Family & Relationships - 20 April 2007

Hi. I live with my sister and dad (divorce). Me and my sister get along ok (we have the occasional sibling fights, but thats about it). Lately she seems to be following the trend of low-rise jeans. Frankly I wouldn't care, except she's ALWAYS SHOWING HER BUTT OR HER UNDERWEAR!

Honestly, some days if say we are doing spring cleaning, I'll unintentionally get half mooned at by her or find out what color underwear she is wearing. I feel tempted to yell "crack kills" or make fun of her underwear, something like that.

Real reason though, I care for my sister and she being 16, I do not want other guys (or older men) to look at her as a sex toy.

How should I convince her to stop wearing low risers, or at least get a belt? One of her female friends once stuck a pencil down her underwear (and I was the one to point out minutes later), but other than that, nothing seems to deter her from wearing them.

*Sigh* Seriously I am tired of seeing her underwear/crack...

Thanks!

2007-04-20 02:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Adam K 1 in Family

I have my friend weeding coming up soon and we want to contract a female escort so he can hang out ( I mean have sex) before the weeding but I want to make sure that is legal before I hire somebody for him...............

2007-04-20 02:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hustle by any means *****!first i take they order like the coffee shop
then i steam it up and cook it like the coffee shop
and then i serve it out the window like the coffee shop
[yea im comin in got my rims sittin real big]
and it aint no returns at the coffee shop
man i make that paper stack up at my coffee shop
one hit n they'll be back to the coffee shop
[yea im comin in got my rims sittin real big]okayy
its just another day at the coffee shop
i grab them coffee beans, time to heat them coffee pots
turn them lights on, j's rush the parkin lot
this the neighborhoods number one stop n shop
no regular, we only serve the best
for the low low, cheaper than the rest!
im takin orders, tell me whos next
only cash, no credit, no checks
when your car stop, welcome to starblocks
you wanna triple your knot? invest in our stock
n now we doin numbers, like the closeout
make sure you shop wit me, before its sold out

2007-04-20 02:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy for about 2 weeks. I like him so much. He told me that he is engaged (he lives with his gf).
He asked me out for a coffee and from that day (when he told me he was engaged) I didn't want to date him anymore.
He calls me 10 times a day and always asks me to go out with him.
I know that what he wants is just SEX.
I have to admit that I like him so much... but is it right to have a relationship based on sex only?
My friends tell me that being the fact that I don't have a bf, I should at least have a "lover".
This would make me feel like a slut.
They say that nowadays it's just "normal being "carefree"...
I'm 25 yrs old and I don't think having sex with any man is the "right" thing. Is the way I percive sex and love an out-of-date one?
Am I being too conservative?

I would really appreciate your help and opinions.
Thank you

2007-04-20 02:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a narcissist for 2 years and have been desperately trying to end the relationship for the past 6-8 months. I've reached my end this week and am thinking about spending the weekend with a girlfriend of mine that he doesn't know where she lives. I normally wouldn't do something like this, but we live in the same condo complex and he lives in the building next door. What do you guys think? Should I spend the weekend with my friend?

2007-04-20 02:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by shelia91 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, how do you define a guy is possessive and would avoid him in a relationship?
My case is this: I like this girl and I see her daily at work and go for lunch together almost everyday. She treats me like a friend and already told me that she do not want to commit into a relationship with me. I would really like her to be my girlfriend hang out with her frequently.

When it rained and we are out together, I carry a big umbrella so that she don't get caught in rain.

I text her frequently wishing her to sleep well and sweet dreams.

When she work late, I stayed with her until she is ready to leave for home.

If she needs me, I will stand by her. No matter how busy I am.

When she is in danger, I grabbed her hand and pull her away.

If she is blocking someone in the supermart, I try to shift her away from the person's path.

When she is feeling down, I ask her what happened, I try to cheer her up.

On special occasions, I handcrafted something paper flower origamis for her.

Possessive?

2007-04-20 02:06:44 · 4 answers · asked by warrax 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to grill out with some friends. Have few beers and hang out around the fire pit.

2007-04-20 02:06:20 · 25 answers · asked by Hung 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that I like him. But I don't know about his feelings for me.

2007-04-20 02:04:10 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 02:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by ArcticArmadillo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He said he wanted to come over but never showed or called. Should I just leave him alone (I have only wrote him once and called a few times He knows I love him and I am not mad.) for a while or should I continue to try and contact him? I think his mother is briawashing him against me. She is getting child support after 14 years. Before this he lived with me every other week since he was 1 year old!!!

2007-04-20 01:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by wils81crue 1 in Family

When we have kids singing on this popular song?
hustle by any means *****!first i take they order like the coffee shop
then i steam it up and cook it like the coffee shop
and then i serve it out the window like the coffee shop
[yea im comin in got my rims sittin real big]
and it aint no returns at the coffee shop
man i make that paper stack up at my coffee shop
one hit n they'll be back to the coffee shop
[yea im comin in got my rims sittin real big]okayy
its just another day at the coffee shop
i grab them coffee beans, time to heat them coffee pots
turn them lights on, j's rush the parkin lot
this the neighborhoods number one stop n shop
no regular, we only serve the best
for the low low, cheaper than the rest!
im takin orders, tell me whos next
only cash, no credit, no checks
when your car stop, welcome to starblocks
you wanna triple your knot? invest in our stock
n now we doin numbers, like the closeout
make sure you shop wit me, before its sold out

2007-04-20 01:57:25 · 1 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Never seen any at the weddings I went to. I saw lots of cool ones one the food network, why are they given?

2007-04-20 01:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Anyone can teach me how to overcome the fear of being contact back to someone that is so long hasnt talk for?

2007-04-20 01:54:44 · 3 answers · asked by jACKSON 2 in Friends

2007-04-20 01:53:38 · 27 answers · asked by mads_mad143 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I’ve been a damn good friend to her, if I say so myself. I’m her only friend. She’s very interested in my life and current affairs, and asks the usual sort of weekly things, etc. However, when it’s my time to ask her how life is, etc, she clams up! For example, I ask her if she’s going to be working this Saturday and she’ll say, “We’ll see”. Also, once, she asked me what time I leave for work and naturally I told her. When I asked what time she leaves she said, “When I’m ready”. She went on holiday a few years ago, near the same place where I’m going next month, and I couldn’t remember where she went exactly and just wanted some holiday tips, etc. When I asked her if it was Cornwall, she said “No”. When I asked her if it was Somerset or Devon she replied, “No”. When I did ask her whereabouts it was, she said, “In between the three of those”. Am I mad to continue with her or is she the mad one?

2007-04-20 01:49:40 · 8 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Friends

2007-04-20 01:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by tad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well the i guy i was with is now with some one else and the girl so dont even worry a bout thats and thats the one thing i love most and to day is my birth day and i just want to cry....i love him and i all way will...

2007-04-20 01:45:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you walk through the darkness when they asked too be forgiven and you are left with soo much hurt and pain and feel their pain so great....

2007-04-20 01:44:48 · 10 answers · asked by Desert Rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm coming to the realization that i may in fact also be an abuser in my marriage. i always felt like i wasnt a violent individual unless seriously provoked..for example trying to avoid a horrible fight by leaving and having the door blocked or my keys taken away, i would push him out of the way. Last night i was in the car, keys in the ignition ready to just run from the horrible fight that was to come and he came flying into the car, ripped the keys out of the ignition and i lashed out trying to get the keys back, well without intention and this is the truth i accidentally hit him in the jaw. I never expected a full blown punch to the face. He said sorry & is now saying well you hit me first i was teaching you that you arent allowed to hit me and get away with it. I feel like im the crazy one and it is in fact my fault. I know deep down that this is a bad situation but he's been to Iraq twice and has had a hard time, i feel like i owe it to him to be there when he needs me.

2007-04-20 01:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by skyedink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with a colleague of mine, & just recently found out that the feeling was mutual. We've shared a few passionate kisses and loads of hugs, but there's been no sex yet. B4 we started dating, he was very friendly with another female colleague of ours. I'd always feared that he likes her more than he does me, cos she's so feminine & nice & cos i see him going out of his way to relate with her (while it seems to me that he responds to me rather than initiates intimacy - i've mentioned the latter part to him & he said that's because he's very shy). The problem is that whenever i see them together, i freak out. I just grow cold & move away from them. The lady in question is also my friend, but she doesn't know that there's anything btw this guy & i. I feel terrible, cos i think my man has noticed that i act that way, possibly the lady has noticed too. Another friend of mine advised that i talk to him abt it, & tell him i was uncomfortable with seeing the two of them together.

2007-04-20 01:38:07 · 7 answers · asked by Hmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

I came across a company who sells pheremone sprays. They claim that once a few drops are applied to the neck, women go crazy without knowing why. They also have pheremones for ladies to use. They recommend it to sales people who need to close crucial sales deals. Seems unfair but if it works, why not?

2007-04-20 01:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Singles & Dating

i have to make a poem.. about a girl who likes teddy bear. the girl is childish, and the girl is really in love with one guy. how do you make a poem with that informations?

urgent!!

2007-04-20 01:37:17 · 7 answers · asked by DiTz! 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a dumb question kind of.
He wants me to pick something fun we could do because we both can't think of anything.
So I decided to post this question while I'm trying to think so I could get a few ideas.

So if you have any cute ideas, tell me.

2007-04-20 01:35:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 01:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I had to explain

If I had to explain how I feel about you,
I don't know what I'd say.
What words do you use to tell a girl
she’s perfect in every way?

I guess I would start by saying;
your smile brightens the darkest days.
Then I would thank you,
for changing my life in so many ways.

I'd say to you that I miss you,
every minute you're not near.
To me, the reasons I miss you,
they are crystal clear.

Every time we are together,
It seems as if time stops.
Every time we are apart,
My heart slowly drops.

The relationship we have formed,
Is one I've only dreamt about.
My life is perfect with you in it,
And I can't imagine living without.

The words aren't present,
For me to share.
But you surely are,
the answer to my prayer.

by dennis bousquet

2007-04-20 01:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by the doctor 2 in Singles & Dating

i anted to know what you were going to do.

2007-04-20 01:33:40 · 2 answers · asked by adrian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it possible that two people think they are divoced they filed the papers went throw all the bliss and to find a year or two later that it never went throw

2007-04-20 01:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

THIS DISGUSTING PIG HAS CAUSED MORE HEARTACHE FOR HIS FAMILY...should the call have been leaked???????

2007-04-20 01:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by sharpneedleinahaystack 1 in Friends

what type of guys do latinas find attractive,where can I find places where sexy spanish women hang out

2007-04-20 01:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-20 01:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating