texting her, calling her, talking about how great a girl she is, all of sudden drops of your list of priorities. You stop calling her. Wont really return her calls. What happens? There was no specific event that happened, no bad drunk night, cuz the partying is always fun. no bad conversations, cuz we're never at a loss for words with each other, 3-4 hour conversations about everything...Is there a switch that goes off in your head that's like "just kidding, never mind, moving on" Thanks for your help...
2007-04-20 04:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We only want what we can't have. As soon as she starts to want us, we dream of other things. It isn't fair or makes any sense. Hormones are hard to deal with in both sexes.
2007-04-20 04:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's a couple options:
1) You did/said something that made him re-evaluate you as his choice of a partner in the relationship.
2) He's tired of being the one to make the contact. You said he called, text-ed, complimented, etc maybe he feels like you did not reciprocate. I've actually done this before, honestly a relationship is a partnership and responsibilities should be shared. I don't understand some girls with regards to this, I've had girls get mad at me for not calling them, I simply responded that the phone works both ways if you really want to talk then make the call.
3) He made it very vocal that he liked you. Although you didn't let us know just how deep/far this relationship is, another possibility is the fact that you did not reciprocate your feelings for him. Some guys are quick to move onto a new girl if they feel like the girl is not feeling him, that's something guys can't change and thus move on to a more receptive girl.
Hope this helps
2007-04-20 04:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like a kid with a new toy...( sorry but it is the best description) When you first get the toy it is new, it completely takes over you thoughts, then you have played with it and it is not so special. YOU LOVE THE TOY, BUT THERE ARE OTHER DISTRACTIONS. It is called your ID it is the inner child. When I met my wife I doded on her, did romantic things, called her all the time etc. but now we are more like a married couple....sure if I think of it I still do the little things and the special things, but the problem is I do not think of them so much. ( Which reminds me now to do something romantic for her tonight!) We get so distacted by all the things going on around us that we lose focus on what is the most important for what is the most urgent. It is like a dog with three bones...he cant make up his mind on which one to have. That I think is a large part as to why men tend to cheat so much, womens Id developes at a better pace and we are sometimes little boys at an older age. It is no reflection on you, it is just a male trait. Look at other species and you will see the same thing, dogs, lions, cats, whatever the male runs around spreading seeds to grow the race, we have the ability to control ourselves...but are not taught how.
2007-04-20 05:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by leachnissan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason it's called dating...
Maybe he got tired waiting...happens to everyone.
Maybe he realized that the two of you are not a good match...takes a while to figure that out.
Maybe he got what he wanted and now doesn't want to put up with you anymore...this one would be your fault for picking poorly.
There are lots of reason, most are your fault. You just don't want to see it that way. He is human, they don't change quickly if at all. Either he was pretending to begin with and you bought it hook line and sinker, or you did something to change his mind.
2007-04-20 04:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it all depends, see, every thing is okay untill that girl stay in mind ( not heart), the moment he gets new one, or get annoyed with previous one, he shifts. the best possible way out is always find a place in hear rather than mind
2007-04-20 04:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by cool guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has not responded, they may think she is not as interested in him, as he is in her, and therefore, he will cut it back so that he is not stalking or bothering her.
most people will not put forth the effort if they dont get it back.
your best bet is to talk to people rather than assume what they are thinking. good luck.
2007-04-20 04:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That usually happens when the dude finds out you slept with some dork or a black guy.
2007-04-20 04:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some guys if they dont get what they want after a certain time period they move on to there next victem or what that guy common sence said could be it too
2007-04-20 04:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by tigger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he talked to one of his boys and they told him that if he stopped talking to you for a bit it would step up your relationship now this isnt exactly great advice most of the time but you are on here so i see it did kind of work.
2007-04-20 04:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was playing you and got what he wanted, now he is moving on.
2007-04-20 04:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋