I was recently seeing this lad, we would meet up and we had a laugh and everything but he would never talk to me infront of his mates apart from a quick 'hey' and now things have reli changed. We havent tlked properly for a while now and ive heard he kissed my friend whilst i was seeing him and hes now got some other girl on the go. When i saw him today, i ignored him? was this the right thing to do? or should i act like everything is fine? please help!
2007-05-03 06:59:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IS everything fine? If not, then why not talk to him about it. Otherwise let it go, and move on (doesn't sound like he's serious about you anyway).
2007-05-03 07:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, confront this lad and tell him to back up his game. Let him know he is being immature and inconsiderate from the way he is carry out him himself. Then ask him point blank whether he is still interested in your little relationship which he doesn't seem to be given more regard to. If you don't get a better response, i would let it go for now. There are a lot of guys out there searching for girls like you, let him go if you can't wait. According to what you wrote, it seems he doesn't really know what he wants, and so he does not wanna do or make any committments he might regret later or say, or do anything to hurt anyone. I think he is not showing you off because he really does not know what he wants, hence he does not want to make any 'committment' he might regret, it happens to most guys sometimes. Too many girls and choosing the right one for you. They tend to think of just something casual but deep inside they wish they had somebody they could call babee, you know. I think he is not ready for what you are after- a relationship and/or a commitment.
2007-05-03 07:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Young King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two want different things. You seem to want a guy to date, possibly start a romantic relationship with, while he seems to be having fun and living in the moment. If you choose to ignore him, don't do it because you want attention. Playing games never helped anyone's situation. If you truly want to be rid of him, then ignore him, sure. Don't pretend that everything is okay if it isn't just so you have a date on Friday nights.
2007-05-03 07:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jaina Selene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys havent established a title as boyfriend and girlfriend so you dont have the rights to him. But you need to understand that this lad is only having fun, So if you want to go ahead and have fun the go for him flirt your heart out but be careful not to fall for him because I can grantee you , you will end up heart broken
2007-05-03 07:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing you definetly should not communicate with him if he knows he is in the wrong.Karma will get him in the end!And if he tries to say you're mean for not talking to him ask him why is he trying to control you because if you don't want to talk to his betraying self you don't have too and he should not try to make you!Good Luck!
2007-05-03 07:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by UniqueBeauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse that's the right way to act and everything isn’t fine so you have to treat him this way other wise he’s gonna think it’s ok to go out with you and that other someone at the same time.
2007-05-03 07:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya.My Ex has just split with me not long ago.He blocks me on msn and then Unblocks me, Puts things in his msn name that he thinks is going to get to me, and he's starting to do things now hes single, that he wouldnt do with me.I either have the choice to Put things in my msn name and annoy him.But why should I bother? He isnt nothing special anymore.The Best thing you can do is just ignore him.He will soon realise he misses you, because My Ex is starting to already :)
2007-05-03 07:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a new man. He has treated you bad and will continue to do so. No good hon, forget him and find someone nice. There is loads of chaps out there wait and see. You did the right thing in my opinion. xx
2007-05-03 07:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play his game. he wants to play it dirty, so be it. just...don't get too caught up in it or its gonna be hard to untangle yourself.
ignoring him is a good start. what's more, he kissed your friend instead of you and he's with some other girl now instead of you.
i say, he's not worth to even play a game with. playing with fire is deadly, y'know. so just shrug him off. if he pulls you one side and asks why are you giving him the 'attitude', tell him unlike him, you're not childish as to play mind games.
he aint worth your time it seems. you know you deserve better than that. good luck!
2007-05-03 07:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by NCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you did the right thing. Apparently he doesn't want to be with you. You shouldn't have to wait on him. Hes no good for you. Just move on and throw it in his face how happy you are without him.
2007-05-03 07:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋