Does this happen to anyone else? You say no, but they just woun't drop it or quit hinting and talking sexual? So then you give in and they ask "this what mamma wanted?" "that feel good?" Duh!!!
2007-04-20 06:30:42 · 22 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say "Touch me once more and I'll have you arrested for rape!"
2007-04-20 06:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by canela 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a bigger problem than can be answered here ..
Why are you not interested in it ?
I bet its because you don't get pleasure from him ..
You need to talk to him about how you feel and why ..
but I'm sure he will get mad and accuse you of things that are not true .
You need to talk to a counsel fast ..
I can see trouble ahead if you don't ..
I am thinking he is very domineering and selfish .. so seek professional help ..
He has no right to force you to do things .. that is a mutual thing between couples and when its no longer a mutual feeling you have to get to the root of it ..
and no one can answer that for you ..
see what I mean about asking that here.and some of the answers you will get ... Its difficult for a 15 or 16 year old to help you here ..
2007-04-20 06:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you eventually give in, then he thinks it's just a game you're playing. You say you're not interested in sex, so he tries to get you interested in sex. A healthy sex life can have an amazing affect on a marriage, and sometimes that means doing it even when you're not really feeling in the mood.
2007-04-20 06:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FYI groping and constantly pushing sexual behavior is sexual abuse. One of the reasons I left my husband (there were many reasons). Makes you feel kinda cheap doesn't it? You can try counselling to see if a counsellor can communicate your problem to him in a different way, one that he can understand. Good luck honey. I finally found someone who can express their interest in being intimate to me while still being respectful and we have a fantastic sex life.
2007-04-20 06:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by passionatemilf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by cariotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it back to him. squeeze him hard and say i like it to grope you this way. make him feel like the woman. pinch his nipples, bite it hard. then if he asks what's up with that?
just respond. you gotta give respect to earn respect. baby, i been dis. when i say no, i mean it. when i am not in the mood, i mean. doesn't mean that i don't love you less or anything. it is just a respect for me that you understand my decisions and all.
now get in the room to be punish. :-p just let him know.
a relationship can go both ways. what he does to you, you can respond differently. voice your thoughts. control your emotions.
2007-04-20 06:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by SimplyUniQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 1: was it bad? If not, be quiet.
No. 2: If you are tired of it, stop giving in. You are rewarding his behavior.
And don't let him talk to you like you are his 'ho.
BTW, in a few years you both will be wishing the other one showed more interest more often.
2007-04-20 06:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go sleep in the guest room or the on the couch. He should get the hint that you aren't interested. If that still doesn't work, tell him you're on your period or you have really bad gas! That should get him off your case for a while!
2007-04-20 06:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by oneladyice1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many of us females feel like that. I do. The thing is that you can't tell your spouse that you don't want sex without upsetting him. You have to know what you are going to do, either have sex because he wants it or just don't give in.
2007-04-20 06:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by naddel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Honey, I love you but I really am not in the mood tonight. You have a hand. Use it." If you give in when you didn't really want to say "Of course it isn't for me. I'm doing it because you're lucky."
2007-04-20 06:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He kind of sounds like the sort of guy a girl would want to say no to!
2007-04-20 06:34:27 · answer #11 · answered by Kyle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋