Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

Is 26 years considered "too" much?

2007-04-20 05:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

we dont get along at all and we have two childrens together it a four month marriage that will not work

2007-04-20 05:49:10 · 18 answers · asked by chunkitos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now, and he just dropped a bombshell on me.He has just revealed to me that he has a 7 year old son, and I am devastated.You might wonder how it was that he can get away with not telling me about this for 8 months.The boy’s mother lives in another state and has full custody.My boyfriend and the kid’s mother were never married, and he tells me that they only communicate with each other to discuss issues pertaining to their son.Apparently, my boyfriend only sees his son once a year, but for a month long visit during summer.I guess he now feels compelled to tell me because that visit is coming up soon.When we first started dating 8 months ago, it was love at first sight for both of us.I just knew that I had found my soul mate.I can already picture us married and having children together.We’re both 25 years old, and though we’d both dated other people,I’d never figured that he already had akidwithsomebodyelse.Thebiggestissueisdishonesty

2007-04-20 05:44:07 · 24 answers · asked by dede10527 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If someone finds you good looking or handsome, is that basically the same thing? Do they fancy you then?

No sarcasm ta!

2007-04-20 05:43:38 · 18 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very straight man but never liked to go downtown on a woman. I was wondering, do you any of you have husbands like me that do not like this or am I rare?

My loves to do it to me and tells me that it is ok if I do not like to reciprocate. I feel bad at times because I never try to be a selfish lover and I am not except for going downtown.

So, do any of you have hubbys like me and if so, does it bother you?

2007-04-20 05:41:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone thanks for the advise
I see and I feell you all. I know you all want the best for me. I feel the concern. Now its up to me to act. And i feel 60% that this will not work out. Its hard ........real hard for me. Trust me this is not the first time i expressed this concern to him. He also told me that he is absolutely sure that he married the wrong woman(ME). Its real hard. As of now i will just be quiet and watchful. I will make my decision soon. Will let u guys know. Thanks again.I love you all.

2007-04-20 05:40:12 · 3 answers · asked by viddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't find sex very emotional. It's a physically pleasing bonding activity, but some magical emotional moment worthy of a term like 'love making'? Oh please.

He seems upset when I say this.

2007-04-20 05:39:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as you get older? I really miss the large group of friends I had when i was younger. Now in my 30's I find that it's just not as easy.I think it also has to do with where you live. I've lived near Chicago for years now, but I grew up in Kentucky.I think southern people are just alot friendlier. Anyone else have this problem?

2007-04-20 05:38:03 · 4 answers · asked by blonde mom70 3 in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for six months. Everything is picture perfect. I am great with his daughters and he is great with my son. We just moved in together maybe three weeks ago. He is currently unemployed due to lack of work and I am helping him while he is in between jobs. However I am a nanny making 250 an week currently and I get no child support from my childs father. I accepted a job that will start in about two weeks. I will be gone for two weeks at a time in a neighboring city. Every third week I will be off for that week and recieve half the pay I would normally. This job is still as a nanny the parents are truck drivers and the pay will be great!!! But will we grow apart? He thinks we will. I think you have to work on maintaining relationship even in a more ideal situation

2007-04-20 05:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by chicequa j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 6mon. and i feel all he wants is sex. We've been on 2 dates, and all we do is have sex. I don't mind because I am a very open person and I do anything he wants. I like him, but we don't much else about each other. I would like your opinion because the sex is not that great. He makes me feel like the queen of the world.

2007-04-20 05:33:48 · 45 answers · asked by freakyrabbit86 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that all these question contain the word "LOVE" in them? Do all of you actually believe that you are in love with this person? And that if you can't have them, you are just going to die? Many of you really need to be careful with your words. You are young and need to understand that you don't love someone you don't even know. 1 out of 1,000 of you will actually fall in love with this one single person and be with them forever. You will quickly learn that this person you say you love will end up breaking your heart within the first few weeks of dating. Its mainly just lust and attraction. And will someday lead into love. So be careful with what you say.

Does anyone else see this as a recuring statement? Or is it just me?

2007-04-20 05:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Scottie_T 2 in Singles & Dating

but people have been advising me of late that i should forget him for someone who is already working cos i might get too old for him before we get married. i dont know what to do because i love this guy so very much.

2007-04-20 05:32:09 · 7 answers · asked by sarah g 1 in Singles & Dating

let that special one go due to a physical flaw that you couldnt look past? what was the flaw?

2007-04-20 05:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by wolvie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and I have had problems agreeing. she thinks the complete opposite of what i do. we both want to be together but we are always miserable. what should we do?

2007-04-20 05:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no friends. I have driven everyone I work with to the point that they think I'm a complete ***** and hate me. I don't take time to listen to anyone elses problems, which are bigger than mine, and spend all my time complaining about my issues but they're all making fun of me behind my back so I don't give a ****. They think I'm just some rich ***** which really pisses me off because I'm real insecure that I still live with my parents and of my social status and all that ****.

My boyfriend wants me to go live with him in a different state. I don't know if I want to do this either but I have to get away from everyone. I just have to start over somewhere. What should I do? Should I just leave somewhere? I don't have enough money to do that... I mean I do but then I'd be homeless. Bloody fuuuuuuuuuuucccccccccccckkkkkkkk

2007-04-20 05:27:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok. so ive been really good friends with this girl for about a year and a half now. Last year she dated this guy [tyler] and the whole time they dated i told her he was cheating and she got mad and wouldnt speak to me, then he dumped her and she found out he WAS cheating, just like i had said and she cried and said she was sorry for calling me a liar and stuff. Now a year since that relationship shes dating a new guy [JD]. I dont understand why she wants this guy. Hes bad news. A pot head, nasty, doesnt bathe, he smells like an *** tray and hes just rude to me. Ive tried to hang out with her twice now and both times shes blown me off for him, and at first i thought..well its not too bad...but its to the point now its really starting to hurt. She's changed a lot since shes been with him. Her grades have dropped (we're all seniors in HS), she has started smoking pot, lying to her mom about where she is and who she is with, shes never home...i just dont know anymore. Any advice?

2007-04-20 05:25:29 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Yes Im K.A.B's Mommy :)♥ 4 in Friends

Last month, I was talking to this guy for like 2 months and we were getting along fine but then he just stop talking to me. Months before, I was talking to this other guy since December 2006, we get along great and all but I want someone to love me for who I am. I just think no one really likes the real me. So do you think I'll ever find someone to love me? (Be serious, no dumb a s s answers)

2007-04-20 05:24:08 · 4 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf asked me to go to the movies with him tomorrow and i have asked my mom but she said that she will have to talk to my step dad and he is usally a good guy, but my bf is bringing his best friend and my family doesnt like his friend cause he has made my life a living hell due to all the fights he has caused between me and my bf, but his friend [charles] is really a good guy he just wants the attention he is a 15 year old traped in a 18 year olds body [ or so it seems] he has family issues [ like i do] and is just an all around good guy to hang out with, but my family doesnt believe me that he is nice. My bf is a great guy [ charles has tried to get him to do drugs and he wont is super sweet] do u think that even though he is bringing his friend that my mom and step dad will let me go?

2007-04-20 05:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. my avator show a guy but i'm a girl. I'm a married women and is wondering why do married men look at naked girls online? what is the purpose and reason? do you think its a normal thing for guys? Can they live without looking at playboy? I just don't get and i feel disgusted. Well my husband does not browse through it everyday but once in a while.. . I feel that sometimes when he sleep with me, that is when he gets horny by looking at other girls online.. if you were me, what will you do? Does your husband/ or you (married man) look at it too? why... I t makes me feel like Im not what he wants and not good enough for him.. Well im not that fat. kinda petite, weigh 125. Please respond..

2007-04-20 05:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do women in today's society not have the ability to stand up for what they believe is right? I mean, here we are in 2007, and all I see here are questions about "What should I do?" I'm not saying this to be mean, as I love women, but sometimes gals you have to use your head a little and trust your gut a little and when the two come together, make a decision and stand by it!!

I cannot stand to hear of a woman who is in an abusive relationship and does nothing about it. I cannot stand to hear women complain about cheating b/f's or husbands and then take the a%%holes back.

Ladies, you earned the right to be equals. Start acting like, it, please!! Be tough, be fair, be firm. Follow your instincts, follow your heart, whatever, but stand up for yourselves!!

2007-04-20 05:12:48 · 23 answers · asked by bux_martinfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has postponed our wedding for the second time. The first time we already had a license to get married and our rings had been engraved. This time he appears to have another reason which sounds legitimate, but instinct tells me I should cut my losses now and leave him. I'm so confused. Please help.

2007-04-20 05:09:12 · 16 answers · asked by holdover2002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife had vaginosis before leaving for vacation. She took the medicine recommended by the OBGYN and I thought it cleared up. Low and behold after being back home for a week she has it again.

2007-04-20 05:08:47 · 28 answers · asked by longdong6920007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend i was there for her wen no one was and now that my worst enamy (dnt get me wrong i have only one enamy) comes and only with a couple of words takes her away. What do i do let her go or fight for her back even tho i know she might not return

2007-04-20 05:07:58 · 20 answers · asked by Tree Hugger 1 in Friends

My fiance is insisting on it....but I just don't think it's a good wedding song. Don't get me wrong, I like the song. Just not for a wedding......what do you think?

2007-04-20 05:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We had a really great relationship...then he found out his ex-wife was getting remarried to the guy she had an affair with. Strangely (not really) our romantic connection seemed to be almost instantly severed. He broke it off a short while later, and admitted that he wasn't ready to date so soon after his divorce.

We have been trying the friends thing, but it is really tough. As far as he knew, it was working fine but then I drunk-dialed, and confessed that he broke my heart. He was supposed to accompany me to a friend's wedding in 2 wks. but backed out a week after the phone call saying he didn't think it would be a good idea. I was really mad (and hurt) and other than a few (necessary) emails exchanged, we haven't talked. (We are both involved with music at church that needed some discussion.)

Oops, I'm outta room. Please see add'l details section!

2007-04-20 05:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is so sweet to me. Yesterday he wrote me a letter telling me how much he appreciates me carrying our baby, and going through all these struggles. He told me how turned on he is by me and how much he loves me. I havn't been able to have sex (or anything sexual) with him because I am extremely tired and not in the mood lately. I feel terrible because I want to give him anything I can, and he also told me that he can wait as long as it takes to be intimate, that isnt the problem. Any ideas what I can do? How do I get the energy and want to do things? Any tips ( also i am 32 weeks pregnant! and work full time (i want to) and in the evenings I am dead tired!) Thanks for your help!

2007-04-20 05:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 05:03:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 05:00:14 · 17 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

find anyone that you like or likes you, but once you do get into a relationship they come crawling out of the wood work???

2007-04-20 04:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by ~broken~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone.I really need your help. This morning i wokr up and noticed a miss call on my husband's phone. I checked it and it was one of his lady friends trying to call him at 3:39am this morning. She called him last night after 11 and they talked briefly. After the missed call I got upset and i began searching his phone to see if she may have sent him messages or so. I discovered that he has been texting her quite often and telling her things like "where is she?" and she would ask him to pick her up and so on. He would usually tell me of her. She was just released from jail for murder and he said she is just a little girl that he is befrending. I dont like there friendship. I began argueing with him about this this morning .........first he was calm and he said that i dont have anything to worry about since I should how he would never disrespect me like that. I continues to argue and he said that he is tiard of me and my insecurity and that our marriage is over.What do u think?

2007-04-20 04:58:05 · 32 answers · asked by viddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce