My ex behaved bad with me because he had a terrible life. He was in a bad marriage and the only happiness he had was me. i also hurt him because i did not get what I wanted from him. i have moved on but feel very guilty for what i did to him. he equally did wrong but I still fel bad. How do i get rid of this guilt feeling. We were soulmates and had a bad breakup with a lot of hurts and pains. i feel I will never be able to love anyone because I already met someone who completed me, except that he was married. A married soulmate, who was never mine. but we shared deep emotions and not even made it a complete physical relation. Just physical intimacy... How do i forget all that and move on?
2007-05-03 09:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need some therapy.
2007-05-03 09:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd just skip it. It's like looking up your elementary school pals. Do you tell him about all those? Don't go searching for the guy again, though. If you can't resist, it's a sign that there's some unfinished business and that you're either (1) no longer into your current BF or (2) anxious about messing something up that you did with your ex-crush.... Good luck.
2016-05-19 22:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, time heals all... even though he was married. He should have respected his spouse enough and you to not have been in the relationship with you. Talk to him get the feelings out in the open and move on... A real soul mate can't be replaced, but you can find someone that will replace those feelings after the hurt fades. Live well and dream big...
Goddess bless.
2007-05-03 09:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess Bless, Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is somebody else husband so he was never free to be yours. The best thing to do is continue NO Contact and in a 6 months to a year you will have healed from this and ready to move on. The only guilt you should have felt is from being with somebody elses husband, don't feel guilty for doing the right thing...you are doing whats best for everyone.
2007-05-03 09:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by suann47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he told you he was in a bad married, do you no what a man considers a bad marriage. W hen the wife doesn't pay enough attention to him and gives it all to his kids. And you
mistresses, and that is to kind of a word for what you really are but for argument sake we'll go with that.A man can twist and turn his words around to fit what it is he is trying to accomplish. And every time you women believe them.How can someone be your soul mate when you have nothing of his.
You don't have his kids, you don't even have him mentally but what you do have is what he made up to be true.Let's face it you only have what he wants you to have and that is to feel sorry for him so you will sleep with him.
2007-05-03 10:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he complete you if you were not getting what you wanted from him? I think you need to take a deeper look inside and make sure YOU are happy with who YOU are, and stop looking for completeness in someone else.
You should not feel guilty, his choices is what made you move on, you did not force him to make those choices.
Moving on is not about forgetting, is about learning from your experience and making sure you won't make the same mistake again. Enjoy your life and each moment is what you make of it.
2007-05-03 09:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by kwcprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the Past
Live the Present
Dream the Future
It's time to let go & move on...life is to short...get out there & go for it...now you have learnt something...don't get involved with a married man...you don''t need that kind of baggage - do you? Moving on takes Courage...it has it's lessons to be learnt...good luck to you...
Sea ya
Daytripper
2007-05-03 09:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Daytripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but thats what happens when you get involved with a married man. the mistress always gets the good stuff so dont feel guilty and get over it ok good luck and remember that theres a lot of single men out there.
2007-05-03 09:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by martha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like my ID says time heals and things move on. You'll move on someday and find that certain someone who you can have a phyiscal relationship with. I am sorry to hear that and it probably stinks to be hearing this now but I don't know what else to tell you.
2007-05-03 09:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer it took me 4yrs to get over my ex and i still think about him now sometimes and its 6yrs on, the feeling just gets better, i went out a lot and had a lt of flirty girly nights out!
2007-05-03 09:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was never your soul mate....you should feel bad for "getting" involved with someone else's man instead of feeling bad because you think you might have hurt his feelings
2007-05-03 09:43:46 · answer #11 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋