A couple of days ago it looked like I was going to leave school and a mate of mine told me he had feelings for me but A change of events mean't I wasn't going to leave school. Yesterday another mate of mine showed me this website and that the boy in perticular had posted some questions on here about me. I don't love him but should I go out with him to make him happy? I like another lad though. I feel so confused and gulity.
2007-04-20 04:17:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why guilty? you didn't do anything..
it's up to you, but think about it, would you want a guy go out with you just out of pity? i guess not... & it won't be fair for him too. but then again, what if you gave it a try & ended up liking him? so my suggestion is, maybe just one friendly date.. & be sure to make it clear that it's just a friendly one, & since you're not all that crazy about him, avoid making moves that you know will melt his heart. just be you & treat it like you're hanging out with one of your friends. that way, you don't have thoughts of what might have been. & if it didn't turn out well, just tell him so you don't make him hang on & make a fool out of him
2007-04-20 04:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your day tell her in no uncertain words no you do not want to have her kids in the bridal party. She could spend the money herself and hire fancy suits for the boys and a pretty dress for the girl. My sister wanted her daughter to be a bridesmaid at my wedding but with 12 nieces and nephews at the time it wasn't fair to do different rules for different people, I had said for a long time that when I got married I would have the oldest child from each family, that meant her eldest was my page boy and the eldest from the other two were bridesmaids. She did however get an extremely fancy dress for her daughter and a bag the same as the bridesmaids had! I didn't mind that because she had paid out the money and I didn't have to organise another person.
2016-05-19 21:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please...i used to feel like u...i am so nice tht i want to make others happy and sometimes i can't say no, but i don't think u should go out with him if u really don't want to and instead focus on doing what makes u happy! You will be happier in the end...
2007-04-20 04:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by hottie742 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess what you have to do is really sit down and weight out your options.
I mean...do you like the guy. I don't think it is a matter of loving him. You can go out with someone and have a good time and not love him.
You do have to give him the respect of telling you how he feels about you.
2007-04-20 04:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Twan says
No, not to make him happy but to make yourself happy if you want another lad. Test the waters and see if you can see yourself with him in the future. If not move on nothing to worry about. No confusion no feeling guilty
2007-04-20 04:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Twan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Dont go out with him id u dont love him. Bcoz no matter what u tell to him he will think that u love him but ur confuse and hiding ur feelings for him.
If u go out with him, he will love u more and when u will try to go away from him, it will really hard for him to accept the fact that u dont love him, he will be sad and confused. so just stay away from him. I hope u understood my explaination.. I find it myself very confusing. lol
2007-04-20 04:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by smile always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, ever go out with an individual because you feel guilty. It means you never really like him and only want to make him happy.
Always put yourself first, make sure you're happy before you go and decide to make someone else happy.
2007-04-20 04:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by TheAnesthesiologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go out with a guy just to make him happy!!!! You have nothing to feel guilty about, you haven't done anything!!!
Tell this guy that you are happy to be his friend and nothing more.
2007-04-20 04:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not go out with him to make him happy. You do what you want to do,why not ask this other boy out if you like him.
2007-04-20 04:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by sandra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what hve u 2 feel guilty 4,the only thing u have 2 consider is do
u like him,if u dont then walk away,u must put your self first.
2007-04-20 04:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋