I've known this guy for about 2 weeks. I like him so much. He told me that he is engaged (he lives with his gf).
He asked me out for a coffee and from that day (when he told me he was engaged) I didn't want to date him anymore.
He calls me 10 times a day and always asks me to go out with him.
I know that what he wants is just SEX.
I have to admit that I like him so much... but is it right to have a relationship based on sex only?
My friends tell me that being the fact that I don't have a bf, I should at least have a "lover".
This would make me feel like a slut.
They say that nowadays it's just "normal being "carefree"...
I'm 25 yrs old and I don't think having sex with any man is the "right" thing. Is the way I percive sex and love an out-of-date one?
Am I being too conservative?
I would really appreciate your help and opinions.
Thank you
2007-04-20 02:11:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not, your of the right state of mind. Society has been painting a bad path in life for a very, very long time. I hate to amitted it but it happen with the loss of religion and with this development of the fact that sex can be causal.... it can not be... in order for it to seem to be causal the individuals invovled would have to be dealing with extreme detachment disorder which would mean it wasn't emotionaless as much as the emotions invovle were completely denied. I'm 25 years old myself and I'd have to say that the truth is since its the standard norm your acutal not conservative, but liberal. I know, I know the fact is in an insane world, the sane look crazy! So keep this up, understand to that this guy is a jerk, he has a gf he lives with and all he wants is to have a sexual relationship with you? Is his lack of intimacy in his life your fault? If you have sex it well be! Just keep this frame of mind up, and understand that your doing better going aganist society, then with it on this one.... don't let our MTV generation stir you wrong, I havn't and I can't put into worlds what it has done for me, good luck!
2007-04-20 05:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms have a communication with him and enable him recognize precisely the way you sense. A courting should not be depending in person-friendly words on sex. You sorta contradicted your self too. You stated he's been there for you and helped you via extremely some issues...it truly is not any longer being depending fullyyt on sex.
2016-12-04 08:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all but too he's engaged he would be cheating on his soon to be wife.... thats not a good start to a marriage but no i dont think a relationship should be all about sex there has to be something else.....do you really want to be used for sex....cause thats what it sounds like would be happening
2007-04-20 04:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋