a very close friend of mine has been acting very weird lately, (we both like each other but haven't asked each other out) reasons 4 me not asking deal with the fact that she is still stuck on her ex and i don't want to go into a relationship wondering if I'm going to be dumped the minute he decides to take her back. She says that we need to talk, but when i try to talk with her she acts like she wants to avoid me.........uuugggghh
2007-05-03 10:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by blaklion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you pressuring her? That's what it sounds like. Just back off, be friends, and see where things go.
And please don't address us as females. A lot of us don't like it.
2007-05-03 10:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've gone thru this before it's not that she doesn't like you it's that she is scared about loosing you as a friend if you date and break up then you wont be as good of friends any more i didn't date the girl in my story and we are even better friends today so assk yourself if you are willing to risk a friendship
2007-05-03 17:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by jon_acs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok don't pressure her stay away from her untill she is completly over him and don't let her string you along, if she gets with you too fast you could be her rebound relationship, so just wait and see go out with your friends and don't put too much into it.
2007-05-03 17:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are this difficult but i think you answered your own question she is still hung up on her ex thats probably the reason she is acting this way but good luck to you
2007-05-03 17:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ronni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh
ok if u like her
and she likes u
things are soposed to fall into place
but u two should talk
show her that u care...
and also, sometimes love is a game..
u have to win her heart
romance her
its wht evry girl wants
2007-05-03 18:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me males are just as hard to understand. Males and females are just different and our brains are different and I don't think we will ever understand each other. That's life I guess.
2007-05-03 17:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY I WOULD WAIT A GOOD WHILE CAUSE IF SHE WOULD TAKE EX BACK IN A MINUTE U R ONLY SETTING URSELF UP FOR A FALL
2007-05-03 17:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by kibebrau 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch sounds like your being dissed. We're diffucult because you guys are. You like girls who play hard to get,but still have sex appeal. We're so confused!!!!!!!!
2007-05-03 17:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by MassieKur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just not that into you are she would not be putting you off... she may be using you to get back her BF....
2007-05-03 17:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were shy! we want you to know we like u but we dont want to ruin the friendship that we have so we keep it to ourselves
2007-05-03 17:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by eaglelandracergurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋