Yes, I do bring up arguments mostly from the past and my insecurities. But do you think his answer was too cold or to not read into it as I usually do. Is he saying he is not sure I am the one???

2007-05-03 10:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anabelle26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I told her that if this is true that she need to tell someone, so while she was in the hospital she told her DR. this. Well when her parents went to pick her up the police was there waiting for her father, Then she told the police that it didn't happen and that I told her to say this (I didn't) So will I get into trouble? The only thing I told her was that if it did happen that she needed to tell someone and that she needed to make sure that it was the truth. I live in Indiana. This is a very serios matter and I do not want to go to jail.

2007-05-03 10:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by sue h 2 in Family

My friend's daughter is 6 years old and shes already had her period! And shes growing pubic hair on her Vagina. whats wrong???????!!!!

2007-05-03 10:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this really hot boss, but I 'm married and he has a girl. I'm only looking to flirt not actually get in his pants. Is it ok to flirt (harmless flirting) with him?

2007-05-03 10:34:40 · 37 answers · asked by katagrin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cause I have noticed a lot lately on TV and in porn that girls/women who are slender are automatically hot. Even if their face is ugly, or body ugly, small chest, etc. it seems like they are hot automatically as long as they are not fat. Is this the case do you think? Thanks.

2007-05-03 10:34:34 · 29 answers · asked by Kristine R 4 in Singles & Dating

If a couple are fighting and the guy calls the girl a name or something like that and she slaps him .. does that give him the right to strike her back? Just want to see opinions on this. Know people on both sides on this one. Also PLEASE spare the noone should hit anyone comments.. we all know that but that was not was I am asking.
Thanx!

2007-05-03 10:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by Shan-C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If two people are in love and truly love each other. But one was married, but had never loved their partner, should a divorce take place and the two in love be together?

2007-05-03 10:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by Monkey Dancer 2 in Marriage & Divorce