Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

My husband cheated on me during the first few months we were dating. I happened to be pregnant at the time and decided to try to work things out...I never full recovered but somehow managed. We just had our one year anniversary. We moved to this area a year ago and I have yet to meet any of his friends,(he is military)...He goes out with them on weekends that I convenitly can not attend due to my work. He recently told me that when he was in his home state (I was not present) That he "bumped" into his x girlfriend who he had dated for over 5 years...and he told me they hung out and had a few beers and that I had nothing to worry about. Also...I'v been catching him talking with local girls via the computer...I don't know if anything has gone on with any of the local girls...But I know it's not what a happily married man schould be doing. I guess I just want feed back. I'm scared to be a single mother with two small children...But I don't know what else to do. Any sugustans?

2007-04-20 06:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by Georgia Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3months and we r in love but he talks to my worst night mare he says he love me but im not for sure if its true or a lie tell me please?

2007-04-20 06:34:22 · 7 answers · asked by onealprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was 7yearsold my mom let my stepdadhurt me mentally and physicaly and sexually and i love her but i dont know how i can she tells me to for get it but for some bazzar reason i can for give him easyer why

2007-04-20 06:33:14 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 06:31:07 · 10 answers · asked by 2shay 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How will u feel if a gal...whom u like since 2 yrs but u haven't been able to talk to her....calls u? I mean what will u feel bout that girl?

2007-04-20 06:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does this happen to anyone else? You say no, but they just woun't drop it or quit hinting and talking sexual? So then you give in and they ask "this what mamma wanted?" "that feel good?" Duh!!!

2007-04-20 06:30:42 · 22 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 06:28:44 · 16 answers · asked by Michele R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whos rejected you to want you?

2007-04-20 06:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 06:27:00 · 12 answers · asked by kellbert06 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating a guy for a while who is of the same religion as I am, and he would accompany me to my religious meetings, we'd sit together, and everyone assumed that we'd be getting married soon. Well, we broke up very recently, but I still have a lot of people coming up to me asking how he's doing, do I have a ring yet, when is the big day, etc. And a lot of them are older friends, so you cant really talk to them like you would your peer. I'm just wondering what the proper answer would be when they ask those questions. I dont want to lie to them and say everythings fine, but then I dont want to go into all the specifics either (which I know they will want to know if I simply tell them that we're no longer seeing each other.) Anyone else in a similar situation, how did you handle the questions and well meaning inquiries?

2007-04-20 06:26:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 06:25:50 · 29 answers · asked by notredamne n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-20 06:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We Have Been Married For 22 Years. I Feel That My Husband Has Really Changed Over The Last Year! What Are Some Signs For Me To Divorce Him And Move On? More Details: He Has To Constantly Go Someplace, He Reads The Paper While I Am Talking, Stays Up Late With Are Kids 19 and 20,Does Not Like Paying The Bills Anymore,Makes A Key For The Kids To Our Apartment I Am The Last To Get A Key. I Have Left Several Times!! But He Calls And Tells Me I Belong At Home Not Where I Went To Stay. He Can Really Be Confusing To Me! Is This A Change In His Age Or Are We Heading For A DIVORE ? It Would Not Be A Problem For Me To Be Divorced.

2007-04-20 06:22:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been unable to meet any new women since the last girl I dated. I'm tempted to try seeing her again. I think she'd be interested because she spontaneously dropped by, about a month ago, to see how I was, after having no contact with each other for about a year.

Pros: she seems to accept me in spite of my flaws, she's a decent person, she's cute

Cons: used to call me literally 20 times a day and want know everything I was doing, which was borderline creepy. She can be very immature and smothering.

If I try her again I feel like I would be "settling" and setting myself up for unpleasantness. On the other hand, I am so sick of being alone and unable to meet anyone new. My gut says stay away from her, you'll be sorry if you don't. But my solitude is killing me!

2007-04-20 06:22:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been dating for a year and things are ok. but when we go out she is all ways second looking b/m. i've asked her about it, but she denies that she was even looking. this is getting to me abit, so what should i do.

2007-04-20 06:20:31 · 23 answers · asked by man 2 in Singles & Dating

When I'm having a cup of tea and I'm dipping chocolate biscuits in, I always leave the biscuit in for too long and it ends up flopping in!

Does anybody else have this problem? Do you find it annoying?

2007-04-20 06:19:50 · 31 answers · asked by Sahra 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm still friends with her other friends but just not her what do i do

2007-04-20 06:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by snowmachine maniac 1 in Singles & Dating

im a 4'11" female American Indian and Hispanic dark brown almost black semi-curly hair golden eyes hourglass figure very athletic
and my bf is 5'3" male Irish and german BRIGHT straight red hair blueish gray eyes, all muscle and works on cars

2007-04-20 06:18:37 · 17 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Singles & Dating

not sure if he's watching the movies or looking to cheat... what do you think? and be easy with your thoughts... i'm already frustrated

2007-04-20 06:18:37 · 1 answers · asked by A W 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my husband and I have this friend. We've always known that we have a crush on each other, but never could do anything of course because I AM MARRIED. We ended up kissing after a night of way to much alcohol...more like making actually, and hugging. No touching, no sex, etc. But we did kiss and now I feel awful and so does he and I don't know if I should tell my husband because I don't want to wreck his friendship with this guy. but I feel so guilty I don't know if I can or should keep it a secret. It just happened 2 days ago. What do I do? Would u want your spouse to tell you or no? Nothing more will come of it, because the friend and i have agreed that we cannot get drunk together anymore, at all. To be honest with you I really like the friend, but know I cannot do that. Anyway, I am a really good girl, NEVER would even think of doing something like this, so I don't label me please. Just tell me what I should do and HOW I should word it if I do tell.

2007-04-20 06:16:00 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love one unkown girl firend. she meet me daily in my dreams. i am confuse? when she will meet me virtually?

2007-04-20 06:13:32 · 2 answers · asked by zubair y 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this boy are friends with benifits and im talking about going out. He broke my Heart 2 times and i stop liking him and he knew so we be all on each other. I feel back 4 him i tell him i love him were talking about going out but I can't have him breaking my heart for the 3rd time.

2007-04-20 06:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by symone j 1 in Friends

I have 3 jobs, my 1st goes to bills, my 2nd goes to buy the kids stuff, and the 3rd goes to pay for my vacation.

2007-04-20 06:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by francinebars 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are there any documents that need to b shown, how much dowry is the man meant to offer and how many witnesses does there have to be?

2007-04-20 06:09:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

List some qualities that makes you want to make that girl your girlfriend?

2007-04-20 06:06:21 · 1 answers · asked by tanya l 1 in Singles & Dating

so when a girl has on a low cut shirt like when you can see her cleavage if the guy is taller and looks down can he see right down her shirt? i think they can because I was talking to someone boy that was ALOT taller then me and he kept looking down and making comments about my boobs. It was kind of awkward. But I know that all boys would stare because they always are staring at someone’s boob or a*s

2007-04-20 06:04:41 · 1 answers · asked by megga789 1 in Singles & Dating

I have my own studio. A situation has come up @ my familys home: My parents rent the house they live in from my grandparents. My grandparents decided that they want the money from the extra house. They want to sell to my parents or my parents need to move. My dad called me w/ this problem & told me my family cant afford a mortgage. He asked me this: He will turn the garage into an apartment for me & if I would rent it out from them so they can pay the mtg. It would look like a regular apartment w/ my own entrance, kitchen & bathrm, ect…so it would be NICE except it would be in the garage of my parents house! Pros: it’d be cheaper & I’d be helping my family out. Cons: it’d be smaller & I’d be living NEXT TO my parents! My family doent want to leave. I dont know about moving basically, IN w/ my family again. What about my HUGE shopping addiction I keep a secret? Theyll SEE me with shopping bags! What about having GUYS over? What if they could HEAR me, YOU know what I mean! I just turned 21, I want to party! Are they going to be questioning me all the time? I LIKE having my own place. But what if I have to say “Lets hang out at my place, but its in my parents garage…” Will I be loosing my freedom? I dont know! Please help?

2007-04-20 05:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a married couple(3years) has bought expensive vechicles during their marriage and the husband has insisted that the titles be worded as John Doe or Jane Doe instead of John and Jane? Husbands credit was worthless and had to use wifes credit score to get loan. Does this mean that he can sell vechicles and the wife has no say?Wht else would he insist on wording title with or instead of and?

2007-04-20 05:55:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's been unfaithful in our marriage once and i suspect that he is now-even though he says he has crossed no boundaries this time-i love him but he says his love for me it not as strong-but he wont move out and he tries to talk to me as if nothing is wrong-but he never tries to spend time with me, or get closer to me-it seems that he has absolutely no feelings for me and it is hurting me so much-i dont understand how he can throw away all the years we have loved and cared for each other....im an attractive woman..very intelligent with a nice income...ive always been by his side....he acts like he only wants to be friends and nothin more with me- but i saw an email where he told some other chic who is also married that he loves her. What is that about? How should i be handling this right now? Lately ive been avoiding him but i miss him so much. How should i deal with this so that i can be at peace while taking care of my kids....he has changed so much and i dont know what to do

2007-04-20 05:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by girlygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 4 yrs not so happily and have a 3 yr old son(possibly not hubbys).Hubby and i got married right out of college and were the perfect couple till hubbys gambling/alchol/partying set in . My hubby cheated on me our first year of marriage and i made the poor choice of having a fling with an ex.bf in retaliation.I got pregnant around this time and we moved to vegas for hubbys job.My son has never had a paternity test done but has the same piercing blue eyes the other man has(hubby and i have bown/hazel) as well as very similar ears/head shape i feel guilt whenever i see my son?Am i crazy could this just be in my head?

2007-04-20 05:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce