I gave my ex a lot of things but I don’t really care that much now because they’re gifts from me. But the only thing I wanted back because is the couple ring that we both share. The ones where two rings put together that makes a heart. We both have our names carved into them.
She ended our 2 year relationship and she has a new boyfriend now. She says still has feelings for me but I don’t know if it’s true. I still do have feelings for her.
Should I ask for it back? Or just leave it with her as a memory of us?
How would you girls feel if your ex asks for it back?
Guys would you even ask for it back just to know that she’s over with you by returning it? Actions worth more than words.
2007-04-20 04:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm - Actually, do you know what I would do?
I would give her the other half - what good is it to you? Let it be a thorn in the side of the new man.
2007-04-20 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boo, do NOT ask for it back. not because of any weird ownership or ettiquette clause, but why would you want to do that to yourself? let's say you ask and she gladly hands it over. great. now you've got a little piece of heartbreak, every time you look at it. all it will be is a little reminder of how things didn't work out. i say out of site, out of mind. im sorry things turned out the way they did for you, but at the same time, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and i think if you had that ring, you would actually be preventing yourself from making a healthy recovery. and that's not fair to the next very lucky lady im sure is in your future. the ring is nothing more than what you said....a memory. and let it be just that.
now if she ever offers to give it back to you, then you should take it and put it away, but don't you dare give it to another girl. that's wrong on so many levels, i can't even begin to explain.
2007-04-20 05:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by shoes_are_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still want to get back together with her? even though she ended it with you? I say dont ask for it back if it was Given to her by you... you cant give something to someone then when things dont work just ask for it back! plus if you get together with someone else you will have this ring with you and another girls name on it?? I say just leave it alone. leave her alone that's pretty bad of her to leave you now she's with someone else but still telling you she still has feelings for you???? so if you get back together will she say the same thing to this guy she's with now?
2007-04-20 05:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marshelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ring is not the problem. The issue is since she has bf now, perhaps u can consider to move on. She can't step on 2 boats the same time. Its important to understand what's wrong with your relationship, unless it can be solved, it won't last long.
2007-04-20 05:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask her to either give it back to you OR to give it to the Salvation Army. You don't need to be reminded of things that turned out bad. You need to have a fresh start anyway.
2007-04-20 05:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man to tell you the truth i would ask it back just because you can always melt it when you have a new girlfriend that REALLY LOVES you then you can share that ring you feel!
2007-04-20 05:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the ring is a problem for you - get it back. Maybe once she's engaged she'll give it back to you.
2007-04-21 23:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err...................................Are you socially retarded?
2007-04-20 08:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋