I have a huge crush on this guy who i see twice every month for business meetings. he is the usual tall dark and handsome. His best friend(who is also in the business) always jokes around on how i am going to be his lucky girl and that he wants to go out with me. last time when i saw the guy that i liked he told me that he would always have time to talk to me if i would just call him (which i am way too scared and shy to call) i don't know what to think about him liking me, but he is definently worth the waiting to see him only two times a month. what do you think? does he like me aswell or is it just a big joke between the two of them?
2007-05-03 09:34:28 · 23 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's really only one way to find out, ask him out for a coffee or lunch! The worst that could happen is he'll say no, so what? Take a deep breath and just do it, live a little, take a chance.
There's a fantastic expression (I've forgotton who it's attributed to) which goes along the lines of 'If I had my time over, I'd dare to make more mistakes'.
The truth is, we rarely regret what we've done later in life, it's what we didn't do that lingers.
Good luck!
2007-05-03 09:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by toowit2wu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they are making a joke of you. But It sounds like he has noticed you and is interested in trying get to know you, maybe so that he can figure out whether you are the type of girl that he would like to have as a gf. Just play along, be cool. If he finds that he likes you that way, then it may take him a bit more time to work up the nerve to ask you out. Hey, some guys find it hard to ask a girl out, just like it is hard for some girls to wait and see if he will ask (or in your case, hard to call)!
2007-05-03 16:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know anything about this guy or yourself but for a guy to actually say to you that he always has time for you if you call him, that would be a good indication that he is willing to leave the ball in your court so to speak,which also means he has respect for you and isn't just looking for a booty call like you maybe afraid of.If he was just clowning around he would say things that pertained more to your looks and bothering you to go out with him.
Don't worry about his friend and what they talk about.Trust me on one thing.Guys do talk about girls with each other but to be honest not very many talk with other guys about a girl sexually or about messing with them if they are truly interested in them. Men are very protective of their deep feelings and don't want other guys making light of it or making derogatory comments about someone they respect.
So, I say the hand writings on the wall.Drop your fears they will never gain you anything but "what ifs" and "should haves". By the way you express your desire to just see him even for only a short time,you shouldn't let this slide.
Heck even if it don't work out and it isn't what you hoped, at least you will have lived it instead of wondering about it. Right? So, go grab a piece of life girl and see what happens.
Good luck!
2007-05-03 16:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his best friend is dropping hints like that, I see that meaning that the guy in question has talked about you to him in that light. Also, guys never want to put too much pressure on a girl they like to call them, thus that's most likely the reason why the guy said "I always have time to talk if you just call!"
2007-05-03 16:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Abby S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like him, you should call him up and take a chance. chances never hurt anyone, the worse that could happen is you guys just become good friends. I would call him, and start talking and you know sometimes talking escalates to more. so who knows, you should take a chance cause if you really like him, and you think its worth the shot. dont be too scared of anything, you should know your a beautiful girl and hes no better than you cause hes good looking. whatever you do, never seem real interested or seem desperate to hook up, cause it never works out. take the chance, if you dont than you'll never know what your missing out on.
2007-05-03 16:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why dont you try giving him your number. Guys love it when they get a number. If he calls within a day or two he likes you and wants to let you know it. If he calls within a week he wants to be friends. If he calls within 2 weeks or more hes got a serious problem. If he doesnt call at all hes gay or you are seriously ugly!
2007-05-03 16:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say he likes you! his friend is joking with you about him liking you and this guy is telling you to call him! you should call him! make a move. i'd say those are definitely signals! call him and ask him to go out for coffee that way it's not like a big date or anything and you can feel out the situation a little more
2007-05-03 16:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probly gets told about this by his friend but it would not stop him from having time with you if you just led him on a little more. Leave him your room number or phone number and see if he calls. Might try and do this when his friend is not right there though.
2007-05-03 16:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's one way to find out: Call him. If he and his friend dis you, then retort with something clever and ditch him. Or, just tell him when you see him again that you'd call but you're allergic to the phone--make a joke about your phone anxiety and he may get the hint that you'd rather him call you, and him persue you.
2007-05-03 16:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i think that he might like you but i'm not physic i know that you are shy but try to get with him what i mean he of course start small like hanging out and if your too shy bring a group of friends with you because if you wait to much who knows somebody else might grab him after all he is available......lol
good luck! also even if you don't believe pray to the lord to give you the strenght you need to step up after all what do you got to lose
2007-05-03 16:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋