Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

Every morning my husband drinks his coffee and watches sports center while I get both my kids ready and myself for daycare and work. I drop them off and I pick them up to come home do all the cooking, wash laundry, give kids bath and put them to bed. I have left him notes (cause he gets home before me) to help with some chores. He refuses to clean bathrooms, cook or wash dishes. How can I make him understand that I need some help. If I say anything to him I have to scream and start a fight for him to do anything and then it only lasts about a week. We both work full time jobs through the week, but he doesn't even put in part-time on the household chores or with the kids. He says he just doesn't think about doing housework. What can I do.......?

2007-04-20 04:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

HELLO! THATS NOT FAIR> my New rule with men is going to be ''sure we can have sex but its not over til i get mine too'' then and only then would we process. Hmm...maybe i should be like after i get mine then and only then can u get your's...lol..think it will work?

2007-04-20 04:56:04 · 15 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

So what if I am a nympho does that make me a bad person? So what if I have to have it anyway I can does that make me bad? I am still a normal person I just have many needs. I haven't even found anyone to keep up but I enjoy looking. Hey maybe you are the one with the golden ticket?

2007-04-20 04:55:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the greatest thing your man has done for you? Such as gifts, sexual positions etc...?

What is the most unforgivable thing a man can do?

2007-04-20 04:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by Custodian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I gave my ex a lot of things but I don’t really care that much now because they’re gifts from me. But the only thing I wanted back because is the couple ring that we both share. The ones where two rings put together that makes a heart. We both have our names carved into them.

She ended our 2 year relationship and she has a new boyfriend now. She says still has feelings for me but I don’t know if it’s true. I still do have feelings for her.

Should I ask for it back? Or just leave it with her as a memory of us?

How would you girls feel if your ex asks for it back?
Guys would you even ask for it back just to know that she’s over with you by returning it? Actions worth more than words.

2007-04-20 04:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-20 04:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 4 years now and he doesn't give me any reason not to trust him. But I find myself scared that he still has the player in him; and that he's could be sneaky and I just don't know. How do I deal with these feelings of doubt? Especially when there are attractive younger women in is office?

2007-04-20 04:52:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

also please advise me on how to handle the situation, what to do,how to answer him.we have been married for 13 years and over the last few years he has put me down, by saying that i am stupid, good for nothing.i dont work its by mutual choice, we have 2 kids.i have put on a bit of weight over the years, i am not a little over weight, and he calls me beached whale.(i am far from being that) he often shouts at me and orders me around, tells me what to do, by helping him , he gives me small asignments to do.which i do.and if i dont do them to his satisfaction, he tells me i am lazy.
anyway i just wanted peoples output
thanks in advance

2007-04-20 04:50:24 · 27 answers · asked by the s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sorry if this seems a bit long and complicated...but this is....I have been seeing a guy off and on (more off) for over a year now...through this I have had a boyfriend and he has had many girlfriends...yet they always live hours away...but we always seem to end up together at some point...I know how I feel about him and have told him the same...and he always agrees...that things feel different and right when we are together...he tells me that i'm gorgeous...that I have an irresistible charm...that he finds me intriguing big time...everyone comments on our energy when we are in the same room...even strangers...but when I tell him how I am feeling...he always agrees...he says he feels the same...and then says he can't commit at this point..he said he is kinda scared...is this normal..I just don't know how to take this...should I be insulted...or should I back off and give him time to figure this out...just feel like...given how long we have been doing this...he must feel something right

2007-04-20 04:48:42 · 2 answers · asked by kirtleysgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My estranged husband and I have been battling issues for our entire relationship, and it is now definately to the breaking point. Most of the time I feel like an enabler to his bad habits and destructive behavior. But, because I love him, it is difficult for me to say no or be strict with him in any way. He does not have difficulty being tough with me, and it always get's a reaction from me. How can I really toughen up with him, to stop enabling him and envoke a change? I prefer not to "play games" but at this point everyone is telling me to stop enabling him, stop making myself available to him. The nicer and more helpful I am to him, the more distant our relationship gets. Would it really get through to him if I acted the opposite?

2007-04-20 04:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 04:45:24 · 3 answers · asked by Joe T 1 in Friends

texting her, calling her, talking about how great a girl she is, all of sudden drops of your list of priorities. You stop calling her. Wont really return her calls. What happens? There was no specific event that happened, no bad drunk night, cuz the partying is always fun. no bad conversations, cuz we're never at a loss for words with each other, 3-4 hour conversations about everything...Is there a switch that goes off in your head that's like "just kidding, never mind, moving on" Thanks for your help...

2007-04-20 04:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you and your girlfriend had an altercation which she was hitting slapping you and you grab her neck and wrists to get her to stop. then you leave and she calls the cops. you now have charges pressed against you (there is nothing she can do b/c it's up to the state). you have to go to jail and spend over $4000 on lawyers and bond. your gf is trying everything she can do to get the charges dropped, but there is no guarantee. you have a chance of getting kicked out of the military and failing your classes this semester b/c of this.

would you consider taking her back after this is all said and done? or would you consider the relationship to be over?

2007-04-20 04:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by HelenKeller 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have been together for awhile and we have a 10 month old first of all. A few weeks ago it would have been his mother's birthday and he told me he was going to visit her grave and he said he would try to be home soon, I said he could take his time if he wanted. He came home an hour and a half later (he went to a town about 20 minutes away, not even). I said nothing because I knew he was close to her. Later that night he said he had gone to the bar and I still said nothing because I thought nothing of it (its a stressful and sad day for him). He also said he went to meet with a female co-worker, which I really didn't like and all I said to him was it makes me uncomfortable. He blew up and started yelling that I don't want him to hang out with any female friends, etc, etc. Well, this female friend in particular works 12 hour days with him and she is one of the 3 people he never shuts up about and she is also the only person he never complains about. Who went out of line?

2007-04-20 04:42:13 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say you are at the bar with a bunch of friends. You buy a round of drinks and include "whatever the gentleman at the end of the bar is having". He comes over and you talk with him all night. The two of you close the bar and end up back at his place. You end up talking for quite sometime and learn alot about one another. The making out starts and it leads to the bedroom where you tell him that you're not ready to "sleep with him". He says that he is ok with that. You start talking again and the next thing you know its back to making out...and then you give in to your own hormones flying and sleep with him. The both of you fall asleep and you sneak out in the AM before he's awake. Should you call him or should you wait to hear from him?

2007-04-20 04:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by The girl next door 1 in Singles & Dating

well today he was really sweet, but the last few days i've talked to him for about a half hour and he's acting really indifferent. what can i do to make our relationship better again?

2007-04-20 04:36:27 · 22 answers · asked by nicole r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 04:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by TANYA C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were to answer HONESTLY would u find a girl that was 130 pounds, hour glass shaped body, 5'4, an okay looking face, as someone you would go out with? She's fun to be around, likes to have fun, knows when to be serious and polite and all dat sh**. The only thing she listens to is rapp and she really wants to get ganstas but she doesn't know how. But she dresses like what people would call 'a prep' though she hates them!
HOw would she get gangstas?
Do you think she's attractive??

2007-04-20 04:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

During a recent conversation my husban informed me that i was a witch (only the word he used began with b). he also said that many of the people at work share this opinion, which is why he doesn't like asking to lunch when several people go together. (it is important to mention here that my husband & i work for the same company.) I moped a few days. then told him he really hurt my feelings. he didn't say sorry or anything just "well, you are a b****. you always sound like one when you talk to me." i really do try to be nice. I just need some advice.

2007-04-20 04:29:53 · 66 answers · asked by sparkly fire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok hear the trouble i try to keep the tolet seat up i keep telling my wife when she done lift the seat so i don't have to but no she leave it down every time and then she yell at me becuse it up so what must i do to train her help

2007-04-20 04:26:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Someone drew a smiley face onto my husbands rear car window. A big one. Who would do this? Why? Is it a girlfriend?
Seriously this is odd. ideas please.

2007-04-20 04:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by undone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with my partner, before my divorce he said he would marry me in a minute. now i am divorced he seems to have forgotten. how do i gently remind him? he dosnt catch on to subtle hints and ignores jewellery catalogues !!

2007-04-20 04:25:17 · 28 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Weddings

PLEASE only mature advice, no stupid answers!! If you don't have something good or nice to say, DON'T answer!

ps. I am 25 he is 29 and we both have been engaged in the past and obviously they didn't work out. Now we found each other and are in love.....so now what? I want the whole marriage and family situation sooooooooo bad!

2007-04-20 04:23:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I busted my live in bf of 5 yrs cheating. We decided to work things out. I still go thru his phone for my own satisfaction. He knows this and doesnt like it. This morning I went thru his phone and it was locked. What are you thoughts?

2007-04-20 04:23:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please do you believe that a full grown adult can be taken away?like a man taking away another man"s wife.i personally don"t believe that a fully grown human being can be taken away because we have our own will-power and we must exercise it by saying yes or no and maintaining it.we choose our actions.i believe that it is only inanimate objects that can be taken away,but i am living and active with my own will and power of choice which i exercise daily. i need your sincere opinion..

2007-04-20 04:19:27 · 12 answers · asked by bestofyou 3 in Marriage & Divorce

attended a social event last evening, once again my "friends" attempted to set me up with another woman. Its been going on for about 2 yrs now, when will they understand that I'm not looking at this time and just let me enjoy their company. And yes, I am NOT gay..lol.

2007-04-20 04:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of days ago it looked like I was going to leave school and a mate of mine told me he had feelings for me but A change of events mean't I wasn't going to leave school. Yesterday another mate of mine showed me this website and that the boy in perticular had posted some questions on here about me. I don't love him but should I go out with him to make him happy? I like another lad though. I feel so confused and gulity.

2007-04-20 04:17:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-20 04:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

funny how they always find what's in their pants to play with!!!

2007-04-20 04:15:15 · 9 answers · asked by mimsy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

help me please

2007-04-20 04:14:00 · 17 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2 in Singles & Dating